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The Flash
November 28th, 2013, 08:36 PM
So I met this guy last weekend, and I got his number, but I'm still in the closet, so I got his number as a "friend". Anyways, I've been texting him since Sunday, and I'm really interested in him. But I'm not sure if he feels the same. It seems he may be, but then again, mixed signals. It could be that he's just being nice?

Like he's replied to all my texts, and he actually replies in sentences. But then he always has to stop texting after like 20-30mins. He always puts a ":)" in like almost all his texts.

I think I make it a little bit obvious that I'm interested.
But, I'm not sure if I should make it like reallllly obvious that I'm interested, or not? Idk, helpp :P
If you have any questions, just PM me :)
Living For Love
November 30th, 2013, 07:29 AM
You could try to arrange a meeting with him, get to know him better, personaly.
The Flash
November 30th, 2013, 09:22 AM
You could try to arrange a meeting with him, get to know him better, personaly.

The thing is, he lives an hour and 30 minute bus ride away. It could work, but I doubt it.
Living For Love
November 30th, 2013, 09:50 AM
The thing is, he lives an hour and 30 minute bus ride away. It could work, but I doubt it.

But you've never met him personally?
The Flash
November 30th, 2013, 10:54 AM
But you've never met him personally?

I have, once. And it was for a workshop, so we didn't talk too much
Living For Love
November 30th, 2013, 11:11 AM
I have, once. And it was for a workshop, so we didn't talk too much

Well, in that case, I suggest you just keep texting him and stuff, try to find more things about him. You can make it obvious that you're interested in him, and see what happens from there.
Bilbo Baggins
November 30th, 2013, 08:20 PM
Well, do you have any access to Skype? O r any type of webcam? If not, try to hint, or send flirty texts. Not much advice, I know. But it's the best I got.
The Flash
December 1st, 2013, 10:38 AM
Well, do you have any access to Skype? O r any type of webcam? If not, try to hint, or send flirty texts. Not much advice, I know. But it's the best I got.

Thanks Bilbo, tell Frodo I said Hi. :P
Bilbo Baggins
December 2nd, 2013, 12:01 AM
Thanks Bilbo, tell Frodo I said Hi. :P
I will, my dear lad! He's probally off with the elves somewhere...