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HistoricWrath
December 7th, 2013, 05:07 PM
So there's this girl that I like. We have three classes together and we see each other everyday at school and talk everyday, but usually not more than basic small talk. I want to try to become better friends with her and hopefully be a bit more than a friend but I don't know how to initiate conversation or get closer to her without it coming across as weird. We rarely text and I feel like it would be weird if she just got a text from me out of the blue saying hey or whatever. So what should I do? Any and at all help would be greatly appreciated.

Melodic
December 7th, 2013, 05:33 PM
Well if you have three classes together, talk about your classes, teachers, or assignments. Ask what her interests are. There's plenty of conversations out there you can talk about. Compliment her on her T-Shirt or Whatever. If you show her your attention, it may ease things a lot.

highschool
December 8th, 2013, 11:33 AM
are your classes back-to-back? cause you could walk to class with her. Do you sit next to her in any of your classes? cause then you could just start some small-talk and add from there.

ksdnfkfr
December 8th, 2013, 11:48 AM
Maybe just relax and make casual small talk with her.
There is nothing weird about that. Act the same way with
her as you would if you liked her but was not attracted to her.

Cassius
December 8th, 2013, 11:17 PM
Ask about her interests, then initiate more talk

skiman
December 8th, 2013, 11:19 PM
Ask her out!!! Do it do it do it! But not right now... Walk to classes with her, talk to her, get her something cool for christmas or something. Ask her out before winter break to give her some time.

SergeantSassy
December 9th, 2013, 12:00 AM
Honestly that's probably what you should do! Just get the courage to say hey and just talk to her. It might be awkward or weird at first but that might just be because you're nervous. I suggest just basic small talk and see how it goes from there, if it goes well, ask her things about herself and get to know her :)