My sisters boyfriend

[jenna123]

Hi, ive got a sister 2 years older than me and ive always had a huge crush on her boyfriend. I didnt do anything ofc because its my sister. But he was always very friendly and nice towards me, and we had lots in common and i got to know him pretty well ( he dated my sister for almost 2 years). But now theyve broken up recently, and i wonder if i should make a move on him, but i fear as to how my sister will react. Should i talk to her first?

[lassi]

I know you may like this guy a lot but I really don't think you should date him. There are other guys out here. Try to put yourself in your sister's position. Would you like if she did something like that to you? And suppose she says go for it, do you really think that deep down she'd be okay with it?

[Cassius]

I think you should try and wait a while and really think it over. But overall don't do it, empathize.

[MissSocks]

No I don't think you should, it's something you wouldn't do to a friend, let alone a sister. I know it can be very very hard to let someone go if you really like them, but for your sister and you it will be much better to let him go. You'll find someone else :)

[hbkfan54]

don't cause that's not in the sister/brother code cause if u go after ur sisters ex ur gonna regret it later

[ashdyn]

Dude....just cause she's your sister doesn't mean girl code goes out the window. Ask her first. She'll probably be like wtffffffff but it's worth a shot. You said they broke up recently though soooo I'd give it some time first lol

[jackthorpe]

talk to her first better to not get with one guy than lose a sisters trust

[Miri]

If you want to do anything, make sure to get her opinion on it. And if she dated him for 2 years, it was probably a pretty serious boyfriend, so I personally wouldn't do it, because I would much rather jeopardize a relationship with a potential boyfriend then one with my sibling.

[Myxox]

Don't do it, your sister is more important than some guy.

[jenna123]

thanks everyone who answered! :). Yea i guess you are right and i should let it go, its not right to go after your sisters ex and specially one she had dated for almost 2 years.
After thinking about it ive decided to let it go even though i still have a crush on him

[newkler]

you will have another new crush though don't worry :)

[IcaJess]

I agree with everyone else, ive been in a similar position and I just couldnt date someone that my sister has dated, it would be sooo awkward.