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Dude1
November 25th, 2013, 11:04 PM
How open are you with your freinds and family about your wanking, sex life and experimenting? On a scale of 1-10. 1 being you only talk about having sex ( not actually done it) and 10 is everything you do you say.

Bobby_123
November 25th, 2013, 11:07 PM
For me the number is high only cause me and my brothers have Jo together

TheBionicWorm
November 25th, 2013, 11:10 PM
0.00

ryanpeterson832
November 25th, 2013, 11:21 PM
Im somewhat open with my friends but not my family.

milo03
November 25th, 2013, 11:23 PM
Not open whatsoever.

ska8er
November 25th, 2013, 11:26 PM
really- jacking- sex life with family? u joking?
other than close friends-no one.

AlexBoy
November 26th, 2013, 01:41 AM
10, me and my friends and brothers don't hide anything from each other, we're all guys and we all have penises so we don't really see the point in hiding anything from one another

Connor.
November 26th, 2013, 02:27 AM
My friends don't talk about those kind of things and nor does my family. So, on the scale, 0.

randomte3n
November 26th, 2013, 02:30 AM
i dont think i have even brought it up since i first learned what the crap was!

Arie_
November 26th, 2013, 03:17 AM
I've only talked about wanking with my friends and girls. I haven't experimented but I've compared with my friend. So I guess 4 or 5. I am a little reserved.

JustinR
November 26th, 2013, 03:24 AM
Maybe 2

Avamis
November 26th, 2013, 03:34 AM
I talk with my friends about it, but never compared or experimented with them. I would give 4

Swagging god
November 26th, 2013, 05:24 AM
I am 100% open with my friends but not open with my family except my older nephews

TommyTom
November 26th, 2013, 06:50 AM
There is one friend im pretty open with!!
Otherwise to a few friends id say a 5 out of ten!!
and the rest im not open to at all :P

NudistKid
November 26th, 2013, 09:10 AM
My family know I do I so I guess a 10

luq_
November 26th, 2013, 09:12 AM
-1 pretty much.

radioactive
November 26th, 2013, 10:20 AM
I'm pretty open with friends like a 9 with friends like 0 with family

NeuroTiger
November 26th, 2013, 01:05 PM
Only to some really close friends.
So I'll say 1.5/10

sqishy
November 26th, 2013, 01:16 PM
2?
It used to be zero before June, I know it'll be 3 or 4 by next year.

joshylandon
November 26th, 2013, 01:21 PM
Depends who I am with. Probably 8 or 9 with friends but definitely 1 with family lol

harley95
November 26th, 2013, 01:22 PM
0 with my parents about a 2 with my friends I wish it was more with my friends but they feel like that stuff should be kept to your self

kmvt
November 26th, 2013, 04:01 PM
Never talked about these topics to any of my friends or family. I kinda wish I had an older brother or close friends to talk about my problems and such lol.

jam98
November 26th, 2013, 04:56 PM
0, I've never spoken to anyone about it. But that's probably because my brothers are much older than me and most of my friends are girls

Catholic Guy
November 26th, 2013, 04:57 PM
With my family, 0 out of 10! With anyone else and I mean absolutely anyone else 9-10

deregisterme
November 26th, 2013, 05:36 PM
My score for what I say on this site is quite high. With family, very low!

HSJock206
November 26th, 2013, 05:39 PM
Im probably about a 7. I have a few close friends that I share a few things with but not everything. Jacking always seems to come up in conversation. Only one that I dont share things with is my mom. My dad and brothers are pretty open about conversation and sharing a room with my brothers its difficult not to bring it up or BS about it.

brybry5
November 26th, 2013, 05:42 PM
I am definitely not open with my family because I have such high standards and I feel like maybe my family would feel disappointed in me if I shared... But I about a 7 with friends and an 11 with some! yea i agree with everyone else... it just depends with who im with! :)

zemog10
November 26th, 2013, 05:57 PM
Mine is like 0 i havent really talked to my family about anything.

saltlife2014
November 26th, 2013, 06:06 PM
All my friends know I jack off. lol 10

MrIan
November 26th, 2013, 06:10 PM
I'm pretty much open to my friends and family. If they ask. :)

ryzzz9
November 26th, 2013, 06:15 PM
hard to put a number on it. we all talk about stuff like that, but we're not doing it with each other (or at least no often).

pjones
November 26th, 2013, 07:17 PM
brother and friends = 10
parents = 0 :)

nklarke
November 26th, 2013, 08:43 PM
I've only talked about wanking with my friends and girls. I haven't experimented but I've compared with my friend. So I guess 4 or 5. I am a little reserved.

Girls asked you if you wank or what?

nklarke
November 26th, 2013, 08:44 PM
With some friend about sex stuff or wanking yeah .... with my family no ... it's not a subject in common ...

mrpieface2
November 26th, 2013, 09:01 PM
0 for my family and like 0.75 for the things I tell you guys on VT. That information is for me to know and for others to not know

countryboi9
November 26th, 2013, 09:43 PM
100% open to my family

Ttssman
November 26th, 2013, 09:56 PM
I've only talked about wanking with my friends and girls. I haven't experimented but I've compared with my friend. So I guess 4 or 5. I am a little reserved.

How were you able to compare? Did you just say "let's whip them out" or something. I am curious as to how I compare with a friend of mine and want to ask but I don't want to sound gay or akward.

hockeyfan
November 26th, 2013, 11:18 PM
Friends: 15
Parents: 0

Arie_
November 26th, 2013, 11:41 PM
Girls asked you if you wank or what?

no we talk about girls, girls don't ask me that

Arie_
November 26th, 2013, 11:43 PM
How were you able to compare? Did you just say "let's whip them out" or something. I am curious as to how I compare with a friend of mine and want to ask but I don't want to sound gay or akward.

it was a sleepover and he asked me. Comparing does not mean you are gay. it is just curiosity.


EDIT: Oops did not realize double post. sorry mods.

nklarke
November 27th, 2013, 12:05 AM
no we talk about girls, girls don't ask me that

Now make sense.

Unsolvedmind
November 27th, 2013, 12:12 AM
8 with friends

0 with family

Fanta_Lover44
November 27th, 2013, 03:12 AM
Well with one or 2 friends we just talk about it.

KoolKid96
November 27th, 2013, 12:10 PM
Well I only open to people who open to me, so I have a few friends who I'm open to but to family no way

henry5331
November 28th, 2013, 11:58 AM
How open are you with your freinds and family about your wanking, sex life and experimenting? On a scale of 1-10. 1 being you only talk about having sex ( not actually done it) and 10 is everything you do you say.

Friends: 6 and higher
Family (brothers and cousins): 6 and higher
Family (adults): 1 or lower

Ttssman
November 28th, 2013, 08:38 PM
it was a sleepover and he asked me. Comparing does not mean you are gay. it is just curiosity.


EDIT: Oops did not realize double post. sorry mods.

It didnt bother you to let you friend see your dick? I'm worried that I would be nervous if I compared with my friend. We're you nervous?

superstarB
November 28th, 2013, 10:12 PM
With my cousin I'm like a 2-3

Seth Green
November 29th, 2013, 12:43 AM
Friends, probably an 8 or a 9. Family 0.

kylem
November 29th, 2013, 12:46 AM
I'm more open with my friends at school and here on VT. I will talk about some stuff with my parents, but not real intense sexual stuff, that'd just be creepy, lol.

sztegosz
November 29th, 2013, 12:52 AM
I give like 7, but not with family :D

PenzFan1234
November 29th, 2013, 02:44 PM
4 not too open

ComfortableInChaos
November 29th, 2013, 04:40 PM
I'm open with my friends at school, because they're open with me about things. Not with family, though. I'd say about a 8 or 9 for friends.

Family: 0-1

Arie_
November 29th, 2013, 06:03 PM
It didnt bother you to let you friend see your dick? I'm worried that I would be nervous if I compared with my friend. We're you nervous?

I was a little nervous at first but I was a little curious at the time so I did it.

Wheatley
November 29th, 2013, 06:35 PM
How open are you with your freinds and family about your wanking, sex life and experimenting? On a scale of 1-10. 1 being you only talk about having sex ( not actually done it) and 10 is everything you do you say.

I personally don't keep much in the way of secrets, though if I've promised anyone I won't say anything then you can't make me spill it but I like to stay open. Though I'm very awkward around my family, only friends I'm open to, as long as they ask

10 with friends (providing I'm not sworn to secrecy)
0 with family

Harrier
November 29th, 2013, 06:56 PM
0% open with parents
60% open with siblings
90% open with friends who don't give a crap
75% open with certain friends who bust my balls for saying too much lol

tedheath
November 29th, 2013, 07:38 PM
2 or 3, they don't really want or need to know

Uncut Joe
November 29th, 2013, 08:04 PM
Friends and brothers (and some cousins) 10, parents and most extended family 1

KrzyGuy13
November 29th, 2013, 08:16 PM
really- jacking- sex life with family? u joking?
other than close friends-no one.

Yeah Same Here 99%

Liven
November 30th, 2013, 12:03 AM
0 - not open at all. Don't feel comfortable to talk about that with friends and family.

Tdaykin877
December 1st, 2013, 06:28 PM
7 or 8 with friends
0 with family ahaha

HistoricWrath
December 1st, 2013, 06:45 PM
With my family: negative 340
With some select friends: maybe a 3-5

MrBlueSky
December 1st, 2013, 07:19 PM
Probably a two for me

HadesLady
December 1st, 2013, 09:37 PM
With my family 0
With my friends 10

Steven1
December 2nd, 2013, 01:35 PM
That depends. With family and most friends, probably not even a 1. With VERY few friends (only 3) it's probably about a 4/5.

mattcallsu
December 2nd, 2013, 04:43 PM
i'd say 10, becasue i'd openly talk to my friends about anything (not my family though). but i don't have friends that i could really open up to so i'd say around 4

drmindfreak
December 2nd, 2013, 04:58 PM
family 0 because we dont even talk about anything
maybe with my brother 5 or 6
friends 8

meow101
December 2nd, 2013, 05:40 PM
-10. Yeah i dont really talk to them much...

Kjcj
December 2nd, 2013, 11:00 PM
I'm not an open book type person... I don't like go running telling everything that I do and if I'm asked like a specific question by certain people at school I just like freeze up or ignore them... The way I see it is what happens in my room is my business so I am probably a 0...

kinger
December 5th, 2013, 07:13 PM
im a 10 with my best friend and a 5 with everyone else

deltadart
December 12th, 2013, 12:21 AM
Not so much with my psrents but more with my friends.

Were
December 15th, 2013, 03:43 AM
I don't tell anyone and no one has ever found out

Jakie23
December 15th, 2013, 07:02 AM
I talk about that sort of thing with my guy friends at shool. Cos they're dudes as well. I learn from them

Basketballpl97
December 15th, 2013, 08:16 AM
I'm generally open with my friends and people that I trist, but not with my family

So... Around 5/10 id say

billys-big-gun
December 15th, 2013, 08:51 AM
Im a 10 i have nothing to hide my parents always told me to be open and honest

bright
December 15th, 2013, 10:04 AM
With my family 0 and I wanna ke!ep it that way and with my friends probably 8

Rowlo
December 15th, 2013, 01:25 PM
With family probably a 1. Talked about wanking and such with friends and girls but never experimented.

SillyShyGuy
December 15th, 2013, 04:27 PM
How open are you with your freinds and family about your wanking, sex life and experimenting? On a scale of 1-10. 1 being you only talk about having sex ( not actually done it) and 10 is everything you do you say.

I would say 7/10 with my friends because it often becomes a topic of conversation. Sometimes my lady friends and I talk about it, but very briefly. As for my family, it would be a 1/10.

Lodan
December 15th, 2013, 04:40 PM
Not very open with family, but with friends I would say 7 but when we talk about it it's always in a jokey way

Iittleboy
December 15th, 2013, 05:56 PM
Friends: 10
Family: 0

Keyboardwarrior95
December 17th, 2013, 11:41 AM
Friends: 10
Family: 0

Agreed :)

Marco1999
December 17th, 2013, 01:40 PM
1 or 0 with my family. 7 or 8 with friends :)

Living For Love
December 17th, 2013, 02:59 PM
0-1 with my family, 2-3 with my friends.

chezhans
December 17th, 2013, 03:20 PM
Like 2 with my family, 3 with my best friends and like 9 with my girlfriend ahahaha

louis.uk
December 17th, 2013, 06:30 PM
I'm really open about everything with my friends and not at all with my family

JasonFlagmaster
December 17th, 2013, 06:56 PM
Around 7 or so

Seahawks15
December 17th, 2013, 07:26 PM
I have a really nice guy friend who I can tell and ask anything too.I would say a ten for being open with him.I don't tell or ask anybody else though.

Aleks96
December 17th, 2013, 09:07 PM
~4 with family, 8 with friends.

alvin
December 17th, 2013, 10:58 PM
im closed lol

EneasR
December 18th, 2013, 01:42 PM
Never talked about it. 1

jit5347
December 24th, 2013, 04:06 PM
Friends: two of them I'm totally open (10) people I hang around with hardly (3)
Family: 0 but if I had a brother or cousin my age, I'd probably be open with them

Willweston
December 24th, 2013, 04:09 PM
6 on sex but 0 of wanking !

mirabilis2345
December 24th, 2013, 06:07 PM
10 with my brotther and friends but 0 with the rest of my family

AbyssalLight7
December 24th, 2013, 11:12 PM
A select few friends-like 8 or 9, family-0, other friends-pending on the friend 1 to like 7 maybe, varies

Curious24
December 24th, 2013, 11:46 PM
If my guy friends ask me I would tell them everything. Sex is nothing to be ashamed of whether it is with some one or not.

ConorM
December 26th, 2013, 02:59 AM
I would be 8 or 9 with my friends and brothers but about 3 with rest of my family

Stanislas
December 26th, 2013, 03:25 AM
Family: 0
Friends: 10

Bengiggity
December 26th, 2013, 08:06 AM
Im open with anyone at all except my parents

AlexOnToast
December 26th, 2013, 08:30 AM
With my friends, very very open, i would never give a lie answer to a question and I ask some very blunt questions and it makes ppl think im insane but IDGAF

With my dad i'm very open about most things, like being gay and stuff but i wouldnt fill him in on things like sex and wanking..he knows i do it, thats all he needs to know

ksdnfkfr
December 26th, 2013, 08:47 AM
Kinda with my dad if he asked - which he wouldn't
Mostly open with my cousin who's my age
Totally open with my best friend.

Michael_6
December 26th, 2013, 09:05 AM
0 with everyone

Forsakenbymyself
December 26th, 2013, 10:31 AM
I'd say 0, since we don't speak about anything that is related to sex.

KiyoshisIsland
January 19th, 2014, 05:15 PM
2...

Faolan
January 19th, 2014, 06:00 PM
1 or 2, I'm a pretty private person, especially on a topic such as this. I've come out to everyone, but I've never told them who I have crushes on.

Collins1
January 19th, 2014, 06:51 PM
7-8 with friends
0 with family

frisbee25
January 19th, 2014, 06:58 PM
How open are you with your freinds and family about your wanking, sex life and experimenting? On a scale of 1-10. 1 being you only talk about having sex ( not actually done it) and 10 is everything you do you say.

3 just a friend

Cjk_20
January 19th, 2014, 08:35 PM
I am only open to very close friends. Which is really only about 1 person. Also I can be open to people who I feel I can trust.

Zanman11
January 19th, 2014, 08:57 PM
I would be completely 10 for friends, but 0.00000001 for family lol

asldkfjgh
January 19th, 2014, 09:24 PM
probably a 6

rambo_24
January 20th, 2014, 05:29 PM
2 but like 6 with my bro

SecretlyKnown
January 24th, 2014, 03:29 AM
I would say 10, because I've got nothing to hide from my friends and family.

Liven
January 24th, 2014, 10:14 AM
Very private about this stuff. I don't even talk to my parents much about this stuff.

If I am online, I am a little more open since I am not looking at anyone's face. I get nervous and uncomfortable talking about stuff like that in person.

Snowfall
January 24th, 2014, 10:45 AM
6-7 with friends

2 with family. Mostly a few cousins and that's it.

MendezRider
January 24th, 2014, 10:47 AM
Eh, i'm a 3 or 2. I don't see much point in telling people how about my wanking (Not much more than I do.) Friends I know are so stupidly open about talking about it, but would never do it in front of another so I guess they're 6's. Family is -10 on that issue. No no no no no no no no no no.

jimmy_hopkins
January 24th, 2014, 10:52 AM
An absolute 0 for family, and more than ten with friends. Some might say too open with friends, but it's nothing to be ashamed of.

EliJ
January 24th, 2014, 11:35 AM
Best friend: No secrets. 10
Brother: We talk about it some... 5
Other family: NO FREAKING WAY. -100,000,000

trustn01
January 24th, 2014, 01:03 PM
10 with my best friend.
0 with my parents,
3 with others.

xXEverReadyXx
January 24th, 2014, 01:29 PM
0 with family
3 with close friends
0 with everyone else

Zachary G
January 24th, 2014, 03:00 PM
I would have to say maybe 7 because i am very open with my friends about my sex life, but not so open with my parents about it.

TechDude18
January 24th, 2014, 03:25 PM
It depends on who I am talking to. Some friends know things and others dont. My family not so much.

joel-d
January 25th, 2014, 11:45 AM
With a small group of my closest friends, it's at least an 8 or 9 on openness, especially if our one friend is there who is completely uninhibited no matter what we talk about. There's another group of guys in our neighborhood that my brother and I hang out with a lot, and it's probably 5-6 with them. But other than my brother, it's 0 with my family.

Loca
January 25th, 2014, 12:01 PM
-100

Voodo
January 26th, 2014, 07:52 PM
quite open with friends but not family

Baseball1999
January 26th, 2014, 08:01 PM
0. I'm not open with my family at all about that stuff.

TheWaterPrince
January 26th, 2014, 08:01 PM
on a scale of 1-10 with family...ABSOLUTE ZERO

With friends its like a 8-9

Baseball1999
January 26th, 2014, 08:53 PM
I hate whenever my family even sees me with my shirt off. So, I'm not open at all with family. Just kinda awkward to me.