MissSocks
December 8th, 2013, 01:35 PM
Okay so, it's a long story, but I'll do as short a version as possible for you guys.
So four years ago I met this guy, and pretty quickly we became friends and over time he became my best friend. We liked each other but I am an awkward person by nature and I was only 14 so I was afraid of doing anything. I could talk - and still can - about everything with this guy, but you know physical things were a problem. :yes:
Anyway! So after about two years of beating around the bush he wasn't that interested in me anymore, as a girlfriend at least. So we kind of got into arguments and then suddenly he had a girlfriend. I was completely heart broken and that was the first time I realized I actually really loved him, but that I had taken him for granted before. So idk, I guess we're both to blame there.
And so now, I have spend the last two years trying to get over him, and I have had loads and loads of tears and breakdowns and whatever you've got of that. I have gotten over him for like half of it, because there is still something left. And that's really annoying me, because he is still my best friend and he wants to talk to me about his girlfriend as well. I mean I let him talk about her, because I like her too, she's a nice girl and all, but it still hurts a little when we talk about her.
So what do you guys think, will I ever completely get over him while I continue to talk to him or do you think I should give up on my friendship for the sake of healing old wounds?
So four years ago I met this guy, and pretty quickly we became friends and over time he became my best friend. We liked each other but I am an awkward person by nature and I was only 14 so I was afraid of doing anything. I could talk - and still can - about everything with this guy, but you know physical things were a problem. :yes:
Anyway! So after about two years of beating around the bush he wasn't that interested in me anymore, as a girlfriend at least. So we kind of got into arguments and then suddenly he had a girlfriend. I was completely heart broken and that was the first time I realized I actually really loved him, but that I had taken him for granted before. So idk, I guess we're both to blame there.
And so now, I have spend the last two years trying to get over him, and I have had loads and loads of tears and breakdowns and whatever you've got of that. I have gotten over him for like half of it, because there is still something left. And that's really annoying me, because he is still my best friend and he wants to talk to me about his girlfriend as well. I mean I let him talk about her, because I like her too, she's a nice girl and all, but it still hurts a little when we talk about her.
So what do you guys think, will I ever completely get over him while I continue to talk to him or do you think I should give up on my friendship for the sake of healing old wounds?