Am i a loser

[kylem]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?

[Tylor lakon]

No, no it doesn't make you a loser. You want to save your virginity for that special someone and that is a good choice.

[dreamofdante]

I'll be 18 in a month and I've never kissed a girl or had sex with one. So I guess that makes me a loser too.

[jesusogpaign]

Doesn't make you a loser. But, keep in mind, it doesn't make you any better, either.

[AlexBoy]

no you're not a loser, I think 15 is way too early to lose your virginity, it doesn't matter if you don't lose it until your 20's. don't just do it so you don't feel like a loser, wait until you're with someone you feel comfortable with and when you truly believe you're ready

[Swagging god]

No, no it doesn't make you a loser. You want to save your virginity for that special someone and that is a good choice.

Not all, your virginity should be saved for someone who means something to you, not thrown at the first pussy u see. You'll know when the time is right.

[Elysium]

Doesn't make you a loser. But, keep in mind, it doesn't make you any better, either.
Exactly. Don't let a concept as silly as virginity give you a superiority complex. You are not losers, but you're not better either.

[TommyTom]

First of all ist not bizarre and in my opinion theright desicion!!
But i would never talk about that like anyone is better or anyone is a loser!!
Everyone made desicions and has to live with them and i wouldn't judge someone for something like that ^^
I personally think that waiting for the right Girl is the right Thing to do :P
But u can ask other People and they Think otherwise :)

[Jason98]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?
You are not a loser why would think that?
While I have had sex already lots of my friends have not and I don't ever think that about them.
Don't ever feel pressured to to anything your not ready for.
You do it when YOU want to :)

[cherylcherylX2]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?

It doesn't make you a loser.

Neither does it make you any better.

It just... is.

[charliebaltimore]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?

No! Not at all! Be proud of your virginity and remember that there's alot of people out there who regret loosing theirs. I'm 16 and proud of my virginity, and so should you be. Wait for the right person and the right time pal, don't feel pressured into it ;)

[NeuroTiger]

You're fine.
It's good that you are not rushing things.

[Seemyheart]

Having sex is a big deal... especially for the first time, it's good to wait for that special someone, other people who have had sex, that's their decision. it's your life, so you make your own decisions

[deregisterme]

You are not a loser. It's good to see people wanting to wait for when they are good and ready.

[TheRollingScone]

Definitely not a loser. It's admirable to wait until you know you're ready and with the right person.

[anyone50]

not really I'm sure your not alone just curious is the reason you haven't had sex really because you are saving yourself for the right girl or just haven't made that connection from the girls your dating.

[mermaidfairy]

You're not a loser at all! I'm 17, 18 in June, and I've never dated, kissed, or had sex. I think that it is important to wait for someone that is right for you, rather than just having meaningless sex for your first time. And you might as well wait until you're ready, rather than have sex and really regret it later! I think you're doing the right thing by waiting until you meet the right person.

[PinkFloyd]

If some of your friends that had it already just nailed the first girl they could get with, then you're actually the bigger man in my opinion because sex is something special that needs to be with the right person.

If they found the right person, then you just haven't found yours yet. It takes time.

[mrpieface2]

I was going to say what Purple Floyd was going to say lol. Sex is special. I'm not just gonna lose my virginity just with a random girl. That's not right. If, and yes IF I do decide to have sex, it's going to be where we're both comforatable with doing it, we love each other very much, and we've known each other for a LONG time

[ashdaniel]

Dude, Sex is nothing. Having sex at a early age, does nothing good . What is the point of having sex at teenage year? It sometimes cause trouble such as teenage pregnancy. Wait to the right moment and right point. I am 18 and I am a virgin ,but what is wrong with that. Don't let people make you think having sex at a early age is popular. Do what is right for you.

[kylem]

Dude, Sex is nothing. Having sex at a early age, does nothing good . What is the point of having sex at teenage year? It sometimes cause trouble such as teenage pregnancy. Wait to the right moment and right point. I am 18 and I am a virgin ,but what is wrong with that. Don't let people make you think having sex at a early age is popular. Do what is right for you.

Wow thanks everyone for answering! Feel way better now and yeah that's basically how I feel about being pressured when I actually want to wait for the right person. The friends I have that have had sex already, just did it because they wanted to get with a girl. They've been basically hassling me because I haven't been with a girl yet and I was like whatever. Now least I know I'm not alone being a virgin!

[ashdaniel]

Wow thanks everyone for answering! Feel way better now and yeah that's basically how I feel about being pressured when I actually want to wait for the right person. The friends I have that have had sex already, just did it because they wanted to get with a girl. They've been basically hassling me because I haven't been with a girl yet and I was like whatever. Now least I know I'm not alone being a virgin!

Dude, nearly all my guy friend have sex already but it didnt matter to me and they know me better. Your friend hassling you to have sex is not good that is call peer pressure. Just have your bottom line and dont make people change it.

[nklarke]

You are not a loser, you are not a winner neither you are YOU.

[haileyb]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?

Waiting for the right girl is the mature way of going about it, you are the furthest thing from a loser. Don't worry about what people think about that stuff, as long as you are happy with it then that's all that counts.

[Wyatt 13]

Dude never call yourself that way. Im 13 and idc being virgin I'm gonna wait the right time and person.

[Tyler97]

I have a classmate who is 17 and has already gotten his ex pregnant and has ruined his, his ex and his baby's life, yes he's had sex, but if anything he's the loser.

[skiman]

nope. you're not a loser. its a good choice not do do things like that early.

[tedheath]

You're neither a loser nor a winner. It's not a competition

[Zach1702]

i don't see how you should feel like a loser, i mean yes it won't make you any better than the people who have had sex, but it will only make it even better when you do,
does that make sense?
:)

[Kuroseiryuu]

There are no losers or winners in that. But, you might have someone teasing you about that topic.

[milo03]

I guess that'd make me a loser too haha.

[hockeyfan]

Ur 15, virgin. I don't see the problem.

[Cowboycalfroper70]

id say ur better then them

[Lisa12]

Most of my friends have had sex already. Me and some of my friends are still virgins, so does that make us losers or are we better then them because we haven't had sex yet and maybe want to wait for the right girl? Is that to bizarre or not?

i dont think your a loser based on your sex life but a guy who takes selfies like that is probably a loser. sorry just being honest. but if your waiting for the right girl thats the right thing to do.

[JonBarleyCorn]

Not at all! And people lie and stretch the truth too. Don't believe the hype. Of course it is better to wait. It should be special. When it is right there is nothing like it.

[AlexOnToast]

No, no it doesn't make you a loser. You want to save your virginity for that special someone and that is a good choice.

He's right, You are no loser. If anything, your choice is probably better that theirs.

[Elysium]

OP's banned. :locked: