What is the worst thing a boyfriend or girlfriend can say?

[Dennis Chaney]

Okay so I wanted to see what everyone considers to be the worst possible thing that a boyfriend or girlfriend could say to you? And I don't mean like cheating or sleeping with someone else because everyone knows that ranks pretty high on the list lol..

[The Flash]

"I only asked you out because I was dared to"

[HideInPlainSight]

[ ... ]

[skiman]

text 1: I'm breaking up with you
text 2: sorry wrong person

[LifeOfLove]

"Nevermind it didn't matter anyway."
"So don't freak out but..."
"I'm okay but..."

Of course there is all the mean stuff you can say to anybody, but those three get me the most!

[BlueSky]

"My ex used to like..."

[Dennis Chaney]

"My ex used to like..."

Out of all of my dating experiences, never ever never bring up exs or what y'all did together or any of the such, because hence that's why they are exs lol.

"Nevermind it didn't matter anyway."
"So don't freak out but..."
"I'm okay but..."

Of course there is all the mean stuff you can say to anybody, but those three get me the most!

Lol I've had that happen before but one that really pisses me off is,

When they do something wrong or hurtful and you ask why did you do that, and they say "I don't know"

"No, forget it, it doesn't matter...", or after breaking up, "Psht, whatever, I never liked you that much anyways."

Also, as I think about it, "I have terminal [___] cancer..." ;-;

Yeah that's pretty annoying when they will start to bring something up then say uhh nevermind it doesn't matter. Cause then you start thinking the worst possible thing (well in my case anyways lol)

"I only asked you out because I was dared to"

Hate that. Or when they say I dated you just to tear your heart apart like your friend did to me or something along those lines.

[Vocabulous]

text 1: I'm breaking up with you
text 2: sorry wrong person

Winner.

[indoxyl]

good lord everyone in this thread knows awful people

uh, calling me by someone elses name? or something idk

[PinkFloyd]

"Without me, you're a nobody."

"Sometimes you can be a real bitch. You know that?"

"I hate you."

That's just naming a few..

[LouBerry]

Nothing. Being ignored is way worse than anything he could say.

[CharlieHorse]

*receives text message from gf/bf*
"babe, i think we need to break up"
then... "oops wrong number sorry"

[Blood]

"I'm only with you because I think you have a hot body."

:|

[Seemyheart]

"You're the reason I am like this! I am suicidal and I hurt myself because of you!"

Got that said to me once...hurt like...I don't even know the right words to describe it

[JoeJoeyJoe]

I think it would be 'oh? i thought they were suppose to be bigger than that' lol

[Luminous]

"We need to talk"
lol

[ashdyn]

*Inserts penis*
GF: "Is is in yet?"

[WeAreOneRepublic]

"You feel just like *insert ex's name*"

Now I haven't nor will try this.

[tedheath]

"I'm a dude" if it's your gf

[Dennis Chaney]

"You're the reason I am like this! I am suicidal and I hurt myself because of you!"

Got that said to me once...hurt like...I don't even know the right words to describe it

I've had someone say that to me but in reality it was herself making her depressed because she was hurting me and I got pissed at her lol, like ummm what did you expect? Me to be a care bear and say oh its okay that you lie to me and do stuff behind my back. Umm no mam xD

good lord everyone in this thread knows awful people

uh, calling me by someone elses name? or something idk

Lol I know right but it happens, and I've been called their ex's names and I'm like "come again? Or everyone's favorite phrase oh no you didn't" lol

Nothing. Being ignored is way worse than anything he could say.

Yeah intentionally ignoring me is never a good idea lol. If you can't talk about it then you don't deserve to be with me lol.

"I'm fine." After asking if they are okay. Something is always wrong.

Happens to me a lot, when they say "its fine" or "I'm fine" 99% of the time means something is wrong but I'm going to make you beg me to tell you anyways lol.

Another one that bothers me is when you are having a argument or type a long message and all they text back is K. The first thought that comes to mind is "F*** you too then" lol

[Melodic]

"Your best friend is hot"

"If you won't have sex with me, I'm breaking up with you"

"You're not allowed to _________"


Side note: None of these have happened to me but I've witnessed it from other people..

[Dennis Chaney]

"Your best friend is hot"

"If you won't have sex with me, I'm breaking up with you"

"You're not allowed to _________"


Side note: None of these have happened to me but I've witnessed it from other people..

I've had all three happen to me, the not allowed to thing is acceptable to a certain extent, if you say I'm not allowed to do something then neither are you vice versa. My relationships are about fairness and equality.

[Cassius]

Today my friend's girlfriend told my friend's friend that she was going to breakup with my friend in two days. What the heyell?!?

[workingatperfect]

"I don't care."
Notice, not I don't care about you, but if you're talking about something and they just interrupt with "I don't care." It just makes it feel like your thoughts and feelings aren't important to them. Even if it's just the smallest thing, like I don't know, that just hurts. It makes you feel so insignificant.

And something my boyfriend does that really gets on my nerves and hurts my feelings, along those same lines, is if I'm telling something and he goes "Yeah, goodnight," and rolls back over. Like, excuse me, am I not important enough that you can't take 40 more seconds to listen to me say this one little thing that I obviously find somewhat important if I'm talking about it.

[ksdnfkfr]

"I think we need to spend some time apart"

[NeuroTiger]

"Its high time for us to take some time free from each other"

[sqishy]

"I hate you" [without humour] is one that would hit deep. But it's not just words that can hurt, in fact almost everything else about a relationship can, if it goes wrong.

[Pittsburgh]

"I want what we have, just not with you"

[mrmee]

Most feared words by any man: "We need to talk"

[Myxox]

"I like your best friend"

[Seahawks15]

Out of all of my dating experiences, never ever never bring up exs or what y'all did together or any of the such, because hence that's why they are exs lol.



Lol I've had that happen before but one that really pisses me off is,

When they do something wrong or hurtful and you ask why did you do that, and they say "I don't know"



Yeah that's pretty annoying when they will start to bring something up then say uhh nevermind it doesn't matter. Cause then you start thinking the worst possible thing (well in my case anyways lol)



Hate that. Or when they say I dated you just to tear your heart apart like your friend did to me or something along those lines.

My ex told me everything that was on this thread :(

[newkler]

"I own you, and I will never set you free"

[Synyster Shadows]

"It's not me; it's you."

[carissaurus]

Nothing. Being ignored is way worse than anything he could say.

Winner!!

That, or one word answers.

[SwegMachine]

"Goodbye."

[Saint of Sinners]

Her: " Remember when I told you I love you?"
Me: "Yeah, what about it?"
Her: "I lied." *Smiles*

That would suck.

[AlexOnToast]

"I hope you die alone and screaming" has got to be one of the worse ones :(

[Tenoka]

"I'm disappointed in you for not keeping our promise."
"You've always annoyed me."

[Emerald Dream]

"You're nothing without me."

[hipster101]

I had the whole "ex's name" thing happen...that hurt like a bitch...


I always make the mistake of bringing up ex's on like first dates and stuff because I get nervous and ramble...

I had "You weren't my type" after a two month long relationship....yeah...if I wasn't your type than what the hell was I? -_-

[Human]

*Inserts penis*
GF: "Is is in yet?"

Definitely this
I would probably die inside and then break up out of self consciousness

[liptonlee]

'whatever'

[Philleeep]

It would be pretty awful if the wrong name was said during sex, or if I was told that they had a terminal illness.

[baseballjock]

u say i love u she says ...cool

[juanita]

When your partner continually tells you how terrible ther ex was.....then one day they blurt out in the middle of an argument "Their ex wasn"t so bad afer all"

[Cygnus]

"I don't want your help" is just crushing.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

"If only someone actually loved you"
Sorry that was bs, I just wanted to quote.
"I never really liked you. I just went out with you so you didn't feel sad if I said no"