Kissing

[hermanthefish]

So I am 13 and currently dating a girl. We've been dating for about 7 months. We had our first kiss at the end of September, and it seemed pretty natural, because we both wanted it to happen, and knew that it was gonna happen then. However, we still haven't had our second kiss because it seems that there is never a right time and/or place. I know we both feel this way from a mutual friend that told me about their conversation about it. How do I initiate a second kiss/make it happen. Also her birthday is in two days so should i make a move then? Thanks for your help VT!

[dreamofdante]

So I am 13 and currently dating a girl. We've been dating for about 7 months. We had our first kiss at the end of September, and it seemed pretty natural, because we both wanted it to happen, and knew that it was gonna happen then. However, we still haven't had our second kiss because it seems that there is never a right time and/or place. I know we both feel this way from a mutual friend that told me about their conversation about it. How do I initiate a second kiss/make it happen. Also her birthday is in two days so should i make a move then? Thanks for your help VT!

I don't know how to initiate a first one :lol:

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[hermanthefish]

If you can't find a moment, make one. Her birthday would be the perfect time! Whenever you two are in an appropriate place, meaning prolly away from parents if you two are uncomfortable with that, pull her aside. Just get her a little bit away from the group, wish her a happy birthday, and kiss her. Yeah it'd be a tic difficult, trying to form a moment, but it will so be worth it. Not only will it show how much you care, you setting aside time to kiss her, the spontaneity of it will be really sweet.
It really just depends on what you two are comfortable with, but that's what I would do. You just gotta remember that not all moments come easily. Sometimes you have to make a right time, and hope it's in the right place. If nothin else, she'll be grateful for you trying.
I'm sorry I can't be of much more help than that... ^^;

Thanks a ton! also, i know u guys wont really be able to help with this, but theres not really any private places at our school

[ksdnfkfr]

I think you are over thinking it and needlessly
waiting for the right time and place when there
doesn't need to be one. I think the right time to
kiss her is when her face is close to yours. Simple as that.

[BlueSky]

I hate to quote Inspector Clouseau, but when it's worked for me I used my - instinct! When I applied rules it didn't work - both times!! I also snogged a very drunk girl I didn't know at a party. That was cool.

[mrmee]

First of all, it depends on the girl. I had my first kiss in kindergarten during naptime and my second kiss right after. I think that would be a great birthday present for her though.

[JayDilla]

i was 11 years old for my first kiss but i wasn't into it til i was 14 last year