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lamename
December 6th, 2013, 11:30 PM
So I've been talking to this girl for the past 2 months and really feel like she's something special. Absolutely cool and someones I would want to date.

So we were gonna go out (hang out, not a date) and I was really forward to this and I believe she was too. The reason I haven't been able to before was cos of academics, exams and other extremely important things. So this was big for me but for certain contextual reason I won't be able to and won't have another opportunity for another month cos of holiday, end of school and flying overseas, etc.

I can tell she's very disappointed and so was I when I realised I couldn't. When I told her, she's replied with a 'its fine :) and I know shes so cool but I know that shes probably disappointed with this.

What should I do next from here on outwards. Should I stop talking to her online for a while as we are both gonna be in different parts of the world. I dont want to excessively bother her as though I am trying to make up for it. It was something I had no control over but I know its still pretty gutting.

Any advice :p

MechaSniper
December 6th, 2013, 11:33 PM
Do what you can while your there/here. don't let it go to waste

lamename
December 6th, 2013, 11:42 PM
I mean I am going to see her in a month after the holidays, would it be a better to keep low for now until I can actually offer something in a month's time?

MechaSniper
December 6th, 2013, 11:45 PM
If you feel like its the right thing to do

Waleedbt
December 7th, 2013, 02:30 PM
If it was the first time you did it to her, i think its fine. I hope you told her days before ( or atleast a day lol )

It depends on what do you want? Do you want to talk to her alot in the time period?
I think you should say hi once every while, and just see what you both are doing in the holiday. ( thats what i do , and did anyway haha ) cause i find it good since once you meet again she would not tell you that you've forgotten about her.

Waleedbt
December 7th, 2013, 02:31 PM
Edit- sorry it posted twice.

Tarannosaurus
December 7th, 2013, 07:52 PM
I think you should talk to her about it. I can see that you don't want to bother her but at the same time you don't want her to think you're avoiding her and get upset and confused.

ksdnfkfr
December 7th, 2013, 08:47 PM
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