First time

[Dane43]

Ok so i am kinda emberrased when asking this actualy

I have never had a gf since 3 months ago so i did not have sex nor even kissed a girl before.
We have been away from each other for school stuff ( she went to some kind of a school trip ) and we are gonna "do it" when she comes back , which is 2 weeks later. I am really feeling ready for it but I am a little bit uncomfortable since I haven't even kissed a girl before and have no idea how to do it :(

I feel really shy and I am not planning to tell her that she is my first kiss or my first gf. So uh , any advice?

[Swagging god]

Congrats, just relax, take your time and enjoy it, protection, be receptive and communicate your feelings and her's.

[Dane43]

Congrats, just relax, take your time and enjoy it, protection, be receptive and communicate your feelings and her's.

Should I get drunk before meeting her? That would get me relaxed and more easy going

[TommyTom]

Should I get drunk before meeting her? That would get me relaxed and more easy going

I would never get drunk b4 sex especially not b4 the first time!
You could do something stupid when u are drunk also what Kind of message does that send to her?? u have to get drunk otherwise u can't do it with her?
Also why don't u tell her it is ur first time sex?! How old are u?? And tell her that u waited for the right Girl and that u think she is the right Girl the Girl of ur dreams .-. Me and my gf both were virgins and both waited for the right Partner and both thought that that was awesome of the other Person thinking we are the one right Person!!
And most importantly relax and enjoy it ohhh and be nice to her obv i hope i don't have to tell u not to force it not to force anything and take ur time and move if u she wants to be a bit slower with it all then u?? then move at her pace since it should be fun for both of you right? :)

[Swagging god]

Should I get drunk before meeting her? That would get me relaxed and more easy going

No, you could have a few drinks before, if you feel that it will relax you, JUST DON'T GET WASTED. You'll want to remember your first time and be at your best.

[Swagging god]

I would never get drunk b4 sex especially not b4 the first time!
You could do something stupid when u are drunk also what Kind of message does that send to her?? u have to get drunk otherwise u can't do it with her?
Also why don't u tell her it is ur first time sex?! How old are u?? And tell her that u waited for the right Girl and that u think she is the right Girl the Girl of ur dreams .-. Me and my gf both were virgins and both waited for the right Partner and both thought that that was awesome of the other Person thinking we are the one right Person!!
And most importantly relax and enjoy it ohhh and be nice to her obv i hope i don't have to tell u not to force it not to force anything and take ur time and move if u she wants to be a bit slower with it all then u?? then move at her pace since it should be fun for both of you right? :)

Yes just be open and the fact that she is your first should make it more special for you both.

[Dane43]

I would never get drunk b4 sex especially not b4 the first time!
You could do something stupid when u are drunk also what Kind of message does that send to her?? u have to get drunk otherwise u can't do it with her?
Also why don't u tell her it is ur first time sex?! How old are u?? And tell her that u waited for the right Girl and that u think she is the right Girl the Girl of ur dreams .-. Me and my gf both were virgins and both waited for the right Partner and both thought that that was awesome of the other Person thinking we are the one right Person!!
And most importantly relax and enjoy it ohhh and be nice to her obv i hope i don't have to tell u not to force it not to force anything and take ur time and move if u she wants to be a bit slower with it all then u?? then move at her pace since it should be fun for both of you right? :)

No, you could have a few drinks before, if you feel that it will relax you, JUST DON'T GET WASTED. You'll want to remember your first time and be at your best.

I won't get wasted , just a couple to get me relaxed! And she knows that it's my first time sex and its also her first time. I am just not comfortable that it's my first kiss and I don't want her to know that

[Swagging god]

Ok good, I doubt she will know it is you kiss. Just enjoy it and explore.

[TommyTom]

I won't get wasted , just a couple to get me relaxed! And she knows that it's my first time sex and its also her first time. I am just not comfortable that it's my first kiss and I don't want her to know that

And once again i ask u why aren't u comfortable with that??
I would feel flattered knowing im my gf's first bf/first kiss ^-^ And u kno why i say that?? Cuz that actually was the case!! I wasn't her first bf... but i was her first longer bf for some reason she rejected the other ones REAAALLLYYY sooon and i was her first kiss she told me ( till then she never wanted to kiss anyone since she wanted to have the first with someone Special :$ There was actually once a guy she told me a random guy that tried to kiss her at a Party and she punched him in the balls o_O ) and i was flattered that i was the one worthy to be her first and that she actually thought that highly of me!!
And as to advice for ur first time??
Remember it is not a solo campaign it is a co-op or Teamgame and the most important Thing in Teamgames is communication!! So talk with her and don't try to just do what you want but u Need to reeeeallllyyy respect her Needs and what she wants!!

[Swagging god]

And once again i ask u why aren't u comfortable with that??
I would feel flattered knowing im my gf's first bf/first kiss ^-^ And u kno why i say that?? Cuz that actually was the case!! I wasn't her first bf... but i was her first longer bf for some reason she rejected the other ones REAAALLLYYY sooon and i was her first kiss she told me ( till then she never wanted to kiss anyone since she wanted to have the first with someone Special :$ There was actually once a guy she told me a random guy that tried to kiss her at a Party and she punched him in the balls o_O ) and i was flattered that i was the one worthy to be her first and that she actually thought that highly of me!!
And as to advice for ur first time??
Remember it is not a solo campaign it is a co-op or Teamgame and the most important Thing in Teamgames is communication!! So talk with her and don't try to just do what you want but u Need to reeeeallllyyy respect her Needs and what she wants!!

Good answer

[Anton]

Should I get drunk before meeting her? That would get me relaxed and more easy going

don't get drunk off your ass drunk but have a shot of vodka followed with a breathmint before you do it.

[Dragon Grisu]

Keep cool. There`s not much that can go wrong. Just take your time and do what both of you like - not what you think you have to do just because it is the situation for this.

[Luminous]

Honestly, it doesn't sound to me like you're ready. You're considering getting drunk? You haven't even kissed her yet? You're keeping things from her (that she is your first gf)?