Cousin

[Magnus Bane]

So I had Thanksgiving dinner yesterday and my cousins came over well I'm gay and my oldest cousin who is a boy i have a crush on him and i dont know if i should confront him about it or not. I'm actualy kind of scared though because it could cause family problems i just dont know what to do

[Fanta_Lover44]

That's a hard one... I'm not sure what would be the best solution. Maybe just talk to him but don't tell him you have a crush on him. If it goes well then maybe tell him... It might not go well. And yes it could cause family problems. Just try talk to him, you don't need to tell you have a crush on him though.

[Reagan Smash Bros]

I hate to say it, but depending on what type of cousin (first, second, etc.) it's technically incest. If I was in your position, I wouldn't go any further because of the family problems it could cause. Also, it could ruin the relationship between you too if he were to react badly.

[Living For Love]

He's your cousin, remember that. I don't think you should tell him if he's straight, it might end up ruining your friendship.

[nklarke]

It's your cousin and moreover you don't know if he's gay so FORGET IT. There are plenty of guys you could have a crush on.

[Lost in the Echo]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Family & Friends
This would be more relevant in this section.

As for your situation: Crushes come and go, so I wouldn't be worried.
It's common to at some point have feelings of attraction towards a family member, or even a full-fledged "crush", but most of the time it's only a phase that eventually passes over time.
Besides, you know that pursuing a relationship with him would be wrong, and creepy, so just try to keep this off your mind any you'll be okay.

[ksdnfkfr]

Keep it to yourself.
Your crush will pass.
But the can of worms you open may not.

[natebug44]

Keep it to yourself.
Your crush will pass.
But the can of worms you open may not.

That is a grate quote. And I agree u can make huge family problem by asking just get ur mind off of him and look for othegr guys there are plenty out there

[Wyatt 13]

Keep it to yourself.
Your crush will pass.
But the can of worms you open may not.


Ezra You are an awesome guy. I wish I were smart like you. I always read your answers to the posts, sometimes tbh I don't understand and I need to read twice LOL, I know I'm slow sometimes understanding stuff and my grammar really sux, so anyway just 2 tell you you are really awesome.;)

[hockeyfan]

Do u really wanna date a cousin? If not i recommend distancing urself.

[loki2000]

yeah ..dont mess stuff up with him...just be his friend safer that way