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UndeadLittleRed
November 27th, 2013, 02:09 AM
Okay i need to let you in on some back story first. The first week of my 11th grade year (this year) i saw this girl never knew her name but she rode my bus and is in my class and i felt attracted to her but as i am a shy guy i wouldn't even dare to talk to her. on Halloween day she seemed really upset. i walk onto bus and she says "Josh, you should sit with me." and i did and i found out what was wrong. her and her boyfriend broke up and you know as anyone would do they would try to make her feel better. and the next day she and her boyfriend are back together. and we still continued to sit with her on the bus. she gave me this little spider ring and i still have it to this day. (is that weird) well anyway you know a couple weeks go by and now we are here in the present. last week on Monday me and her hung out after school. we live right down the street from each other. a couple hours after we hung out her and her boyfriend broke up. so i said to myself and my friends that ill give it a week before i start showing that i like her. and this Saturday my best friend told me he liked her even though he knows how much i like her, everyone else said to keep trying to date her. so here we are now on thanksgiving. she lives down the street and she said we would hang out this week but she got her computer and ipod taken away. should i just man up and go down to her house and ask if she wants to hang out? i really like this girl. she is perfect. also i have not been in a serious relationship and i haven't liked a girl in years but here she comes in my life and i fall for her. can i get some advice? :what::what::wub::wub::what:

Kid0809
November 27th, 2013, 02:14 AM
Go for it man talk to her :) don't be afraid

Plasma
November 27th, 2013, 02:15 AM
If you like her that much, then hell yes, get her before your friend does. You'll regret it if you don't. She seems to like you, too

HUSTLEMAN
November 27th, 2013, 05:36 AM
Do it. DO IT! DO IT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!

WintersuN
November 27th, 2013, 08:15 AM
No time like the present! Besides, you don't have to come out with your feelings immediately, just take the time to hang out a bit and cultivate a relationship. After a few outings, if you're both blending, then go for it and tell her.

Synyster Shadows
November 27th, 2013, 11:13 AM
Go for it. Just talk casually, as if she's just a friend, then remember your true feelings and tell her

skiman
November 27th, 2013, 11:31 AM
Step 1: Give her some time to get over her previous boyfriend.
Step 2: Ask her if she wants to hang out, like you said. Wear the spider ring while you're over there.
Step 3: Hug her, then start a conversation.
Step 4: Hand her a starbucks hot chocolate, saying, "Here, I got you this."
Step 5: Continue the conversation as if nothing ever happened.
Step 6: Ask her out. If you get shy, talk about it in the third person, IE, "Hey... There's this kid named Josh I know, and, well, he was wondering if you wanted to go out with him..."

PS It's not weird that you still have the ring.I have this heart made out of pipe-cleaners that my girlfriend gave to me 1 year and 364 days ago... 2 years as of tomorrow. Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow...

Anyhoo, good luck broski!