Humping/Grinding (Normal??) Help

[becca07]

I was talking to a friend the other day and the topic of m-bating came up. I told her that sometimes I hump/grind against things(bed/pillow) and she gave me a weird look( I was so embarrassed:()

Is this normal!?

I don't do it ALL the time- its usually when I get desperately Horny late at night and I need a quick good orgasm but am too lazy to roll over and take off my panties/shorts.

Am I the only one who does this/does it this way?

Thanks.

Becca

[CutieHoney]

No that's pretty normal ö.ö
I sometimes do it still ^^

[satarra3180]

I think its completely normal. I've used pillows or other things before.

[Luminous]

Nah that's normal.

[sambeans]

Pillows were my best friend for a while.

[becca07]

Thanks for the advice and sharing. Yeah I have noticed that too about outside of VT. It seems as though people are more reserved about saying things or talking about stuff like that(which I can understand) Thats why I love VT, people are soo welcoming on here because we all have questions and curiosities and want to share.

[Natalie]

I did it regularly, but now I prefer using fingers or bananas, my favourites. This is weird.. Lol

[becca07]

I did it regularly, but now I prefer using fingers or bananas, my favourites. This is weird.. Lol

Lol. Not weird at all, I have used stuff like a hairbrush before so totally not weird if you have used a banana. I usually use my fingers to get the job done but I find that when I NEED a really good and fast orgasm it seems that humping/grinding my bed works best.

Like to put it a better way when I hump and its been like a couple days since my last orgasm 90% of the time the humping orgasm will be insanley satisfying(all of the tingles leave my clit/puss) However, when I just use my fingers it seems that my orgasms are weaker or I have to have a couple before my puss/vag stops tingling

Do you find this too to be the same for you or anyone else?

[Sandra Main]

Yes I done some humping on pillows and other objects.
I started a a young age and still find comfort in .
It is normal.

[Taryn98]

seems normal to me

[txtwister13]

no worries - totally normal :) ... i'm pretty sure lots of girls hump pillows, stuffed animals n things like that, i don't do it so much anymore but i did it lots when i was like 13-14 - lol

[Gogirl99]

I was talking to a friend the other day and the topic of m-bating came up. I told her that sometimes I hump/grind against things(bed/pillow) and she gave me a weird look( I was so embarrassed:()

Is this normal!?

I don't do it ALL the time- its usually when I get desperately Horny late at night and I need a quick good orgasm but am too lazy to roll over and take off my panties/shorts.

Am I the only one who does this/does it this way?

Thanks.

Becca

I think all girls start out doing stuff like humping pillows or using household items. These kinds of things are your best friend until ur old enough to buy vibes and other toys. :)

[cherylcherylX2]

It's pretty normal I guess, I used to do it on the table's edges.

[heyChelsea]

it's definitely normal I hope, because that's the way I do it most, lol, I usually either "hump" my pillow because of the feeling of it rubbing against my clit or I'll hump my hand the same way

[Natalie]

Lol. Not weird at all, I have used stuff like a hairbrush before so totally not weird if you have used a banana. I usually use my fingers to get the job done but I find that when I NEED a really good and fast orgasm it seems that humping/grinding my bed works best.

Like to put it a better way when I hump and its been like a couple days since my last orgasm 90% of the time the humping orgasm will be insanley satisfying(all of the tingles leave my clit/puss) However, when I just use my fingers it seems that my orgasms are weaker or I have to have a couple before my puss/vag stops tingling

Do you find this too to be the same for you or anyone else?


Yes! Its the same for me :) its only that when i need an intense orgasm i use a banana. Yesterday i tried using both, banana for my pussy while i was fingering my butt, it was awesome :P

[CheekyBird]

This is going to sound stupid, but how do you hump a bed? I get a pillow but how a bed?

[becca07]

This is going to sound stupid, but how do you hump a bed? I get a pillow but how a bed?

Not stupid at all. Sometimes I either just grind/hump my puss/clit on the mattress or will move a bit over to the edge, dangle one leg off so that my clit can be right on the edge for the best friction/pressure. It usually takes no time at all during those times of extreme horny-ness (just a few series of thrusts with the right amount of pressure and Bam! lol

[CheekyBird]

That makes sense haha :)

[Sarah_Ward]

I think its normal coz it feels really good and i say that if it feels good then do it!!! I do it on the corner of the table mostly but i do use a pillow/cushion/arms of chairs/ corner of my bed and laying on my tummy and humping my hand too. :O)

[stoneflowe96]

This is very normal and if it's feels good for you its even better. I also love to humping a pillow, but I only do it so from time to time.

[Savvynah]

Yup, normal.

[Ihaveagun]

I'd say it's normal. I do it myself now and then, when I get tired of using my hands, and want something different. ;)

[mermaidfairy]

It's just a normal way to pleasure yourself and hey, if it works, why not keep it up?

[Amanda_]

I think its normal coz it feels really good and i say that if it feels good then do it!!! I do it on the corner of the table mostly but i do use a pillow/cushion/arms of chairs/ corner of my bed and laying on my tummy and humping my hand too. :O)

Sarah how do you do that on the corner of the table? Like on the leg?

When I need to hump something it's usually my pillow or hand :)

[NudistAnne]

I do it almost every night. I do have huped more than a pillow though. I have done it on the floor and chairs. After a minute I usually orgasm.

[becca07]

I do it almost every night. I do have huped more than a pillow though. I have done it on the floor and chairs. After a minute I usually orgasm.

Yeah, iv done it on the floor before(usually while watching TV or movies with hot scenes in them) Yeah, it usually takes not too long before I orgasm from it. I find the orgasm I get from humping waaay better cuz it seems to linger longer/more powerful.

[CheekyLinda]

It's completely normal!! I've humped pillows, the corner of a desk, and a huge stuffed teddy bear I got for my 13th bday.. delicious <3

[abp1999]

I still do it seems normal to me.

[Sarah_Ward]

I just move myself to the corner and like put the corner between my legs and rock back and too :O)

[hoboliz]

Trust me, girls use all kinds of "weird" stuff to get off. (That would be a popular thread, I'm sure, if it didn't get deleted right away.) As long as it's safe and sanitary, go for it.

[Amsey]

Hey becca the question you should ask is "is Amsey weird for not doing it??" Haha everyone but me has tried it haha thing I should give it a go haha ;) but if everyone else does it I would say you ain't weird :) if you wanna know weird chat to me for a while haha :P

[hoboliz]

It's completely normal!! I've humped pillows, the corner of a desk, and a huge stuffed teddy bear I got for my 13th bday.. delicious <3

I had a stuffed gorilla with a hard plastic nose.

[jenna123]

Lol. Not weird at all, I have used stuff like a hairbrush before so totally not weird if you have used a banana. I usually use my fingers to get the job done but I find that when I NEED a really good and fast orgasm it seems that humping/grinding my bed works best.

Like to put it a better way when I hump and its been like a couple days since my last orgasm 90% of the time the humping orgasm will be insanley satisfying(all of the tingles leave my clit/puss) However, when I just use my fingers it seems that my orgasms are weaker or I have to have a couple before my puss/vag stops tingling

Do you find this too to be the same for you or anyone else?

yea hairbrush!! used it several times. About the humping dont worry its not weird, ive done it with pillows and against the edges of my bed and it feels great, i agree that with fingers its not that good for me anymore but thats also because ive bought a vibrator recently and thats the best thing ever

[jenna123]

Hey becca the question you should ask is "is Amsey weird for not doing it??" Haha everyone but me has tried it haha thing I should give it a go haha ;) but if everyone else does it I would say you ain't weird :) if you wanna know weird chat to me for a while haha :P

yea you should try it soon haha, feels great. Im probably the weirdest one here so dont worry, im ashamed to even say it haha, maybe in chat one day

[Amsey]

yea you should try it soon haha, feels great. Im probably the weirdest one here so dont worry, im ashamed to even say it haha, maybe in chat one day

Hmm I think I will tonight getting flushed the know haha :$ I'm tempered to say I'm weirder but I fear it'll start a "weird off" haha you're ashamed of what?? You can chat with me if you like :p we can be "weird secret buddies" XD

[carissaurus]

Normal! I find it's actually very helpful.

[becca07]

Normal! I find it's actually very helpful.

Same here...i find if I need a quick and hard O its the best method for me at least...especially if i am already lying down on my front.

[Amsey]

I'm temped to ask some one to teach me but I think I ain't allowed haha, I tired it as I said and it was different... Good but still meh... I didn't finish from it so I think I'll look it up for tips (don't feel like trying the corner of a desk haha)

[Pensive]

I'm temped to ask some one to teach me but I think I ain't allowed haha, I tired it as I said and it was different... Good but still meh... I didn't finish from it so I think I'll look it up for tips (don't feel like trying the corner of a desk haha)

Plenty of porn out there lol (tribbing vids if girls take your fancy). Just be gentle when rubbing your clit against the desk corner, it's about bieng gentle. Try the edge of your bath, or rocking on your hand (lying on your tummy).

[Amsey]

Plenty of porn out there lol (tribbing vids if girls take your fancy). Just be gentle when rubbing your clit against the desk corner, it's about bieng gentle. Try the edge of your bath, or rocking on your hand (lying on your tummy).

What's tribbing?? (Sorry haha) I tried my bed earlier on and was ok, just tried my hand a little it's nicer so think ill go run a bath now haha :P

[becca07]

I'm temped to ask some one to teach me but I think I ain't allowed haha, I tired it as I said and it was different... Good but still meh... I didn't finish from it so I think I'll look it up for tips (don't feel like trying the corner of a desk haha)

I'd say try the bed again but when you are really horny/havn't m-bated in a while and i think you will be surprised :)

[ImAurora]

I've been doing it for years, it's completely normal.

[Amsey]

I'd say try the bed again but when you are really horny/havn't m-bated in a while and i think you will be surprised :)

That's a good idea :O hmm ok I'll do what you said but I gotta try control myself haha how long would you wait?? :)

[becca07]

That's a good idea :O hmm ok I'll do what you said but I gotta try control myself haha how long would you wait?? :)

For me there are different stages of horniness and if it is the same for you I would wait until like the 2nd or 3rd stage.

Stage 1= You get a tingle here and there throughout the day but no urge to really NEED to do it.
Stage 2= You start really thinking about sex and cumming. You get more tingles and wetness during the day and clit begins to have jolts of pulses since you havnt cummed in while. The urge and NEEd reach a point where it would be nice to have a good O
Stage 3= Any sexual thought triggers Stage 2 horniness almost immediately and stays like this throughout the day. Basically you really WANT/NEED to have an orgasm at this point becuase of how frustrated you feel/puss is.

I usually hump if its 2 or 3 cuz i;ll be desperate for a quick good orgasm at that point.

[schoolgirlz]

did it when i was 13
normal

[OhSweetMaple]

Yeah me too

[Amsey]

For me there are different stages of horniness and if it is the same for you I would wait until like the 2nd or 3rd stage.

Stage 1= You get a tingle here and there throughout the day but no urge to really NEED to do it.
Stage 2= You start really thinking about sex and cumming. You get more tingles and wetness during the day and clit begins to have jolts of pulses since you havnt cummed in while. The urge and NEEd reach a point where it would be nice to have a good O
Stage 3= Any sexual thought triggers Stage 2 horniness almost immediately and stays like this throughout the day. Basically you really WANT/NEED to have an orgasm at this point becuase of how frustrated you feel/puss is.

I usually hump if its 2 or 3 cuz i;ll be desperate for a quick good orgasm at that point.

Ok master ill take your advice haha I, ill start my preparation for training... In 5 mins hahaha no yeah ill leave it alone for 4-5 days then give it a bash :)

[becca07]

Ok master ill take your advice haha I, ill start my preparation for training... In 5 mins hahaha no yeah ill leave it alone for 4-5 days then give it a bash :)

haha yeah leave it alone for that amount of time or until you feel that NEEd/urge where you just need to cum to matter what...whether that takes 2 days or more for you ;)

[Amsey]

haha yeah leave it alone for that amount of time or until you feel that NEEd/urge where you just need to cum to matter what...whether that takes 2 days or more for you ;)

See I'm not gonna lie I do m-bate a lot, so giving it a break my be good, when I do try it out ill give you an update haha ;D

[becca07]

See I'm not gonna lie I do m-bate a lot, so giving it a break my be good, when I do try it out ill give you an update haha ;D

I do to...right now tho for me its be a few days( I am doing a sort of self challenge to see how long i can go) cuz i want a lil more self control lol. Its difficult for sure.

[Lisa12]

Seem normal to me.

[fallingdown]

When I first started masturbating I would hump/grind my foot board on my bed lol it felt awesome had an orgasm every time :p

[Amsey]

I do to...right now tho for me its be a few days( I am doing a sort of self challenge to see how long i can go) cuz i want a lil more self control lol. Its difficult for sure.

I lasted 4 days... im an animal...

[becca07]

I lasted 4 days... im an animal...

Did you give the ol humping method a bash after the 4 days? Did it feel any different/better?

[Amsey]

Did you give the ol humping method a bash after the 4 days? Did it feel any different/better?

I have it a good ol'bash haha and I'm proud to say I'm now a humper, it's feels diffrent but a good diffrent I really liked :D

[NotShortButFunsized]

I have it a good ol'bash haha and I'm proud to say I'm now a humper, it's feels diffrent but a good diffrent I really liked :D

oh look, you converted. lol

Anyways Becca, I've never really tried it tbh but its a normal thing to do, just because your friends haven't really heard of it or don't enjoy themselves doesn't mean you're wrong or weird if you do

[Amsey]

oh look, you converted. lol

And dam proud of it baby!!! Haha :P
Honest thou it is great :)

[jessi_s]

After all these years, I cant seem to outgrow this habbit :D I vote for normal

[hoboliz]

Hmm I think I will tonight getting flushed the know haha :$ I'm tempered to say I'm weirder but I fear it'll start a "weird off" haha you're ashamed of what?? You can chat with me if you like :p we can be "weird secret buddies" XD
Weird secret buddies! That should be a thing! Like Big Brothers/Big Sisters or something.

[Amanda N]

Its definitly normal

[stacy1203]

Pillows and teddybears were my first love :D I still keep the same giant teddybear I used to hump on so much when I was like 8 or 9, I still do it but not as often as I used to

[becca07]

Pillows and teddybears were my first love :D I still keep the same giant teddybear I used to hump on so much when I was like 8 or 9, I still do it but not as often as I used to

I know what you mean ;) I used to have a favorite pillow i used to use that had just the right kind of firm and softness to it. Now i still hump from time to time -- usually if I am already in bed and need some quick relief or if I am really horny and dont feel like going through the whole process of taking off everything, lying down and stuff and just want to cum quick.

[stacy1203]

I know what you mean ;) I used to have a favorite pillow i used to use that had just the right kind of firm and softness to it. Now i still hump from time to time -- usually if I am already in bed and need some quick relief or if I am really horny and dont feel like going through the whole process of taking off everything, lying down and stuff and just want to cum quick.

Sometimes I would just use my night pillow, hump on it before going to bed without having any underwear on me and then lay on it after I'm done. Knowing what happened to the pillow just before I put my head over, would get me horny again and I usualy go for another round using my fingers till I get one more orgasm. I know I'm weird :whoops:

[becca07]

Sometimes I would just use my night pillow, hump on it before going to bed without having any underwear on me and then lay on it after I'm done. Knowing what happened to the pillow just before I put my head over, would get me horny again and I usualy go for another round using my fingers till I get one more orgasm. I know I'm weird :whoops:

Not weird at all. We all do things a certain way so that we can get off :) I am kind of the same way but opposite in the whole needing 2 rounds to get the job completly done lol. Usually the first round always spawns out of pure lust and extreme horniness to which i go for the humping and if i get horny later in the night i will just slip a hand down there and rub my clit off to get the remaining tingles out for good measure -- the humping orgasm usually takes care of things entirely tho for me...its the best i can get most times it feels fuller and lingers long enough so that my puss contracts the most times to get satisfied.

That moment right before the 2 round tho is usually interesting in that you can feel the tension rising again while lying there and your thinking to yourself " oh boy not again lol" and your like " alright! settle down down there clit i'll do it again" lol.

[Amber98]

It's perfectly normal hun! I do that all the time when i want to try something else rather than masturbating. ;)

[elizabeth.goh]

Try turning on your mobile cell phone and set it to vibrate. Shove it in!

[Tarannosaurus]

This has turned into storytelling, and asking/advising others how to masturbate is not allowed. Because of this I'm locking the thread. :locked: