I like my best mate.

[mikemidas63]

My best mate showed me the scars on his chest but i ignored the scars now i love him and want to see more. What do i do?

[milo03]

Wait. I'm confused, you love him now that he showed you his chest? Or am I missing something?

[deregisterme]

My best mate showed me the scars on his chest but i ignored the scars now i love him and want to see more. What do i do?

Firstly if you're worried he might dislike you and you're not sure how he will react, don't just come straight out and say "I want to see more". It may start with something more informal such as "what do you think of" so that if he gives a negative answer, you can avoid it. Just be prepared for a let down, and enjoy the moment if he takes it further.

[mikemidas63]

Wait. I'm confused, you love him now that he showed you his chest? Or am I missing something?


He showed me the scars on his upper body...
I ignored the scars and admired his torso...
now i love him and want to see more...
and i don't know what to do

[tisser]

So you just thought he was attractive? That would depend on what you read from him. If you seem like he might be up for something with you, then be open, but otherwise, be careful; don't want to make your friendship weird

[ska8er]

y did he show u his scars?

[mikemidas63]

y did he show u his scars?

He was telling me about them then decided to show them to me.

[ryzzz9]

that's pretty quick for love develop. you've been feeling like this for a while, I take it?

[mikemidas63]

that's pretty quick for love develop. you've been feeling like this for a while, I take it?


Yes. And i am seeing him this Saturday... i am worried about what will happen.

[deregisterme]

Yes. And i am seeing him this Saturday... i am worried about what will happen.

First off, don't panic. If you don't act on how you're currently feeling, nothing may happen. It depends on what you actually want to happen, against how much you ask or push in that direction. Just don't push too hard in case it has the opposite affect

[mikemidas63]

If i was to tell him, would it be the right thing to do

[deregisterme]

If i was to tell him, would it be the right thing to do

Without knowing your friend, we can't answer that here. If he takes it positively, it may bring your friendship closer, or he could take it badly. If you do decide to ask, all I can say is don't be too forward, as that would very likely push most guys away. Sorry, if that's not more helpful. Good luck

[mikemidas63]

Without knowing your friend, we can't answer that here. If he takes it positively, it may bring your friendship closer, or he could take it badly. If you do decide to ask, all I can say is don't be too forward, as that would very likely push most guys away. Sorry, if that's not more helpful. Good luck

That was very helpful... thank you

[Harley Quinn]

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