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Seemyheart
December 9th, 2013, 01:27 AM
When is it TOO early to have sex with your bf/gf?

Would 5 months be ok...or is that too early

Plasma
December 9th, 2013, 01:37 AM
I don't think there is a "too early". It's just whenever you both feel ready and are comfortable with each other.

Seemyheart
December 9th, 2013, 02:45 AM
well I don't wanna be labelled as a girl who puts out easily.

Living For Love
December 9th, 2013, 05:32 PM
You just do it when you and your partner feel confortable with it, and you don't have to pay attention to what other people say. Nobody needs to know about your sexual life anyway.

Harley Quinn
December 9th, 2013, 06:26 PM
well I don't wanna be labelled as a girl who puts out easily.

Stop worrying about labels and just live your life. At the end of the day, it's your choice when and what happens. If you feel comfortable with it, likewise with your partner, don't worry about when is too soon.

Datguy1
December 9th, 2013, 07:02 PM
when ever you and your partner is ready there really is no (to early)

Berad
December 9th, 2013, 07:06 PM
I wouldn't say that's too early.
As long as you're comfortable and it's your decision (not a decision based of pressure). :)

ksdnfkfr
December 9th, 2013, 07:15 PM
well I don't wanna be labelled as a girl who puts out easily.

Then don't actually be one. But don't fuss over labels.
I think that you are questioning it means you are not one.

Synyster Shadows
December 9th, 2013, 07:51 PM
Just go for it when you and your partner are ready. Five months? If you feel ready, I don't see why not; just be safe

skiman
December 9th, 2013, 07:54 PM
depends how old you are. 5 months seems ok... idk...synyster shadows has it right..

Seemyheart
December 9th, 2013, 09:42 PM
Well.. it would be the first time...
He said he's letting me decide, but it's not just MY decision

As for my age, I'm 15

Cassius
December 10th, 2013, 12:04 AM
I believe you should wait until marriage although its whenever you're comfortable

Seemyheart
December 10th, 2013, 07:53 AM
I believe you should wait until marriage although its whenever you're comfortable

We discussed that, I thought it would be a cool idea to wait until then, and he said "well I can see us getting married in the future, so why not now?"

YOUR BROTHER
December 10th, 2013, 07:56 AM
not there is not a too early

Cassius
December 10th, 2013, 10:30 PM
We discussed that, I thought it would be a cool idea to wait until then, and he said "well I can see us getting married in the future, so why not now?"

Because, I could possibly see mmyself marrying my current girlfriend but who knows what could happen? I mean, life goes not always as planned, you know that.

LouBerry
December 10th, 2013, 10:32 PM
When is it TOO early to have sex with your bf/gf?

Would 5 months be ok...or is that too early

If you are both ready, there is no "too early" or anything like that. Personally, I would wait a year, but again, it's different for every couple.

Seemyheart
December 10th, 2013, 11:32 PM
If you are both ready, there is no "too early" or anything like that. Personally, I would wait a year, but again, it's different for every couple.

I mean... I thought I was ready, but then now I'm not 100% sure

Cassius
December 11th, 2013, 12:25 AM
If you arent 100%, don't do it

Myxox
December 25th, 2013, 09:27 PM
Wait until it feels right, but nothing less than two weeks.