is he interested in me?

[shiningmalik]

i met this guy off a dating website. I'm a guy too. Was curious at the time. We met at his place and talked a little before diving in for the sex. All we did was makeout while he lay and rubbed his body against mine. Not sure if it matters but he ejaculated almost 3 mins into the session to frotting and kissing only. The guy had me totally enamored.
Next morning, I txt him to ask how he was doing and what he thought abt ystrday. He responds to me around evening telling me he was confused. Doesn't elaborate on that when i ask him to. This makes my kinda sad
( please read the following three posts as well.)

[shiningmalik]

To keep frm driving him away with my frequent txtn, i hit him him up only once in a while. He would never initiate the texting, neither would open himself up to me in anyway. But i usually would. So a month goes by and he brings up to meet again.
We arrange a meeting at my place. This is more of a date where we watch a movie together on my laptop with a bit of snuggling. And i have to do most of the talking when we would. He did say he was kinda taciturn though.

[shiningmalik]

so a few days later, my result comes in which is bad and i subseguently suffer frm a horrible breakout. I shun him altogether for the while it lasts for fear if he wanted to meet up. 2 months go by and i regain my self esteem. I never hear frm him in the meantime. So i txt him and he tells me he has moved back to his family in another city. It gets me really sad.
He let's me knoe he'll be visiting my city for a day and if i wanted to meet. I said sure. But at the last minute on the day he came by, he excused saying he was really busy and coudn't find time.. I took this as a sign as his total loss of interest in me.

[shiningmalik]

a couple weeks into the whole thing and i start missing him really bad so send him a txt. He doesnt reply. I keep txtn and i finally say if he wanted to end keeping me in contact. To this he replies almost immediately saying how i could even think like that. He trusts me completely and would want to keep me in his contct ''forever''. This excited and confused me at the same time.
So is he really interested in me or is he being friendly? I know it's long but i wanted to present the whole background to the situation so u guys could analyse closely. Damn it makes me feel lighter just by puuting it all out.

[Living For Love]

He still wants to be in contact with you, but he probably realises your relationship won't go too far because you don't have much opportunities to meet and spend time together, like a real couple, so he doesn't want you to set your expectations too high. Just keep texting him, show you care, and don't force him to meet you. You two can still love eachother, even if you're not close.