I'm confused about my sexuality.

[Lothlorien]

Hello! I'm well into my teens, but I'm not interested in guys my age and never have been. It's weird; I think I may be bisexually interested in much older adults. This June I remember having strange feelings about a ninety-year-old man. I'm serious, so please don't make fun. I told my dad about it, and he said it's probably a method of protection. He explained that if I want something impossible, I'm safe because there's no way in the world I'm doing anything with this nonagenarian. But if it were someone my age, he continued, that might be more realistic and practical, and I'd be in danger of doing something I'm not ready for. At least that's how I interpret what he said. But I also have other strange feelings. For example, I am very aroused when there is a substitute teacher, man or woman, who I don't know the name of. I get somewhat excited by the idea of strangers ringing the doorbell. I'm sorry this is so long, but I don't feel comfortable enough to talk to anyone in person and just needed to spill this all out. If anyone has ideas/explanations/advice, that would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all in advance!

[Living For Love]

I think it's probably just your hormones. I wouldn't worry too much about it, we all have some kind of weird thoughts from time to time.

[ksdnfkfr]

It sounds to me like your dad has a handle on it.
It is cool you were able to confide in him and he
gave you such a professional sounding explanation.

[Wyatt 13]

Hi Jo, can relate your situation cuz I kinda like older guys or girls I mean not OLDER LOL more like 14 to 17 and I dunno why.

[tomuk]

I think it's perfectly natural to have feelings like this because there are plenty of people that have 'weird' interests. I'm much the same; I like the idea of strangers watching me and get really turned on by the idea that guys are being pleasured. I wouldn't worry too much just become comfortable and explore your interests. Just make sure you're safe doing so!