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Steffanie2020
December 5th, 2013, 01:35 AM
So there's this girl that I like and I just found out that she's single and a lesbian. I met her through this open mic thing at my school and she asked me to be her guitar player for a song. ever since then I have been talking to her and she's so sweet and nice. we don't have any classes together but I do see her in the halls when I go to one of my classes and occasionally in the lunch room. the only time I get to talk to her is in the halls and its only for 2 minutes. how do I let her know im interested in her without actually telling her or even let her know im a lesbian too? I know this seems like a dumb question but I really need some help here.

ksdnfkfr
December 5th, 2013, 10:04 AM
There is no way to let her know you have a same gender
interest in her with relieving your orientation that I can think of.
It is like wanting to order a slice of pizza but wanting keep the fact
that you like pizza a secret.

Living For Love
December 5th, 2013, 12:29 PM
Try to subtly hint you're a lesbian during a conversation. I think that's pretty much your only alternative.

Austins
December 5th, 2013, 06:41 PM
Well I think the first step would be to find out if she even has an interest in you.

Cassius
December 5th, 2013, 10:44 PM
I'm in agreance with Ezra. It's all or nothing

satarra3180
December 5th, 2013, 11:07 PM
So there's this girl that I like and I just found out that she's single and a lesbian. I met her through this open mic thing at my school and she asked me to be her guitar player for a song. ever since then I have been talking to her and she's so sweet and nice. we don't have any classes together but I do see her in the halls when I go to one of my classes and occasionally in the lunch room. the only time I get to talk to her is in the halls and its only for 2 minutes. how do I let her know im interested in her without actually telling her or even let her know im a lesbian too? I know this seems like a dumb question but I really need some help here.

Do you have her number? Maybe try coming up with a reason to nonchalantly ask for that and then go from there.

Luminous
December 5th, 2013, 11:30 PM
I guess you could flirt? The other day a kid asked me if a guy was hot, I said 'No, I don't like guys'. (His reaction was hilarious. He's gay also and he was so excited, he was like "OMG WE'RE LIKE GAY BEST FRIENDS!!!!! Why didn't you tell me before?????") I found that it was less of a big deal than I thought so I think I'm going to start coming out to some more people. (Besides him being in the room, there were also two other people in the room)