I feel like I'll be the wildcard out of my group of friends

[dreamofdante]

My close group of male friends have now officially all dated and had sex with someone and I am the last one standing. I have never kissed a girl and obviously never had sex with one. Some of the guys expected I would be the first because I look strong and I'm always nice to everyone but here I am. I'm the last. I've tried probably the hardest too. Even the one we all thought would never get a girlfriend has gotten a girlfriend and she's fucking gorgeous. Then he asked me for advice on kissing and making advances on her. He actually thinks I've been with women...I'll be 18 in a little over three weeks and I'll be the last one. Could I be the Joker in a deck of cards? If so, should I brainwash myself to be Asexual so I never worry about it again?

For reference here are the ages of the guys when they dated and lost their virginity:

The best looking one: Dating wise he's had girlfriends all his life. Virginity lost? 15
The Jock: Dating wise he's also had girlfriends all his life. Virginity lost? 14
The goofball but lovable one: Dating wise he's just gotten his first girlfriend and she's gorgeous. Lost his virginity soon after.
My best friend: Dating wise he's always getting in relationships for the past few years. Lost his virginity at around 15 or 16.

[MechaSniper]

Done neither of those and I know how you feel. (hugs)

[dreamofdante]

Done neither of those and I know how you feel. (hugs)

Sorry to hear that, man but you're 15. You're around the age they were when they started losing it.

[MechaSniper]

We'll did/do they care about the other gender or did they somewhat bragged?

[dreamofdante]

We'll did/do they care about the other gender or did they somewhat bragged?

They cared about their girlfriends but of course they bragged about it. They're teenage boys. The one that bragged the least is the good looking one.

[MechaSniper]

We'll beauty isn't everything. But Only time will tell. Sorry I wasn't much help.

[dreamofdante]

We'll beauty isn't everything. But Only time will tell. Sorry I wasn't much help.

No it's okay, man. I appreciate the replies. I usually get the 'You'll find someone' reply but I don't feel as though my love is so positively inevitable...It's been quite the opposite...

[MechaSniper]

There is some one for everyone. but when is unknowned

[dreamofdante]

There is some one for everyone. but when is unknowned

But like I said, I know a guy who has never been with anyone and will inevitably die alone. There's isn't always someone out there.

[MechaSniper]

Check up on him in 5-10 years

[dreamofdante]

Check up on him in 5-10 years

Well yeah I will if he's still living.

[MechaSniper]

No one can tell the future

[dreamofdante]

No one can tell the future

No but he himself knows he'll never get married and his family says the same thing. He's actually closer to late 60s.

[MechaSniper]

Alright but it's not the same for you

[dreamofdante]

Alright but it's not the same for you

Maybe. Maybe not. It has been so far in my near 18 years. I've met women on here that think I'm attractive but they wouldn't date me so it kind of makes it easy for them to answer nicely. You know what I mean?

[MechaSniper]

Yea there hard to find

[dreamofdante]

Yea there hard to find

I dunno man. I'm sure you'll be fine...

[MechaSniper]

K thanx Take care

[dreamofdante]

K thanx Take care

You too man!

[dreamofdante]

Bump

[joshmz]

Sex isn't everything! Don't let it bring you down. You'll lose your virginity when its time but for now just live for the moment!!!!!

[dreamofdante]

Sex isn't everything! Don't let it bring you down. You'll lose your virginity when its time but for now just live for the moment!!!!!

Alright man...I guess so...

[joshmz]

Just party a little! Talk to girls and hang out!! If you really wanna have sex or something like it then you're almost 18 so just buy some sex toys lol

[dreamofdante]

Just party a little! Talk to girls and hang out!! If you really wanna have sex or something like it then you're almost 18 so just buy some sex toys lol

I'm probably going to have to...

[joshmz]

Keep ya head up! Everything will be fine!!! Update us if anything happens though

[dreamofdante]

Keep ya head up! Everything will be fine!!! Update us if anything happens though

Believe me I would be telling everybody if something happened because it would be so surprising and happy for me that I'd have to say something. I'll keep you guys posted but...I don't think things will be changing soon if ever.

[dreamofdante]

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