Gay thoughts

[cvoio]

A question like this has probably already been answered but there are a lot of guys i find attractive (sexually not emotionally) at my school. I have gay thoughts about them. I can't say anything about girls because they are in a different building and I don't have enough interaction with them to be attracted to any one of them. I really do not want to be gay because I want a family with blood relatives. I know I have the capacity to be attracted to girls, but I've never been aroused the way I have with some guys. Maybe it's just a phase.

[milo03]

Are you attracted to girls at all?

[cvoio]

Yes but I'm not sexually aroused when I see a girl I know is attractive. I can see myself being emotionally attracted to a girl but it can be awkward at first...

[milo03]

Yes but I'm not sexually aroused when I see a girl I know is attractive. I can see myself being emotionally attracted to a girl but it can be awkward at first...

What do you mean "awkward?" What makes it awkward?

[cvoio]

idk I just feel detached. If I wanted to have a relationship with a girl I just feel it wouldn't work out. I am much more comfortable with guys.

[milo03]

idk I just feel detached. If I wanted to have a relationship with a girl I just feel it wouldn't work out. I am much more comfortable with guys.

You might be want to explore these thoughts you're having. It wouldn't hurt to experiment.

[mikemidas63]

I would say it's just a phase.
I was going through the same thing.
Then two months later i realised i was bi.
Mayybe you are bi.
But it might just be a phase.
Probably a phase

[cvoio]

I've thought about that but there isn't really anyone I could experiment with. I wouldn't want other people to think I'm gay either. I really want to be straight. I don't even know how I would go about "experimenting"

if i'm bi, is it possible to suppress my feelings toward guys? I feel like they're pretty strong.

Please don't double post, use the edit button instead. ~Siobhan.

[milo03]

I've thought about that but there isn't really anyone I could experiment with. I wouldn't want other people to think I'm gay either. I really want to be straight. I don't even know how I would go about "experimenting"

You can't just want to be straight. What you're going through could either be a phase or you may just be bi/gay. However, it's up to you to decide.

[ska8er]

I live like that everyday. girls and guys arouse me. it might b
a phase tho idk but with u I think u might b bi and there is
nothing wrong being that way. I really cant say I have sexual
feelings with my close friends but when I c an older teen guy
who is cute I think of him and me together. girls also get me
hard.

[ford97]

I would say it's just a phase.
I was going through the same thing.
Then two months later i realised i was bi.
Mayybe you are bi.
But it might just be a phase.
Probably a phase

this same thing happened with me, and i think i'm bi too. but i spent about 18mnths trying to figure it out and i won't tell my parents.

[ska8er]

this same thing happened with me, and i think i'm bi too. but i spent about 18mnths trying to figure it out and i won't tell my parents.

dude im the same an I dont know if I ever will figure
myself out. ur parents need not to know don't tell.

[AlexBoy]

Don't place too much emphasis on it, it's not like you have to 'choose', with experience and time you'll find out who you really are :) there's no time limit on it, just don't force anything to happen or force yourself to go one way or the other, just let things happen as they roll

[KoolKid96]

U might be bi or curious, maybe when u interact with girls then u'll think differently

[Catholic Guy]

It sounds like this is happening because you aren't spending anytime with girls so males are the only option and because or hormones, but it doesn't sound like you are gay, just curious

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[YOUR BROTHER]

it could just be a phase.....

[Magnus Bane]

I think it is because you are in two separate buildings you could possible be gay or bi. but it could also be the separation of the boys and girls.

[deregisterme]

A question like this has probably already been answered but there are a lot of guys i find attractive (sexually not emotionally) at my school. I have gay thoughts about them. I can't say anything about girls because they are in a different building and I don't have enough interaction with them to be attracted to any one of them. I really do not want to be gay because I want a family with blood relatives. I know I have the capacity to be attracted to girls, but I've never been aroused the way I have with some guys. Maybe it's just a phase.

I know how you feel. There are both boys and girls that I see, that I get boners to.

[steellord321]

If your bi you could end up with a girl but will always have those feelings for guys too, but so what. If just gay, you will get used to it. Either way, try not to worry. Your sexual preference is out of your hands.

[Hausofpop]

I feel the same way too. I feel sexually attracted to guys and have thoughts about them, but I feel like I could only be in a relationship with a girl.

[natebug44]

Never be scared to experiment. Just do what feels right if u like guys don't be afraid. Show ur love!

[ksdnfkfr]

Give yourself time to work it out.

[Faolan]

A year ago I was the same way. I had grown up only having crushes on girls, but now I'm mostly gay. Who knows how you'll end up, but even if you are bi or gay (or anything else), is it really that important to be related to your partner's kids? Although there is some controversial science around that may allow 2 guys or girls to have kids together.

[tomuk]

The idea that you fit into a category of gay/bi/straight/whatever is stupid really because you like who you like and there's no boxes to tick which sorts you under a label. You grow to know yourself with time and unfortunately all you can do is wait. You shouldn't be afraid of the words 'gay' or whatever because it's only a vague description. You are unique. You are not gay/straight/bi, you are you.