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mattisdaman
February 9th, 2008, 05:57 PM
me and my friend (man) have sex everytime were at each others house. and i love having it with him. gettin bummed iis great. i dont love him mentally just physically. my gf on the ova hand i like mentally and physically. am i gay straigh bi what plz help? if anyone else feels like this pm me cheers
Serenity
February 9th, 2008, 06:06 PM
Ok firstly: you shouldn't be having any kind of sex at 14. It's just not smart. Secondly: no, you're not gay. You're a horny teenager.
Sapphire
February 9th, 2008, 06:17 PM
Thirdly: you shouldn't be having sex with someone who you are not in a relationship with.
SunsetBeach
February 9th, 2008, 09:03 PM
I agree that you shouldn't have sex with him. You should also consider the risks. What if he is in love with you? What if you get found out? What about your girlfriend?
Axellance
February 10th, 2008, 03:52 PM
I think you may possibly be bi or something, you might be str8 i cant say roe shure. Just be who you are dont try to hide it if you find that you are bi. But it is wrong for you to be having sex with ANEYONE if you have a girlfriend. It is relly bad to cheat on people!! and at 14 you relly shouldnt be having sex!!
byee
February 10th, 2008, 07:37 PM
Uh, when you say he's a 'man'. how old is he?
Sapphire
February 10th, 2008, 07:55 PM
I think he just means male
Natoja12
February 10th, 2008, 08:08 PM
ok im giong to cut the crap about being to young but your just masterbating...if you have feelings for this guy then you may be "gay" or "bi"
Sapphire
February 10th, 2008, 08:09 PM
ok im giong to cut the crap about being to young but your just masterbating...if you have feelings for this guy then you may be "gay" or "bi"


I think you mean "experimenting"
LateForTheSky
February 13th, 2008, 12:40 PM
In my opinion as long as your safe and not forcing yourself/anyone else into sex then its fine, and As long as you dont hurt people emotionaly or physicaly for that manner. As for your situation I don't think your gay, but you may just not be emotionaly attached to this boy in particular. So you still could be, There are plenty of guys Id shag but i wouldnt go in a relationship with. As for liking girls aswell, that suggests you may be bi, not gay. But it must be said again, ONLY YOU CAN KNOW! and YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME IF YOU ARE! Not that being gay is wrong anyway. Be confortable in your own skin or you will NEVER be happy.