Matey
November 27th, 2013, 02:20 PM
Hello guys.
So I will start with backstory you should know. There is a girl I realy, realy likes. I know her from scouts which I do visit weeky, and she's there for 12 years already - we started same year. So she is there for just everything good or stupid :) I have done in my life. I'm not pretty nice or muscular, so she doesn't talk really much with me about anything else except scout activities.
So first problem there is, that I like her, but I seriusly doubt she likes me.
Then next problem is because I'm totally shy - I'm simply afraid to do anything brave or responsible.
And the last problem. There is a boy who is comming to scouts for 4-5 years maybe, I'm not sure, and in that time we became really good friends - but still we see/talk only once a week or when we have camps etc. And two years ago we were in woods together and he told me he likes her and that he knows I like her too. I denyed that because I wasn't sure at that time yet, so that was it, we didn't talked about her anymore. So he's her class mate and lately they talk little bit more than usuall > but he's not dancing with her at exercises for prom. I don't want to do anything stupid, that could change our friendship and also I put him before me if she would choose beetwen me and him.
So any advice, opinion, help?
Thanks in advance
Kind regards
So I will start with backstory you should know. There is a girl I realy, realy likes. I know her from scouts which I do visit weeky, and she's there for 12 years already - we started same year. So she is there for just everything good or stupid :) I have done in my life. I'm not pretty nice or muscular, so she doesn't talk really much with me about anything else except scout activities.
So first problem there is, that I like her, but I seriusly doubt she likes me.
Then next problem is because I'm totally shy - I'm simply afraid to do anything brave or responsible.
And the last problem. There is a boy who is comming to scouts for 4-5 years maybe, I'm not sure, and in that time we became really good friends - but still we see/talk only once a week or when we have camps etc. And two years ago we were in woods together and he told me he likes her and that he knows I like her too. I denyed that because I wasn't sure at that time yet, so that was it, we didn't talked about her anymore. So he's her class mate and lately they talk little bit more than usuall > but he's not dancing with her at exercises for prom. I don't want to do anything stupid, that could change our friendship and also I put him before me if she would choose beetwen me and him.
So any advice, opinion, help?
Thanks in advance
Kind regards