Sleeping in others beds..

[Chillswil]

When i go over to a friends house or my cousin's house and they ask me to take they bed, i can't sleep well and i freak out that its another person bed... Im fine at a hotel, its just that if its an owned bed, i could sleep better on a couch or chair... Does anyone else have this or is it just me?

[ausley]

When i go over to a friends house or my cousin's house and they ask me to take they bed, i can't sleep well and i freak out that its another person bed... Im fine at a hotel, its just that if its an owned bed, i could sleep better on a couch or chair... Does anyone else have this or is it just me?

Lol no I've never really felt this way cause you know... a bed is a bed bit to like connect with this I have felt awkward and bad for taking the bed so maybe that's what you're feeling haha

[hockeyfan]

I don't.

[Chillswil]

Idk... Its not like i feel bad for taking it, its more like,,, this is someone else's bed. I shouldn't be in this persons bed if its not mine...

[ska8er]

well ur a guest there a bed is a bed. ur not comfortable ask
to sleep on the floor.

[NeuroTiger]

I know what u mean. It's like, in your brain, you feel that the bed has a tag and it's like taking someone else's property.
Unlike in a hotel room or a couch, it's for everybody; so you may have your turn.

[Thomas01]

Not really, but it makes sensw. Just ask them if you could change the sleeping arrangements. Or when they are sleeping, just move to the floor

[Potato]

Never slept in another persons bed. I sleep easier in my own house normally, rather than someone else's.

[Catholic Guy]

I don't really like staying around other people's houses at all, I feel uncomfortable not having a shower and having one at their house, I've never been offered someone else's bed just the floor or a blow up mattress but I don't mind that, I find hotels much better than other people's houses but I never really get invited to stay at other people's anyway, I'm always inviting them and they just share my bed while I'm in it

[Chillswil]

I know what u mean. It's like, in your brain, you feel that the bed has a tag and it's like taking someone else's property.
Unlike in a hotel room or a couch, it's for everybody; so you may have your turn.

EXACTLY!!! Second part, is it just me or are there others ?

[NeuroTiger]

EXACTLY!!! Second part, is it just me or are there others ?

I don't know about others but I'm in 'your category'.
;)

[Bobby_123]

Well I've slept in my friends bed an it's fine for me

[Body odah Man]

We all have our quirks. Nothin wrong wid dat.

[Beltway]

Yea sometimes it just feels out of place and dirty although it is clean i just find it dirty of how im sleeping on it got used to my bed guess its some weird phobia?

[jaysmith]

Doesn't bother me

[PinkFloyd]

It's a huge downfall of having a dirty mind... All I can think about is that someone jerked off where I'm sleeping. Sorry for that.

[Harrier]

It's a huge downfall of having a dirty mind... All I can think about is that someone jerked off where I'm sleeping. Sorry for that.

Agree!!! Even if it's not that bad, IDK when the last time the sheets have been cleaned tho. I am a clean freak and I don't want some stanky sweat rubbing off on me, let alone some guy's cum.

[Harley Quinn]

P101 :arrow: Family and Friends

[Pseudogeek]

I'm attached to my bed. It's just right and ive got everything perfect, so I don't like having to sleep in someone else's bed.

[ksdnfkfr]

As much as I like sameness, for some reason
I always sleep really good in another bed when
I am staying over someplace. But it is usually a
guest bed or the bed of a relative who moved out.
When I stay with my grandparents I sleep in my dad's old bed.

[Fanta_Lover44]

I'm not too sure I know what you mean, I'm fine in any ones bed...

[sqishy]

When i go over to a friends house or my cousin's house and they ask me to take they bed, i can't sleep well and i freak out that its another person bed... Im fine at a hotel, its just that if its an owned bed, i could sleep better on a couch or chair... Does anyone else have this or is it just me?

Can't really help as I've had o experience with someone asking/telling me to sleep in their bed, but I have slept in relatives' beds, but they were washed before I came, so that doesn't really count.
But it's not just you, I'd find the idea of sleeping where someone else's body was doing the same not long ago, a bit off-putting (unless I find the person attractive, then idk).

[Living For Love]

I understand you, but you could just ask to sleep somewhere else, on the couch for example. But we're all the same, a bed is a bed, you may have a strong connection to yours, but that doesn't mean other people's beds are dirty or something.

[mermaidfairy]

I always feel weird taking a bed because I feel like I'm intruding and imposing.
Though, even if I'm sleeping on an air mattress on someone's floor I can't sleep well.

[alvin]

When i go over to a friends house or my cousin's house and they ask me to take they bed, i can't sleep well and i freak out that its another person bed... Im fine at a hotel, its just that if its an owned bed, i could sleep better on a couch or chair... Does anyone else have this or is it just me?

no im not . i can sleep in bed . wherever