Lovelife090994
December 6th, 2013, 08:04 PM
I have a question and situation, I am young, 19, but a few things set me apart from most, lack of sexual urges yet I do get aroused sometimes, slight fear of sex I see it as for other people and never me and as weird if that makes any since, and lastly I have never dated nor been so sure of my sexuality maybe from never dating.
Should I be worried by how mixed up my sexuality is? I have never really felt much attraction to anyone else except a few family members but that is a family love. I have never wanted to even talk to girls or guys despite the fact that guys arouse me, but should I be worried by how unsure and at times, gray-sexual I am?
Have a come out the closet? No, but to be honest there doesn't seem to be a closet to put me in since I am so gray sexually. Maybe I haven't met the right girl yet, maybe it's from my lack of confidence and long term depression but I doubt anyone is this confused sexually because they don't fit into any catergory or even like the idea of sex.
No, I do not always think of this, rarely actually, but this is one the moments I have and am asking something.
An update------------------------------
My most non platonic attraction I have had was to two girls in different years of high school but other than that I have been as if I'm asexual minus the occasional look at a guy with a nice body. I have never done anything romantically or sexually no dates, no experimenting. When I get aroused often I am alone and deal with it by myself. I can look at someone who is attractive even get aroused but I never seek to do anything about it or fantasize on it.
Should I be worried by how mixed up my sexuality is? I have never really felt much attraction to anyone else except a few family members but that is a family love. I have never wanted to even talk to girls or guys despite the fact that guys arouse me, but should I be worried by how unsure and at times, gray-sexual I am?
Have a come out the closet? No, but to be honest there doesn't seem to be a closet to put me in since I am so gray sexually. Maybe I haven't met the right girl yet, maybe it's from my lack of confidence and long term depression but I doubt anyone is this confused sexually because they don't fit into any catergory or even like the idea of sex.
No, I do not always think of this, rarely actually, but this is one the moments I have and am asking something.
An update------------------------------
My most non platonic attraction I have had was to two girls in different years of high school but other than that I have been as if I'm asexual minus the occasional look at a guy with a nice body. I have never done anything romantically or sexually no dates, no experimenting. When I get aroused often I am alone and deal with it by myself. I can look at someone who is attractive even get aroused but I never seek to do anything about it or fantasize on it.