He called me hot

[BookSmart]

I've like this guy for over a year now. he was sitting with me and a few of our friends at luch. Someone brought up the topic of video games, and I got excited. My friend Kim mentioned playing Halo and I said "I wish I could play! I love vidoe games even though I'm not super good!" Everyone stopped talking and stared at me (I'm kinda the "innocent one" out of my friends. Then the guy I like said (directed towards me) "A hot girl that like video games? That's awesome!" Of course I blushed and everyone laughed at him...until it hit them all. Kim asked "did you just call Anna (me) hot?" He responded with a straight yes and didn't seem embarasseed at all. We all laughed some more I guess (I was in kind of a happy daze at this point) and then Kim took me with her to go to the snack bar, and we discussed what had just happened (granted it was mostly me talking and her laughing at my reaction). So..does this mean he likes me?

We've been hanging out a lot this year. I talk to him pretty much everyday and morning of school. He's also in two clubs with me and I WAS in his English class but I had to switch periods :(. Did I mention I like him???? :D

[MechaSniper]

Well try to talk to him (alone) and ask him if he does.

[Seemyheart]

1) I'd be doin a lil happy victory dance...
2) congrats
3) he may or may not like you...he may think your cool... stuff like that...or he could legitimately like you too. I say you should talk to him, or maybe drop subtle hints here and there??

[BookSmart]

okay thanks for the advice! I'm still just s happy! I guess I'm also nervous too. I'm kind of shy off-line, so I'm not sure how I'd bring it up. Ah well, thaks again! Gaww I''m just so happy!

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

A girl gamer, that's awesome. And yes he likes you if he said it without laughing

[Melodic]

Signs point to possibly, but I'd ask him about it. And do it where none of your friends are around as it makes it awkward..

[indoxyl]

theres still people out there that think being a "gamer girl" is some non-existent thing? thats funny. but yeah i would just ask the guy

[BookSmart]

A girl gamer, that's awesome. And yes he likes you if he said it without laughing

I'm really not that great a gamer, I just think it's fun to play! But thanks anyways :)
Signs point to possibly, but I'd ask him about it. And do it where none of your friends are around as it makes it awkward..
I'll talk to him about it. And yeah...I know a person who would defiantly mess things up. She always seems to but in on my conversations with him at the worst times (and she is horrible at sensing the mood lol). She's my friend though, so I love her anyways :)

theres still people out there that think being a "gamer cool" is some non-existent thing? thats funny. but yeah i would just ask the guy

I know, being a girl who likes gaming isn't really that rare! I'm not even a very cool person O_o I consider myself closer to awkward.


This response is really long...oops.

[WeAreOneRepublic]

Hey, go against the trend and ask him out on a date somewhere, might make things cool and interesting, good luck :D

[Luminous]

Sounds to me like this could become a relationship. It's like a game of chess. He made the first move, now it's your turn to make the second. And it's more complicated than checkers.

[YOUR BROTHER]

it sounds like he likes you maybe you should talk to him and maybe ask him if he does but act like your joking so just incase he says no.. your covered hope i helped......

[BookSmart]

...I think I screwed it up! My friend (who knows both of us) decided it would be a good idea to play matchmaker. She's in the same history class as him, and I guess she asked him if he like me. He asked if I liked him so my friend said yes. Then he told her that yes, he does like me. Here's where it got bad...

She got both of us to meet up after school, she had us face each other, then told us "talk! Exchange numbers!" Needless to say it was very awkward! We're both shy, so I really think the whole 'there's another person standing here with us' made it feel awkward. Actually...the awkward was tangible. It was bad. Hopefully we can try talking it out alone tomorrow and see what happens then. I really hope this isn't ruined.

[mrmee]

If it is like you say, he likes you. A lot. I doubt that incident with your friend screwed anything up. When you do get a chance to talk to him alone, try to tell him you like him. He should get the hint if he isn't clueless.

[highschool]

don't know if he official "likes you" but he's atleast, definitely interested! talk to him more and see where it goes.

[gliderman]

I think he likes you a LOT! And vice versa! Maybe ask him to join you for a gaming session, take it from there. Good luck! :D

[Wildsassygirl]

At least he is interested in you. The one guy I like won't even talk to me.

[Myxox]

It's always awkward when friends try to set you up and pressure you to talk. Just get him alone and say you know that was awkward but really would like to hang out together.

[nklarke]

At least he is interested in you. The one guy I like won't even talk to me.

Why not?

[Miri]

...I think I screwed it up! My friend (who knows both of us) decided it would be a good idea to play matchmaker. She's in the same history class as him, and I guess she asked him if he like me. He asked if I liked him so my friend said yes. Then he told her that yes, he does like me. Here's where it got bad...

She got both of us to meet up after school, she had us face each other, then told us "talk! Exchange numbers!" Needless to say it was very awkward! We're both shy, so I really think the whole 'there's another person standing here with us' made it feel awkward. Actually...the awkward was tangible. It was bad. Hopefully we can try talking it out alone tomorrow and see what happens then. I really hope this isn't ruined.

I don't think your friend messed anything up. The initial awkward phase is bound to happen, but hey, at least you know now that there is mutual interest!
That's good, and you didn't have to ask him about it yourself and face the possible rejection that comes with not knowing.

Now that you know that there is mutual interest, let things happen from there, and I'm sure that something will come of it.