What does it feel like?

[Allison415]

What does it feel like to have sex? My bf and I are discussing having sex, but I have heard that it hurts, and I don't want to be hurt.

[hoboliz]

If your hymen is still intact, it'll hurt the first time for a minute or two. If you're worried about penetration hurting, start with something small.

[anyone50]

If you really want to know what it feels like go buy a condom and a cucumber about the same size as your bf and penetrate yourself with it, that will give you some idea of the physical side of sex. as for the emotional side you won't know till it happens

[satarra3180]

If your hymen is still intact, it'll hurt the first time for a minute or two. If you're worried about penetration hurting, start with something small.

I agree with this. Every girl's pain tolerance is different but it will at least be uncomfortable (not pleasant) for the first little while. Make sure you tell him to be gentle also.

[Sarah_Ward]

I havnt gone 'all the way' yet with a boy either and I have heard that it hurts too, its a good idea to try something small first and work up from there i think. If its any help for you and your boyfriend just remember, we were designed for them to enter us there so you cant do any damage. Hope this helps :O)

[cherylcherylX2]

What does it feel like to have sex? My bf and I are discussing having sex, but I have heard that it hurts, and I don't want to be hurt.

to be honest it didn't hurt that much for me the first time, although it wasn't crazy pleasurable like porn makes it out to be.

[jenna123]

depends on the girl, my first time it hurt at first and was a bit uncomfortable but then it went well, but my friend for example she said that she didnt feel any pain her first time. It will normally hurt a little at first, so maybe go slowly and gentle, or penetrate yourself with something smaller first so you get used to it

[Katiya]

I have never done anything. But I've wondered this my self. All I know is even tampons hurt emensly for me and they are less than the size of a finger so I can't imagine anything bigger going in there. Lol. I personally can not see penetration with anything being enjoyable, but aye, what ever rocks ur boat ;) I'm probably in the minute minority on this one lol.

[LifeOfLove]

It's hard to describe. Think about trying to describe a kiss to somebody, it's pretty difficult.

For me, yes the first time it did hurt a little. It's probably different for everybody though. I found that the feeling that came from it and how close I felt to him made it totally worth it. It's not really that the actual act of having sex feels good, it's more the connection between you and your partner. Honestly I think the little bit of pain that comes with the first time is completely worth it, as long as you are sure you're ready for it!