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CRH777
December 6th, 2013, 04:59 PM
I'm 15 and I'm kind of a late bloomer. Well I have a friend and we were joking around in class and he spilt some water on his leg. Well he said "Aw looks like I peed myself." Well I then responded with "Its not that long." Well we talked a little bit and then he said "How's it hanging… you know: left, right?" Refering to being well hung. I'm not; I'm like 1'7" soft and 3'4" hard. Well it made me feel really insecure about my size and all that. My question is: will it grow? It just doesn't seem like it will. I just feel… stuck.

Atlan
December 6th, 2013, 05:05 PM
As you're 15 you still have a bit of time left until you stop growing, but don't worry if it does not grow that much more. I have known girls who said that they preferred being with smaller guys because they have better technique than the big guys who just go at it. If you've honestly got to the point where you can be naked with someone they won't care that much about how big it is.

ComfortableInChaos
December 6th, 2013, 05:06 PM
Yeah, I've been feeling that way, too, myself. Yeah, it should grow, at least, that's what I've been told. I'm not that big, myself. I can be 3 inches soft sometimes, or sometimes it's like 1-2 inches. Yeah, don't worry about it, man. When you get your 100 posts in, just message me and we can talk about things, if you want. I'm 15, too.

CRH777
December 6th, 2013, 05:24 PM
Yeah, I've been feeling that way, too, myself. Yeah, it should grow, at least, that's what I've been told. I'm not that big, myself. I can be 3 inches soft sometimes, or sometimes it's like 1-2 inches. Yeah, don't worry about it, man. When you get your 100 posts in, just message me and we can talk about things, if you want. I'm 15, too.

Thanks I will. Also could u friend me? I don't know how.

MechaSniper
December 6th, 2013, 05:27 PM
Dude It'll grow until your 20 ( I think)

ComfortableInChaos
December 6th, 2013, 05:40 PM
Thanks I will. Also could u friend me? I don't know how.

I did haha

deregisterme
December 6th, 2013, 05:58 PM
I'm 15 and I'm kind of a late bloomer. Well I have a friend and we were joking around in class and he spilt some water on his leg. Well he said "Aw looks like I peed myself." Well I then responded with "Its not that long." Well we talked a little bit and then he said "How's it hanging… you know: left, right?" Refering to being well hung. I'm not; I'm like 1'7" soft and 3'4" hard. Well it made me feel really insecure about my size and all that. My question is: will it grow? It just doesn't seem like it will. I just feel… stuck.

Don't worry, 15 is still quite young. You still have another few years

CRH777
December 6th, 2013, 10:20 PM
Yeah, I've been feeling that way, too, myself. Yeah, it should grow, at least, that's what I've been told. I'm not that big, myself. I can be 3 inches soft sometimes, or sometimes it's like 1-2 inches. Yeah, don't worry about it, man. When you get your 100 posts in, just message me and we can talk about things, if you want. I'm 15, too.

I want him to stop saying those type of things as it's getting me down. What should I say/do.

ComfortableInChaos
December 7th, 2013, 02:09 AM
I want him to stop saying those type of things as it's getting me down. What should I say/do.

What do you mean? Like, what do you not like to say?

Catholic Guy
December 7th, 2013, 06:08 AM
Yeah I know people that didn't stop growing until they were 24 so you could have at least 9 years left

spanishguy11
December 7th, 2013, 10:09 AM
Im sure it'll grow till 18-22 and btw 3,4 is not that bad. Mine is 6 in, Im 16, and thick. Thats the important thing, if its thin or thick ;)

CRH777
December 7th, 2013, 10:14 AM
What do you mean? Like, what do you not like to say?

Like things about size.

deregisterme
December 7th, 2013, 01:06 PM
Like things about size.

It's a bit like any daft comment you get from people (I get comments sometimes about my weight as I'm fat). The trick is just to ignore those comments. The more frustrated that you show that they annoy you, the more the person will say. If you ignore the comments, they should stop after a while.

benchpress
December 7th, 2013, 01:16 PM
I want him to stop saying those type of things as it's getting me down. What should I say/do.

yeah some guys say that stuff to yank your chain or give you a hard time just to feel better about themselves or because they're competitive about everything. Just try to think of a good comeback like when he said "it's not long enough" you could've said "thats not what you said last night" and hope he doesn't beat you up, lol. But it might work and shut him up if he sees you can give as good as you get

ComfortableInChaos
December 7th, 2013, 01:48 PM
Like things about size.

If it's really bugging you, man, don't think about it. Just wait it out, bro. It'll get bigger with time. And saying stuff like your size is okay here, nobody here judges you by your size. Trust me... Anyway, it's okay to be small and say it here, nobody really cares about if you're huge or tiny, they just like to compare with guys their age most of the time, but can't irl, so they do it online (on here). And you DON'T have to say what size you are if you're not comfortable with it. That's the good thing about this site and most of the internet, you can keep yourself anonymous with a screen name and you don't have to actually tell every single thing about yourself (I would actually say your real age, though. If you're not the real age you are, those kinds of things can get you in trouble...). And yes, people here lie about their age and size and shit (one guy sent me a pic of his body once and he was like, 50. Ew.)

My point is, you can either tell your size, whether you think it's big or small, or you could keep your size to yourself.

CRH777
December 7th, 2013, 02:03 PM
If it's really bugging you, man, don't think about it. Just wait it out, bro. It'll get bigger with time. And saying stuff like your size is okay here, nobody here judges you by your size. Trust me... Anyway, it's okay to be small and say it here, nobody really cares about if you're huge or tiny, they just like to compare with guys their age most of the time, but can't irl, so they do it online (on here). And you DON'T have to say what size you are if you're not comfortable with it. That's the good thing about this site and most of the internet, you can keep yourself anonymous with a screen name and you don't have to actually tell every single thing about yourself (I would actually say your real age, though. If you're not the real age you are, those kinds of things can get you in trouble...). And yes, people here lie about their age and size and shit (one guy sent me a pic of his body once and he was like, 50. Ew.)

My point is, you can either tell your size, whether you think it's big or small, or you could keep your size to yourself.

Thanks.

ComfortableInChaos
December 7th, 2013, 02:21 PM
Thanks.

Np man, just don't think of it too much. After your 100 posts, message me and you can talk to me about things, I'm always open to talk about anything.

deltadart
December 12th, 2013, 12:37 AM
It will grow, don't worry about it.

Soldier212
December 12th, 2013, 06:42 AM
It will grow dude

gliderman
December 12th, 2013, 07:27 AM
Don't worry dude, it is about technique, not size. Most girls agree with that :)

KINGMASTER
December 12th, 2013, 01:12 PM
U will grow

Shroomz547
December 13th, 2013, 06:33 AM
It's not the size of the boat. It's the motion of the ocean!

TotemPole
December 13th, 2013, 11:10 PM
Ok ok stop sugarcoating and saying you WILL grow. Because you may be done. And thats ok. It dosent mattee if it's small, it can still "do the job" and the reason I'm saying this is simply because I need to tell you another possibility.

AlexOnToast
January 16th, 2014, 10:56 AM
Don't worry! Like you said, you are a late bloomer, i'm sure you still have growing to do. Mine is around the same size so you arent alone :)

CostumerServiceGuy
January 16th, 2014, 12:13 PM
Don't worry 15 is young.

randyboy
January 16th, 2014, 12:51 PM
Hey spank it more and watch it grow ur worrying too much + ur own view is not what others see

2 types of cock m8 Type 1. is small when down then gets big when its up
Type 2 is quite large when down but gets no larger when its hard.


if ur type 1 don't worry just blame ur old man and his old man it's really not an issue just enjoy your cock and wank as and when

Arsenalfan123
January 16th, 2014, 01:03 PM
A. Size doesn't matter
B. It can grow more

TotemPole
January 16th, 2014, 08:54 PM
Well people should like who they really are and society has changed that. People judge, it stinks, but just get over it. Like who you turn out to be, because yyou can't change it.

connorftw
January 17th, 2014, 02:04 AM
A. Size doesn't matter
B. It can grow more

simple answer. 100% agree

Arsenalfan123
January 17th, 2014, 11:15 AM
simple answer. 100% agree

Cheers

Darksoul13
January 17th, 2014, 11:56 PM
It'll grow don't worry.

MrIan
January 18th, 2014, 10:11 AM
I think it should start growing now. I don't think there's anything to concern about.