Why did it seem the girl I like was trying to look for me during my school formal.

[clueless_one]

During my school formal, I was dancing with my group of friends and saw the girl I like look at me. When she saw me looking at her, she looked away. From then, I noticed her take glances at me while dancing. I then walked behind her to another friend. I then looked at the girl I like from behind her and saw her look at where I was when she looked/glanced at me first. I then saw her look to her left, right and then behind her (at me). When she saw me, she made eye contact (eye-to-eye) for about 4-5 seconds before looking away. Why did it seem she was looking for me when I moved behind her? What does this mean?

[ksdnfkfr]

She likes you but is shy about it.
Is not sure if you like her back.

[skiman]

Erza's got it right. Talk to her. If you like her and vice versa, its a win win situation! that is, until the break up if there is one. Good luck man!

[clueless_one]

She likes you but is shy about it.
Is not sure if you like her back.

I like her. But the only problem is, she doesn't seem to smile at me. She just stares and never smiles, some of her friends also stare/look at me without smiling and I don't understand why. One time when I saw a friend of the girl I like looking at me, she was with the girl I like and told her something, the girl I like then looked at me and then darted her eyes away and it looked like she was looking for someone else.

I have also noticed the girl I like look at me, speak to her friends who then look at me, after they look they speak to the girl I like and then all of them start laughing. Which is weird as it looks like they are making fun of me but I don't know exactly what it means.

[BookSmart]

and then all of them start laughing. Which is weird as it looks like they are making fun of me but I don't know exactly what it means.

They could be laughing at the girl? I know my friends laugh at me sometimes because of how I act when I think of talk about my crush. They think it's hilarious. They'll even tell me things like "guess who I saw in the hallway, Anna?" or "Hey, Anna, I hear ____ likes the same anime as you" or stuff like that.

I say go for it and tell her you like her. I'm shy, and I'd love it if the guy I like told me he liked me, I wouldn't have the nerve to go up and tell him how I feel (although I'm working on it). Good luck and I hope you get the girl you like!

[Blahblah24]

She does like you. Just grow some balls and talk to her. The worst that could happen is she says no, but i really don't think that will happen. Trust me a lot of my friends and my self will stare at a guy we like and then the others will do something to make fun her. So just man up and talk to her

[clueless_one]

She likes you but is shy about it.
Is not sure if you like her back.

Erza's got it right. Talk to her. If you like her and vice versa, its a win win situation! that is, until the break up if there is one. Good luck man!

They could be laughing at the girl? I know my friends laugh at me sometimes because of how I act when I think of talk about my crush. They think it's hilarious. They'll even tell me things like "guess who I saw in the hallway, Anna?" or "Hey, Anna, I hear ____ likes the same anime as you" or stuff like that.

I say go for it and tell her you like her. I'm shy, and I'd love it if the guy I like told me he liked me, I wouldn't have the nerve to go up and tell him how I feel (although I'm working on it). Good luck and I hope you get the girl you like!

She does like you. Just grow some balls and talk to her. The worst that could happen is she says no, but i really don't think that will happen. Trust me a lot of my friends and my self will stare at a guy we like and then the others will do something to make fun her. So just man up and talk to her

I'm definitely thinking of telling her that I like her. But there is one problem, I'm not going to see her again as i've finished high school and I don't have her mobile number. So I can't text or tell her face-to-face that I like her and have feelings for her. I was thinking about telling her that I like her on Facebook. Do you think its alright if I do this?

Also, we haven't spoken much. As i've been shy to talk to her and also it seems she has been shy to me also.

[indoxyl]

Oh dear god you're back????

Look, I'd say just message her on facebook and tell her your feelings. Thats really all you can do now.

[clueless_one]

Oh dear god you're back????

Look, I'd say just message her on facebook and tell her your feelings. Thats really all you can do now.

Did you even read the main post I made.

Anyway… Is it alright for me to tell her how I feel on Facebook. I don't really feel its right as i've tried it with another girl and I lost her as a friend and don't want to do that again.

[Plasma]

Did you even read the main post I made.

Anyway… Is it alright for me to tell her how I feel on Facebook. I don't really feel its right as i've tried it with another girl and I lost her as a friend and don't want to do that again.

For one, you're not friends with this girl. I say get her number on Facebook and then call her. And two, you're sitting on VT fretting about how much you like this girl. Just go out and get her. It sounds like she likes you too, and if she doesn't, so what? You said it yourself, you don't ever see this girl now that highschool is over

[clueless_one]

For one, you're not friends with this girl. I say get her number on Facebook and then call her. And two, you're sitting on VT fretting about how much you like this girl. Just go out and get her. It sounds like she likes you too, and if she doesn't, so what? You said it yourself, you don't ever see this girl now that highschool is over

I am friends with this girl. Even if I don't have her number i'm still friends with her. Last year she teased me asking if I wear makeup because of my skin colour/tone. Maybe it was a complement, I don't know. Then she asked for my opinion on if I liked a hat she was wearing when as she adjusted it, I told her it looked better before she adjusted it, she repeated what I said and re adjusted it back. Then when I was walking around at a school excursion, her and her group of friends saw me and yelled out my name with the girl I like standing in front of her group of friends pointing at me while yelling my name. A friend of hers asked me to take a photo of her group of friends including the girl I like, and the girl I like was leaning towards the person taking the photo (me). This shows I AM FRIENDS with her already.

By the way, yes I won't see her but will still be friends with her. I want to tell her I like her and try to ask her out and but i'm afraid it will ruin the friendship I already have with her, which as I said happened before when I told a previous girl I liked her and asked her out over Facebook. Given I don't have her mobile number and won't see her again, its the only way for me to tell her I like her. Also, ME BEING SHY makes it DIFFICULT for ME TO GET HER NUMBER.

[indoxyl]

Did you even read the main post I made.

Anyway… Is it alright for me to tell her how I feel on Facebook. I don't really feel its right as i've tried it with another girl and I lost her as a friend and don't want to do that again.

Yeah i don't much care about what the original post says I'm just trying to go from what you've recently said

Start a damn conversation with her on facebook then eventually ask her for her number or ask to hang out then tell her that you really like her.

thats my only advice and really your option at this point.

[clueless_one]

Yeah i don't much care about what the original post says I'm just trying to go from what you've recently said

Start a damn conversation with her on facebook then eventually ask her for her number or ask to hang out then tell her that you really like her.

thats my only advice and really your option at this point.

ME BEING SHY makes it DIFFICULT for ME TO GET HER NUMBER. I am fine about telling her I like her after a 5-6 months of reading signs. But school is over so I can't tell her face to face. Then there is telling her over Facebook, which is easier for me to do but still as nerve-racking as telling her face-to-face.

[Plasma]

ME BEING SHY makes it DIFFICULT for ME TO GET HER NUMBER. I am fine about telling her I like her after a 5-6 months of reading signs. But school is over so I can't tell her face to face. Then there is telling her over Facebook, which is easier for me to do but still as nerve-racking as telling her face-to-face.

But you're not too shy to tell us your life story on VT. Just talk to her. We could sit here for days listening to your stories but without talking to this girl there is no way to know. You'll get nowhere in life if you never take a risk

[clueless_one]

But you're not too shy to tell us your life story on VT. Just talk to her. We could sit here for days listening to your stories but without talking to this girl there is no way to know. You'll get nowhere in life if you never take a risk

The thing is I JUST WANT TO TELL HER I LIKE HER. Get it done with before I do anything. I've always done that, its never worked, and thats just me. I can only tell her over Facebook but all people say get her number call her and tell her that way. Shy people can't do that. Me as a shy guy wants to just get the main thing done thats her knowing that I like her and then asking her out if she likes me back. Also, asking for help is not being SHY, its asking for help. If i take a risk then I will lose a friend. THATS CRAP FOR ME, I'M AN ONLY CHILD AND FEEL I HAVE NO FRIENDS.

YOU WANT TO BE IN MY POSITION… I would seriously want a better life then feeling like I have no friends and no siblings to help me and do things with. :cry:

[Plasma]

The thing is I JUST WANT TO TELL HER I LIKE HER. Get it done with before I do anything. I've always done that, its never worked, and thats just me. I can only tell her over Facebook but all people say get her number call her and tell her that way. Shy people can't do that. Me as a shy guy wants to just get the main thing done thats her knowing that I like her and then asking her out if she likes me back.

Then just do it on facebook then... If she's a nice girl she'll understand you being nervous.

Go do it right now. Asking us on VT will get you nowhere

[clueless_one]

Then just do it on facebook then... If she's a nice girl she'll understand you being nervous.

Go do it right now. Asking us on VT will get you nowhere

To me she is a nice girl and also shy as when I spoke to her at the end of a lesson in class, she replied to me shyly.

But people have said its not right to tell a girl how you feel on Facebook, now i'm being told that its alright…

I'm extremely confused now? :confused:

[indoxyl]

To me she is a nice girl and also shy as when I spoke to her at the end of a lesson in class, she replied to me shyly.

But people have said its not right to tell a girl how you feel on Facebook, now i'm being told that its alright…

I'm extremely confused now? :confused:

just do what you think is best. you've gotten several opinions and apparently they weret very good because youre still having issues. so just do what you're comfortable with

[clueless_one]

just do what you think is best. you've gotten several opinions and apparently they weret very good because youre still having issues. so just do what you're comfortable with

Fine then I will tell her how I feel and just lose a friend. And go into a deeper hole of loneliness because i'm an only child and feeling I have no friends

[indoxyl]

Fine then I will tell her how I feel and just lose a friend. And go into a deeper hole of loneliness because i'm an only child and feeling I have no friends

well what the hell do you want us to do? every god damn time you make a thread its the same crap
"oh im so lonely omg i should kill myself"

people tell you very good advice but you ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to go with our advice for whatever stupid reason and then you say "ugh im so depressed and lonely i hate my life"

like what else can we do?
we are giving you multiple suggestions on what you could do to get closer with this girl but you WILL NOT LISTEN TO US

[clueless_one]

well what the hell do you want us to do? every god damn time you make a thread its the same crap
"oh im so lonely omg i should kill myself"

people tell you very good advice but you ABSOLUTELY REFUSE to go with our advice for whatever stupid reason and then you say "ugh im so depressed and lonely i hate my life"

like what else can we do?
we are giving you multiple suggestions on what you could do to get closer with this girl but you WILL NOT LISTEN TO US

BUT YOUR TELLING ME TO GET HER NUMBER AND ASK HER OUT. GETTING HER NUMBER IS DIFFICULT. YOUR GIVING ME ADVICE, YES BUT ITS NOT GOING TO HELP ME BECAUSE THE THINGS YOUR TELLING ME TO DO I CAN'T DO.

Being an only child, I'm lonely. I read somewhere…

LONELINESS CAUSES PEOPLE TO SLEEP LONGER, HAVE LONGER SHOWERS, BATHS AND OVER THINK MORE.

I do all these things. DUE TO BEING AN ONLY CHILD. People like you will actually lead me to kill myself and if it isn't done by me… It will be lead to me dying of a heart attack or stroke due to stress by using these forums to try and get PROPER ADVICE for my situation.

There must be some way for me to tell this girl I like her over Facebook without losing a friend. BUT AFTER THE PREVIOUS GIRL I DID THIS TOO, ITS IMPOSSIBLE.

F this

:cry:

[indoxyl]

BUT YOUR TELLING ME TO GET HER NUMBER AND ASK HER OUT. GETTING HER NUMBER IS DIFFICULT. YOUR GIVING ME ADVICE, YES BUT ITS NOT GOING TO HELP ME BECAUSE THE THINGS YOUR TELLING ME TO DO I CAN'T DO.

Being an only child, I'm lonely. I read somewhere…

LONELINESS CAUSES PEOPLE TO SLEEP LONGER, HAVE LONGER SHOWERS, BATHS AND OVER THINK MORE.

I do all these things. DUE TO BEING AN ONLY CHILD. People like you will actually lead me to kill myself and if it isn't done by me… It will be lead to me dying of a heart attack or stroke due to stress by using these forums to try and get PROPER ADVICE for my situation.

There must be some way for me to tell this girl I like her over Facebook without losing a friend. BUT AFTER THE PREVIOUS GIRL I DID THIS TOO, ITS IMPOSSIBLE.

F this

:cry:

oh for gods sake
I'm an only child and I have learned to cope with this my entire life.
I suggest you try and find a way to cope because thats clearly not going to change
and I'm sorry the truth makes you want to kill yourself, its life and you're going to have to get used to it

being lonely leads to taking longer showers? what does that even mean?

No I am telling you to try and start a conversation on facebook or something. Not to directly ask her for her number.

I also suggested you just do whatever you feel comfortable with. you're what, 18? you're acting like youre 13 years old. you should be able to figure these kind of things out for yourself

[clueless_one]

oh for gods sake
I'm an only child and I have learned to cope with this my entire life.
I suggest you try and find a way to cope because thats clearly not going to change
and I'm sorry the truth makes you want to kill yourself, its life and you're going to have to get used to it

being lonely leads to taking longer showers? what does that even mean?

No I am telling you to try and start a conversation on facebook or something. Not to directly ask her for her number.

I also suggested you just do whatever you feel comfortable with. you're what, 18? you're acting like youre 13 years old. you should be able to figure these kind of things out for yourself

I've never had a fricking girlfriend in my whole life and your telling me I should know what to do!

Your kidding me, your seriously kidding me.

Do you also feel that you don't have any friends, everyone bullies you due to your likes, your feel isolated due to not being able to express yourself and the things you like. WELCOME TO MY LIFE!!! This is what I have to go through. Now you fricking know why its so hard for me to even talk to a girl I like. ITS ALL BECAUSE OF MY PROBLEMS. ITS THE REASON I'M SHY. IT'S ALSO THE REASON TO WHY I FEEL LIKE KILLING MYSELF.

I seriously feel getting a girlfriend will help me be accepted and liked for the things I like and how I am. But I seriously don't see that happening.

This is an f'ed up world. :cry:

[clueless_one]

oh for gods sake
I'm an only child and I have learned to cope with this my entire life.
I suggest you try and find a way to cope because thats clearly not going to change
and I'm sorry the truth makes you want to kill yourself, its life and you're going to have to get used to it

being lonely leads to taking longer showers? what does that even mean?

No I am telling you to try and start a conversation on facebook or something. Not to directly ask her for her number.

I also suggested you just do whatever you feel comfortable with. you're what, 18? you're acting like youre 13 years old. you should be able to figure these kind of things out for yourself

I guess your not replying because you don't know how difficult my life is. Or you have given up in helping me baca use you know I have too many problems that I have and you WANT me to be stuck with the fricking problems.