need some help

[manutd13]

I've been going out with this amazing girl for a few months and we are really in love, she is a little older then me and has had sex before and i do want to have sex with her and i know i'm ready but what if i disapoint her as i am still a virgin.

please can i have some advice.

[Aηdy]

Just because you're in a relationship it doesn't mean you ahve to have sex. First of all, how old are you?

[manutd13]

i'm 17 in 3 months and i knw i dont have to but i do want to and so does she

[Bobby]

Well, you'll never know if you're going to do well if you never do it.
I'm not supporting having sex though - I don't think I would have sex at that age - but that's just me.

How much older is she? Will it be legal sex?

[Aηdy]

Ok, at your age it's not so bad. If you are both ready then go for it. If she doesn't know already, tell her that you're a virgin, she'll understand that you wont have any experince then.

[manutd13]

she is 18 in a couple of weeks

[manutd13]

she knows that i am still a virgin but i still dont want to disapoint her though

[manutd13]

hey thanks for the advise people i've talked to her and she understands an told me not to worry.

[chris__robin]

you gotta practice and get better somehow.
and i agree if she knows it is your first time she isnt going to be harsh on you.
probably try asking her to let you know how you went and to give you some pointers for next time, that way you will keep improving and she will enjoy it more.

[manutd13]

Thanks mate that good advice an me will ask her to and see what she says

[byee]

Well, what do you mean by 'disappoint' her? People who worry about that are typically saying they're not totally ready yet. Think about it, if you were completely comfortable with this (and taking this step) you wouldn't be insecure, you'd ahve more confidence. Sex isn't just about experience, 'doing it', it's about the emotional connection, too. That has little to do with performance.

Besides that, the best way of resolving anything is by talking. I'd suggest you talk with her bout your 'concerns', before you do anything.

[manutd13]

i mean not being able to satify her sexualy. and i know it emotional aswell and i am ready. and i have talked 2 her and she told me not to worry about it i just still dont want to disapoint as she has had sex before