She replaced mee!!!!

[Derryck]

A girl and I met on vt at some point in the arcade. She was so nice to me. we were pming all the time and she knew I loved her and she liked me. I got into a misunderstanding with her dad. plus I got banned. When i came back I found out that she is dating someone on vt now. All I can do now is scream over a and over again, "SHE REPLACED ME!!". I'm hurt beyond regular understanding!!! I'm dizzy. My hands and face are tingling. I can't think right. I loved her!! She meant the world to me and I loved her!!! She replaced me!!! I'm sobing and I don't know what to do. She won't respond to my pm's! I'm sorry for what I did!!! We could be really good if I hadn't pilled the beans!!! Ive ruined it!!! I've ruined it so much!!! I'm sorry!!! Why must this always happen?!?! I'm not sure I want to live now!!! What am I to her now?!?! I can't think straight!!! Nothing about my life feels right anymore!!! I've been replaced again for the 1,,000th time!!!! No!!

[thatcountrykid]

Hey man you were gone and if she didn't share the same feelings then she doesn't have to stay with you.

[Derryck]

Hey man you were gone and if she didn't share the same feelings then she doesn't have to stay with you.

Still hurts. If only I hadn't screwed up! :blowup:

[Melodic]

You need to move on. There are a lot of girls out there and you'll find the one eventually. But if she's already in a relationship, there's not much you can do but wish her well. If it doesn't work out and she decides she has mutual feelings, then you can go from there. But the best thing to do is join clubs and activities, find your happiness and yourself, and eventually it will all fall into place.

[indoxyl]

I know it sucks little dude but it seems like she didn't share the same feelings as you and that's not entirely her fault. You got banned plus it didn't seem like you two were in a good position, so she moved on and found someone else.
Yes it hurts a lot but there's nothing you can really do unfortunately. all you can really do is try to move on from this and find someone new

[Austins]

That is how the online world works mate, my advice is try to find someone off of VT. Join clubs and sports and such to meet new people. A girlfriend you can actually hold in your arms will trump some PM's anyday.

[thatcountrykid]

Still hurts. If only I hadn't screwed up! :blowup:

Im sorry man but you never even met her. Just move on meet someone you can actually see and touch.

[Derryck]

Ok, I talked to her and I made amends but she still doesn't trust me. :cry:
Also there's the fact that whenever I see a message from one to the other I get super pissed off. So let's add this up:

She doesn't trust me anymore.

My jealousy for her new relationship is eating at my being.

I'm sorry but if this s**t goes any further south I'm going to hit emotional mexico. I really regret not forming a romantic relationship when I had the chance. I need to get over the fact that she's with someone so I don't end up completely f***ing up.

Im sorry man but you never even met her. Just move on meet someone you can actually see and touch.

Don't you get it? None of the girls I know irl like me. Ok? I've soiled it! The internet is my only chance. :(

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[Cassius]

Ummm yeah you met a girl on a internet teen forum. Stop freaking out, grow a pair, and go out and talk to people face-to-face

[Cygnus]

I'm sorry but if this s**t goes any further south I'm going to hit emotional mexico. I really regret not forming a romantic relationship when I had the chance. I need to get over the fact that she's with someone so I don't end up completely f***ing up.

It seems like you answered all your doubts, good for you. Again, its over the internet, not even half as real as something where you can physically see the person.

[LouBerry]

Ok, I talked to her and I made amends but she still doesn't trust me. :cry:
Also there's the fact that whenever I see a message from one to the other I get super pissed off. So let's add this up:

She doesn't trust me anymore.

My jealousy for her new relationship is eating at my being.

I'm sorry but if this s**t goes any further south I'm going to hit emotional mexico. I really regret not forming a romantic relationship when I had the chance. I need to get over the fact that she's with someone so I don't end up completely f***ing up.

I know you're upset, but can you see how this might be potentially embarrassing to her and her new boyfriend? Try to calm down, or she isn't going to want anything to do with you.

Ummm yeah you met a girl on a internet teen forum. Stop freaking out, grow a pair, and go out and talk to people face-to-face

So fucking what? One of my best friends in the whole world and I met on this site, and you know what? We're really close. Plenty of people meet on the internet these days, it happens all the time. If he found love here, that's great. Also, grow a pair? How inspiring. Lets break that down for a moment shall we? If I punch you in the balls, you are going to fall down and cry. If you punch me in my lady bits, I'm going to cuss at you while I'm punching you in the eye. What's really a better euphemism?

[skittles_was_here]

i, um, this thread is actually about me...i just wanted to say i'm sorry. i didn't mean to replace you. you were frozen and i started talking to my (now) boyfriend, i didn't know at the time that we were going to become a couple. i may have gotten a boyfriend, but i never meant to drift away from you derryck...i'm really sorry :(

[DarkOmega]

dude..cmon ..internet relationship ? did u really think its gonna work ..I would understand if it was a person u can touch and fell and see every day but really dude ? relationships on the internet don't actually work(maybe 3% of the time they do if they actually meet) but the rest don't work cuz ,1st u don't see each other 2nd .can't do fun things or do anything .3rd what would u guys do if it got boring ?

[ImCoolBeans]

This is pretty inappropriate seeing as it's clearly about another member, and she knows it. If you want, you guys can talk about this in private, but before this goes any further I'm locking this. :locked: