How about this...Am I pathetic for being a virgin...

[dreamofdante]

If I have been trying to get with someone for the past six years but to no avail? I haven't kissed anyone either. A lot of these guys seem to be saving it for someone special and they're extremely attractive. Most of their problems come from peer pressure. Mine comes from unattractiveness and a different personality. So am I pathetic?

[deregisterme]

If I have been trying to get with someone for the past six years but to no avail? I haven't kissed anyone either. A lot of these guys seem to be saving it for someone special and they're extremely attractive. Most of their problems come from peer pressure. Mine comes from unattractiveness and a different personality. So am I pathetic?

First off you are NOT pathetic. The girl that you have being trying to get with may just not be ready, or interested in doing anything with anyone yet. There are other girls out there. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

[anyone50]

wouldn't worry too much about it I think there are a lot of guys that don't have their first experience with a girl until they are out of high school

[dreamofdante]

First off you are NOT pathetic. The girl that you have being trying to get with may just not be ready, or interested in doing anything with anyone yet. There are other girls out there. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

But they end up with another guy soon after...

[dreamofdante]

wouldn't worry too much about it I think there are a lot of guys that don't have their first experience with a girl until they are out of high school

I guess we'll have to wait and see then...