Sex pain

[Ginganinja]

Hey ladies. So my girlfriend of two years and I recently had sex for the first time. She was in a lot of pain and I felt very bad about it so we waited about a month and we did it again. She Haden's been over and we were just busy. So a couple days ago we did it again and she was still in pain. I thought it was only going to hurt the first time. And how long is it going to hurt her? Is there anything I can do to help it hurt less? We already go at her pace and she's on top to control the depth. Please help me girls. Thank you

[shotgungirl]

Sex didn't stop hurting for me until about the 5 or 6th time. It depends. Some people it never hurts, some people it hurts for a while.

[hoboliz]

It depends a lot on what kind of pain she's having. And where exactly she's hurting. There's a lot of things it can be, and if it's too bad she might want to talk to her doctor.

[cherylcherylX2]

Ask her about where the pain is coming from, and how the pain feels.

[Quick_Sylver]

Are you doing enough foreplay? Perhaps you may need to invest in lube.

Where she's hurting, and how she's hurting are important. If she's controlling the depth, part of the pain may be the hymen -almost- breaking, or an angle that doesn't work with her... cervix? I think that's what it's called.

You both should go to a clinic to find out what's going on, assuming she wants you with her. If you continue without finding out -why- it's hurting/where, there's a chance of internal bleeding for her. If there's internal bleeding, she could die. There's a reason bodies feel pain - so they don't die.

[gliderman]

If it continues like that, maybe go and see a doctor :)

[anyone50]

Not an easy topic to give advise on sense you give limited information about your sexual encounters with your GF. She could be having pain during sex from a wide range of reasons everywhere from your size to the amount of foreplay before penetration. Then there are different medical conditions that can make intercourse painful for the girl. My advise to you is maybe slow things down a little until she has a chance to figure out what the problem is.

[Cowboycalfroper70]

Foreplay. Lube. And patients

[Ginganinja]

We do lots of foreplay. We will give lube a try thanks everyone

[SweetFab]

Just take it easy, play a lot before, and start slowly. It hurted me a bit too during my first times, but then you get used to it and the pain just "disappears" ;)

[Bree]

Yeah take it slow at first and gradually go faster. Or let her be on top so she can control whats right for her.

[JonBarleyCorn]

Are you using tongue first? If not, do it. Nothing wrong with a little extra lube too -- first times. If the front keeps hurting -- learn anal. Some girls with extra tight front can be awesome at anal. But make sure you do it right. Google how to. Plenty of info.

[PurpleLips]

my first time didn't hurt at all, so i cant help you:(