TooCurious
December 7th, 2013, 09:49 AM
Hey guys, how's it going? I am new to this forum. I normally and typically never post anything on these forums- this is actually my first time- and the reason why I am posting now is because I have a question in which I can't go to too many people I know about, even if they are close to me cause I'm afraid of judgement and etc., but I am curious bout same-sex experimentation. I'll give some information:
I guess you could label myself as Bi-Curious and for awhile, off and on, I'd have the occasional curiosity of what it would be like to fulfill a same sex experimentation with, obviously, the same sex. I am trying to give as much information as possible- so people, and please be serious, can give me the best advice and answers. I'm in my early 20's now but I would say that my bi-curiosity became more prevalent during the middle of my high school years. I even feel as a younger child at times- I was a bit curious- but I am a very open-minded person at times. It wasn't that another man turned me on as a kid but I was curious in- do they have the same like me? etc. and so on- you know what it's like as a kid and wondering if people are similar/just like you.
It came to a point, maybe Sophmore-Junior year in high school, I began discussing my feelings about curiosity in experimenting with a bi-sexual student and we would exchange stories and questions- but I could never commit to actually experimenting with him. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't, I feel like I could have a much better first experience with someone else- plus were older and things are different in the sense of the time of life were in now. Older and more mature.
I even tried some test on myself to see if the "same-sex" can turn me on. I have to say growing up, I've had seen my portions of Porn and I usually always watched Straight Porn. One thing I noticed growing up was that none of my friends enjoyed straight porn as much as I did. They were always into "Lesbian" Porn, which who isn't? ha ha, but I felt like it was boring at times without the man. I felt like and it makes sense- more penetrating and, entertaining? I will always remember that one time my friend made a big deal about straight porn, when we were back in late middle school, because there was penis in it haha. I guess we all know what he was looking at..;) I've watched gay porn a few times, cause straight porn made me curious, in the sense of what it'd be like to be the girl. Who always seems like she's getting good sex ha ha. Gay porn, when I was horny especially, would satisfy me at times- but the guys had to have a good body and other preferences.
I am a bit confused in or how I should act toward these feelings? All my life I've loved women too, I've had relationships-fantasies and everything else you could imagine about/with women. Majority of the time I prefer women; I picture growing up, marrying a women- I couldn't/can't picture my life with a man. But as of now, single at the moment, young and have the world ahead of me- I think, these are the years to experience and experiment, do and should I take the opportunity? As much of this information is very personal- like I said I'm giving out a lot of information for some opinion and advice- though I've had relationships with a few girls back in high school and a few things with girls in college- I've never fully had intercourse. So I am still a virgin.
I am wondering, should I conduct same-sex experimentation still as a virgin? I figure if I was to experiment- it'd be close to a full intercourse- if your going to try, why not go all out, right? I feel like it would be fun. I had fun with women too, but never did anything with anyone meaningful- sadly. I feel like with a man- we'd both know what we'd want and it would be more comfortable as we'd both be men- were familiar with our bodies and so on.
As I venture online to look for advice, opinion and support- out of curiosity- if we do decide on acting on our curiosity- where do you think is the best place to meet someone to experiment with? What are your feelings/perspectives/advice you have for me with everything you've read up top? Is same-sex experimentation worth the experience?
If you care too, also share some of your same-sex experiences- was it life changing? Sorry that this post is novel- I am just finally curious and care-free enough to post this all online to see what others in the same boat or have experienced have to say, recommend and so on..Thank you for all the help and answers :yes:
I guess you could label myself as Bi-Curious and for awhile, off and on, I'd have the occasional curiosity of what it would be like to fulfill a same sex experimentation with, obviously, the same sex. I am trying to give as much information as possible- so people, and please be serious, can give me the best advice and answers. I'm in my early 20's now but I would say that my bi-curiosity became more prevalent during the middle of my high school years. I even feel as a younger child at times- I was a bit curious- but I am a very open-minded person at times. It wasn't that another man turned me on as a kid but I was curious in- do they have the same like me? etc. and so on- you know what it's like as a kid and wondering if people are similar/just like you.
It came to a point, maybe Sophmore-Junior year in high school, I began discussing my feelings about curiosity in experimenting with a bi-sexual student and we would exchange stories and questions- but I could never commit to actually experimenting with him. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't, I feel like I could have a much better first experience with someone else- plus were older and things are different in the sense of the time of life were in now. Older and more mature.
I even tried some test on myself to see if the "same-sex" can turn me on. I have to say growing up, I've had seen my portions of Porn and I usually always watched Straight Porn. One thing I noticed growing up was that none of my friends enjoyed straight porn as much as I did. They were always into "Lesbian" Porn, which who isn't? ha ha, but I felt like it was boring at times without the man. I felt like and it makes sense- more penetrating and, entertaining? I will always remember that one time my friend made a big deal about straight porn, when we were back in late middle school, because there was penis in it haha. I guess we all know what he was looking at..;) I've watched gay porn a few times, cause straight porn made me curious, in the sense of what it'd be like to be the girl. Who always seems like she's getting good sex ha ha. Gay porn, when I was horny especially, would satisfy me at times- but the guys had to have a good body and other preferences.
I am a bit confused in or how I should act toward these feelings? All my life I've loved women too, I've had relationships-fantasies and everything else you could imagine about/with women. Majority of the time I prefer women; I picture growing up, marrying a women- I couldn't/can't picture my life with a man. But as of now, single at the moment, young and have the world ahead of me- I think, these are the years to experience and experiment, do and should I take the opportunity? As much of this information is very personal- like I said I'm giving out a lot of information for some opinion and advice- though I've had relationships with a few girls back in high school and a few things with girls in college- I've never fully had intercourse. So I am still a virgin.
I am wondering, should I conduct same-sex experimentation still as a virgin? I figure if I was to experiment- it'd be close to a full intercourse- if your going to try, why not go all out, right? I feel like it would be fun. I had fun with women too, but never did anything with anyone meaningful- sadly. I feel like with a man- we'd both know what we'd want and it would be more comfortable as we'd both be men- were familiar with our bodies and so on.
As I venture online to look for advice, opinion and support- out of curiosity- if we do decide on acting on our curiosity- where do you think is the best place to meet someone to experiment with? What are your feelings/perspectives/advice you have for me with everything you've read up top? Is same-sex experimentation worth the experience?
If you care too, also share some of your same-sex experiences- was it life changing? Sorry that this post is novel- I am just finally curious and care-free enough to post this all online to see what others in the same boat or have experienced have to say, recommend and so on..Thank you for all the help and answers :yes: