Why is my boyfriend ignoring me all of a sudden

[vvx1711]

Me and my boyfriend made our relationship official about a week and a half ago. That was the last time I saw him, since he went on vacation with his family. He said he would be gone for about a week, but he hasn't told me exactly when he is coming back, or if he is already home. We've been talking almost every day since he's been away, except for the past 3 days he hasn't answered any of my texts or calls. I felt like everything was okay the last day we talked ...the last thing he told me was that he was getting drunk with his cousins..but I didn't get mad over it or anything, I mean at least he was doing it with family instead of going out and hooking up with random chicks, right? But after that, he didn't reply...and the next day was thanksgiving, and I waited until evening, thinking he would at least send me a text wishing me a happy thanksgiving, but he didn't so I took the initiative to do so and sent him a happy thanksgiving text. He didn't reply, so I didn't text or call him the next day. Yesterday, I waited until night to call him, he didn't pick up...then a couple minutes later I texted him simply saying "Hi" and he didn't text back. I still haven't heard from him, and I don't know what's going on. I think this is the longest we've gone without talking after a long time.....I don't even know if he's home yet, and I wanna know so I can see him. But if he won't even send a text to let me know what's going on with him, what can I do? Yet, he still has time to go on facebook and twitter (I can tell because on facebook it shows the last time the person was logged in, and he goes on a couple times a day), even though he is busy with his family. I don't get it. I really miss him and I wanna know if he's mad at me for some reason or if something happened, but I feel like the more I try to get in contact with him, the more I'm gonna annoy him and make him want to ignore me more. Is it normal for boyfriends to do this? To not talk to their girlfriends for a couple days? Why? I think if you're in a relationship with someone, the least you should do is send a text or call them once a day to let them know how you're doing or to show that you're thinking about them. Is that too much to ask?

[The Flash]

Maybe he got grounded for getting drunk? or something happened to his phone?
And don't get too clingy, unless he doesn't mind that.

[mrpieface2]

The #1 thing you DON'T want to do is be clingy. If you text him every like , 5 minutes for example, he's going to get annoyed. Trust me. He still loves you probably. You just have to remember that he's on vacation, it's his time away from everything that's going on in his life.

[conniption]

^^
Being clingy is a huge no no. Chill out and wait for him to contact you. I'm sure it's nothing too serious.

[Pacaveli]

You sound a bit clingy, boys/men don't like that. We feel we need to be independent at times, but in you're situation, it's probably not that. His phone charger probably broke or he got grounded.

[indoxyl]

Me and my boyfriend made our relationship official about a week and a half ago. That was the last time I saw him, since he went on vacation with his family. He said he would be gone for about a week, but he hasn't told me exactly when he is coming back, or if he is already home. We've been talking almost every day since he's been away, except for the past 3 days he hasn't answered any of my texts or calls. I felt like everything was okay the last day we talked ...the last thing he told me was that he was getting drunk with his cousins..but I didn't get mad over it or anything, I mean at least he was doing it with family instead of going out and hooking up with random chicks, right? But after that, he didn't reply...and the next day was thanksgiving, and I waited until evening, thinking he would at least send me a text wishing me a happy thanksgiving, but he didn't so I took the initiative to do so and sent him a happy thanksgiving text. He didn't reply, so I didn't text or call him the next day. Yesterday, I waited until night to call him, he didn't pick up...then a couple minutes later I texted him simply saying "Hi" and he didn't text back. I still haven't heard from him, and I don't know what's going on. I think this is the longest we've gone without talking after a long time.....I don't even know if he's home yet, and I wanna know so I can see him. But if he won't even send a text to let me know what's going on with him, what can I do? Yet, he still has time to go on facebook and twitter (I can tell because on facebook it shows the last time the person was logged in, and he goes on a couple times a day), even though he is busy with his family. I don't get it. I really miss him and I wanna know if he's mad at me for some reason or if something happened, but I feel like the more I try to get in contact with him, the more I'm gonna annoy him and make him want to ignore me more. Is it normal for boyfriends to do this? To not talk to their girlfriends for a couple days? Why? I think if you're in a relationship with someone, the least you should do is send a text or call them once a day to let them know how you're doing or to show that you're thinking about them. Is that too much to ask?
I'm enjoying how the four of you are assuming that ALL guys hate clingy significant others. you aint talking to every guy on the planet you dont know what the other guys like.

look, if he hasn't been calling you back or even sending you one text to say everything is okay, I think you should just send him one more text. Just ask him if everything is okay with you two or at least tell him to try and take two seconds out of his vacation to tell you that everything is fine

honestly, if you have been talking everyday while he was on vacation and then he suddenly stopped talking to you all together, there's gotta be something up. of course there is the possibility that hes too busy or he lost his phone or whatever. but if he is able to go on facebook and twitter at least twice a day he should have the decency to message you on facebook and tell you everythings fine and stuff.

[Dennis Chaney]

I love how guys post on behalf of guys in general, most of the guys I know like neediness, why? Because neediness shows that they actually care to be a part of your relationship and that they care to talk to you. Yes I can agree that sometimes it can get irritating but for the most part I like it. Now what bothers me most is like what's going on with her boyfriend. There is nothing worse then worrying yourself sick over something that could be simply solved with a two second text message. But I will say this, most guy and girls suck at relationships and don't know what they want. Not only in the teenage years but later on in life as well. But what I can say is to at least give him time to explain why or what was going on, or message him via Facebook seeing as he won't answer texts, and if he gets all pissy with you then you can always find someone who will actually talk to you.