What's kissing and sex like?

[dreamofdante]

I'll never know so please indulge me on what it's like. I'm curious!

[mrpieface2]

Now don't say you'll never know man! We talked about this! Kissing is an awesome thing if you do it with someone you have feelings for. Can't really help you with the sex thing. Still a virgin and not planning on losing it anytime soon unless its someone I'm 100% comforatable with and I've known for a long time.

[dreamofdante]

Now don't say you'll never know man! We talked about this! Kissing is an awesome thing if you do it with someone you have feelings for. Can't really help you with the sex thing. Still a virgin and not planning on losing it anytime soon unless its someone I'm 100% comforatable with and I've known for a long time.

I honestly just don't think so anymore and I'm curious. That's cool to hear that even kissing is special though. Never would've thought that.

[Seemyheart]

U agree. I also can't help with the sex thing...I am also a virgin, but I imagine it would be amazing with someone you have true feelings for...

[mrpieface2]

Yeah. If you truely love someone, anything even just talking to her would be special to me

[dreamofdante]

U agree. I also can't help with the sex thing...I am also a virgin, but I imagine it would be amazing with someone you have true feelings for...

Yeah that's pretty much the best I could guess is that it's good with someone you really care about.

Yeah. If you truely love someone, anything even just talking to her would be special to me

I've never felt that. Love has to be reciprocated and no one has ever loved me nor will they.

[Seemyheart]

Never say never... nobody knows what will happen in the future, but you WILL find that special person who loves you unconditionally:)

[mrpieface2]

I've never felt that. Love has to be reciprocated and no one has ever loved me nor will they.

Don't say that, you'll find someone. Don't worry

[dreamofdante]

Don't say that, you'll find someone. Don't worry

I'm sorry but no...I'm too ugly and there's no one out there for me.

[mrpieface2]

I'm sorry but no...I'm too ugly and there's no one out there for me.

I'm sure your not ugly.

[dreamofdante]

I'm sure your not ugly.

I'll PM you a photo...

Edit: I can't so here. https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1450247_398946743571568_693296501_n.jpg

[mrpieface2]

Your not ugly man! You'll find someone! :)

[dreamofdante]

Your not ugly man! You'll find someone! :)

I have a lot of problems, man...

[mrpieface2]

I don't see any problems. Your a nice funny guy. I'm sure other people will agree with me

[dreamofdante]

I don't see any problems. Your a nice funny guy. I'm sure other people will agree with me

Thank you but...Not all flaws are visible upon examination.

[mrpieface2]

Oh... I'm sorry man... If you ever need to talk. I'm here for ya. Just get your posts over 100 and then we can PM. but feel free to VM me too

[dreamofdante]

Oh... I'm sorry man... If you ever need to talk. I'm here for ya. Just get your posts over 100 and then we can PM. but feel free to VM me too

Thanks man...Hopefully I'll be up above a hundred soon and I'll PM you. A lot of this is very personal and trust me...Women have rejected me for it.

[ksdnfkfr]

I'm sorry but no...I'm too ugly and there's no one out there for me.

I am autistic and would never think there would be someone
for me either as I can not even make friends much less have
someone fall in love with me. But someone did. No one else
seems to want much to do with me because they think I am
strange, but this one person who is popular and has a lot of
choices chose me. And lots of people who think they are ugly
are not even close to it. You are a prime example of that.
I guarantee lots of people do not think the same about you as
you think about yourself. We are often our own worst enemy
when it comes to viewing ourselves.

[dreamofdante]

I am autistic and would never think there would be someone
for me either as I can not even make friends much less have
someone fall in love with me. But someone did. No one else
seems to want much to do with me because they think I am
strange, but this one person who is popular and has a lot of
choices chose me. And lots of people who think they are ugly
are not even close to it. You are a prime example of that.
I guarantee lots of people do not think the same about you as
you think about yourself. We are often our own worst enemy
when it comes to viewing ourselves.

Maybe you're right. I mean I hope you are. And I'm really happy that a girl realized the potential you have. You seem like a nice guy defeated by others but you push through so I'm glad she sees that. With me though everyone walks all over me and I fight back but I get overpowered. Women absolutely do not want me. I've been rejected so many times I can't even give you a number...

[mrpieface2]

Until then jack, lets keep in touch. I'm always available to talk. And that's great to hear Ezrel that someone chose you. Great post. I hope it inspired jack!

[dreamofdante]

Until then jack, lets keep in touch. I'm always available to talk. And that's great to hear Ezrel that someone chose you. Great post. I hope it inspired jack!

Yeah I'll try and keep in touch. You're on my friends list I think and I'm really close to a hundred. I was in the 60s last I checked so...I wanted to kill myself again tonight. I'm in such a dark place anymore...

[ksdnfkfr]

Maybe you're right. I mean I hope you are. And I'm really happy that a girl realized the potential you have. You seem like a nice guy defeated by others but you push through so I'm glad she sees that. With me though everyone walks all over me and I fight back but I get overpowered. Women absolutely do not want me. I've been rejected so many times I can't even give you a number...

Lots of people are superficial and only care about status and want
their lives to look like something out of a glamor magazine. I would
not want a relationship with someone like that, even if I could get
one, which I could not.

[mrpieface2]

Don't kill yourself. I believe btw that studies have shown that the most successful people were never married ;). I'm going to bed. Have a good night

[dreamofdante]

Lots of people are superficial and only care about status and want
their lives to look like something out of a glamor magazine. I would
not want a relationship with someone like that, even if I could get
one, which I could not.

I go for people I think are nice and even then they can't let me down easy...

[dreamofdante]

Don't kill yourself. I believe btw that studies have shown that the most successful people were never married ;). I'm going to bed. Have a good night

Success and loneliness still leads to suicide though...Goodnight though...

[Seemyheart]

You won't be lonely forever:)

[dreamofdante]

You won't be lonely forever:)

How do you know that? :(

[ksdnfkfr]

I go for people I think are nice and even then they can't let me down easy...

Well like I said, no one even wants to even be friends with me.
So I know what rejection is like.
I have only one friend in life. And only because that person took a liking to me.
Someone will take a liking to you I am sure. But I am not the person to give
relationship advice obviously. I am just saying anything is possible. I have
seen many guys with wives who resemble you. And like I said, you are
not close to ugly. I do not lie to make people feel better, I tell it like it is.

[dreamofdante]

Well like I said, no one even wants to even be friends with me.
So I know what rejection is like.
I have only one friend in life. And only because that person took a liking to me.
Someone will take a liking to you I am sure. But I am not the person to give
relationship advice obviously. I am just saying anything is possible. I have
seen many guys with wives who resemble you. And like I said, you are
not close to ugly. I do not lie to make people feel better, I tell it like it is.

Well thank you. I appreciate it. I just wish I could somehow find it realistic for a woman to want me.

[Seemyheart]

How do you know that? :(

Because I felt exactly the way you did at one point in my life, I thought I was too complicated and too messed up for someone to love me or want me... but I found someone who did, granted I'm no longer with them, but since then, I've been happier. Every now and then, I write down all my good qualities and it's a good self esteem boost for me.
Plus, a handsome guy like you won't be lonely forever:)

[dreamofdante]

Because I felt exactly the way you did at one point in my life, I thought I was too complicated and too messed up for someone to love me or want me... but I found someone who did, granted I'm no longer with them, but since then, I've been happier. Every now and then, I write down all my good qualities and it's a good self esteem boost for me.
Plus, a handsome guy like you won't be lonely forever:)

Aww...Thank you, that's really sweet. You're a very nice girl. I'm grateful for any of them that I meet. :)

[Seemyheart]

Aww...Thank you, that's really sweet. You're a very nice girl. I'm grateful for any of them that I meet. :)

Your welcome:) and thanks:) You're a nice guy too

[dreamofdante]

Your welcome:) and thanks:) You're a nice guy too

Thank you, Molly! That's your name right? At least that's what it says lol

[Seemyheart]

Thank you, Molly! That's your name right? At least that's what it says lol

Lol yes, that's my name

[dreamofdante]

Lol yes, that's my name

Well thank you Molly. My name is Tyler despite the username. I appreciate your kind words. I just wish I could find it in myself to say the same things you guys do.

[Seemyheart]

Well thank you Molly. My name is Tyler despite the username. I appreciate your kind words. I just wish I could find it in myself to say the same things you guys do.

Well hi Tyler:) nice to meet you! and one day, you'll see that the people who tell you that you will not be alone forever, are right, and I bet that day will be a good day:)

[dreamofdante]

Well hi Tyler:) nice to meet you! and one day, you'll see that the people who tell you that you will not be alone forever, are right, and I bet that day will be a good day:)

Nice to meet you too Molly :) It would be an amazing day to know someone actually wants me and I would love for it to happen but...I've gotten my hopes up so much in the past six years...

[Seemyheart]

Nice to meet you too Molly :) It would be an amazing day to know someone actually wants me and I would love for it to happen but...I've gotten my hopes up so much in the past six years...

Life is all about chances though....there are millions of people in this world, that's whats so great about it, millions of chances and millions of possibilities

[dreamofdante]

Life is all about chances though....there are millions of people in this world, that's whats so great about it, millions of chances and millions of possibilities

There's no guarantee I'll meet those millions though haha

[Seemyheart]

There's no guarantee I'll meet those millions though haha

There's no guarantee that you won't though either lol

[dreamofdante]

There's no guarantee that you won't though either lol

There's no guarantee a girl will like an ugly 5 foot 10 guy with a small penis, stretch marks, chest acne, and a goofy looking face either lol

[Seemyheart]

I saw your picture you put up, and you're not ugly nor do you have a goofy looking face:) and 5'10" isn't bad, I'm exactly 5 foot lol and appearance is just superficial, personality is what counts, and from what I've seen, you have a good personality

[ksdnfkfr]

Well thank you. I appreciate it. I just wish I could somehow find it realistic for a woman to want me.

One thing you can often count on with someone with autism is
pure objectivity and brutal honesty.

[dreamofdante]

I saw your picture you put up, and you're not ugly nor do you have a goofy looking face:) and 5'10" isn't bad, I'm exactly 5 foot lol and appearance is just superficial, personality is what counts, and from what I've seen, you have a good personality

Aww thank you Molly. Thank you so much! You're so sweet! :D

[dreamofdante]

One thing you can often count on with someone with autism is
pure objectivity and brutal honesty.

That's true I guess. Which makes me feel a little better but also sad at the same time that you almost down yourself in the process...

[Plasma]

You're not alone... :/

[Seemyheart]

Aww thank you Molly. Thank you so much! You're so sweet! :D

Your welcome:) and thank you very much!

[dreamofdante]

You're not alone... :/

You look like a really handsome guy...That depresses me...

[dreamofdante]

Your welcome:) and thank you very much!

I appreciate you trying to help me Molly. It means a lot.

[Plasma]

You look like a really handsome guy...That depresses me...

I dunno. If you ever want to talk, we can be #foreveralone buddies xD

[dreamofdante]

I dunno. If you ever want to talk, we can be #foreveralone buddies xD

Lol yeah man. Thanks. You look too good looking to stay single forever though...

[Seemyheart]

You both are handsome guys.
And tyler, I'm happy to help:)

[dreamofdante]

You both are handsome guys.
And tyler, I'm happy to help:)

Have you kissed someone Molly?

[Seemyheart]

Have you kissed someone Molly?

Yes, I have.

[dreamofdante]

What was it like? Since that's originally what this thread was about lol

[Seemyheart]

What was it like? Since that's originally what this thread was about lol

Like...my first kiss???

[dreamofdante]

Like...my first kiss???

Sure. Or kissing in general. I have no idea what it's like lol.

[Seemyheart]

My first kiss was really short, he and I were both each other's first kiss, and he didn't man up and lean in so I had to do it lol granted we were in 6th grade sooooo maybe I should've waited til I got older
Kissing is a great feeling, you're showing your liking/love for someone in an intimate kind of way.

[dreamofdante]

My first kiss was really short, he and I were both each other's first kiss, and he didn't man up and lean in so I had to do it lol granted we were in 6th grade sooooo maybe I should've waited til I got older
Kissing is a great feeling, you're showing your liking/love for someone in an intimate kind of way.

Well that's cute and sweet in a way. Those are moments you live for. Which is why I question why I'm here all the time.

[Seemyheart]

Well that's cute and sweet in a way. Those are moments you live for. Which is why I question why I'm here all the time.

I haven't kissed anyone for the longest time, kinda takin a break from all that.
But one day, you'll experience those moments and you'll see for yourself:)

[dreamofdante]

I haven't kissed anyone for the longest time, kinda takin a break from all that.
But one day, you'll experience those moments and you'll see for yourself:)

That would be nice haha

[Seemyheart]

Have you always felt this way...?? that you'd be alone forever???
I'm sorry if me asking that is over stepping or offensive in any way. I apologize

[dreamofdante]

Have you always felt this way...?? that you'd be alone forever???
I'm sorry if me asking that is over stepping or offensive in any way. I apologize

After being called ugly every day for about eight years, I finally believed them and realized how much is wrong with me. And then the rejection from every single girl I ask out doesn't help. So yeah. I've wanted to kill myself for two years. I've thought that I'll die alone for probably four years.

[Seemyheart]

After being called ugly every day for about eight years, I finally believed them and realized how much is wrong with me. And then the rejection from every single girl I ask out doesn't help. So yeah. I've wanted to kill myself for two years. I've thought that I'll die alone for probably four years.

None of that is your fault, it's just mean people hating. people say hateful things like that to try and mke themselves feel better, when in all actuality, they're just making bigger fools out of themselves. I don't believe anything is wrong with you. I really truly 100% honestly dont. And those girls don't know what they're missing! a nice, kind, caring, handsome guy like you. killing yourself is never the answer, trust me.

[dreamofdante]

None of that is your fault, it's just mean people hating. people say hateful things like that to try and mke themselves feel better, when in all actuality, they're just making bigger fools out of themselves. I don't believe anything is wrong with you. I really truly 100% honestly dont. And those girls don't know what they're missing! a nice, kind, caring, handsome guy like you. killing yourself is never the answer, trust me.

I don't know sweet girls like you. That's a damn shame. You're so nice and sweet and you do seem genuine!

[Moth]

I'll never know so please indulge me on what it's like. I'm curious!

Give it a few years and once you start going on nights on, you will have a perfectly good idea of what it's like dude :P

[Moth]

I'll never know so please indulge me on what it's like. I'm curious!

Give it a few years and once you start going on nights out, you will have a perfectly good idea of what it's like dude :P

[Seemyheart]

I don't know sweet girls like you. That's a damn shame. You're so nice and sweet and you do seem genuine!

Well you know me now lol

[Dennis Chaney]

Well I'll tell you like I do everyone else, looks aren't what make a person attractive or desire able, its your heart and personality which make you attractive and who you are, you are gonna run across a lot of people who hate on you just like I have and so many others but you will find someone. Just keep your head up and keep being who you are man :3

[dreamofdante]

Give it a few years and once you start going on nights out, you will have a perfectly good idea of what it's like dude :P

That'd be the dream man. I don't know if I'd be going out or not.

[dreamofdante]

Well you know me now lol

Haha yes I do. Can I PM you sometime?

[dreamofdante]

Well I'll tell you like I do everyone else, looks aren't what make a person attractive or desire able, its your heart and personality which make you attractive and who you are, you are gonna run across a lot of people who hate on you just like I have and so many others but you will find someone. Just keep your head up and keep being who you are man :3

You're really attractive in your own way though man. Seriously. I can see the attraction.

[Seemyheart]

Haha yes I do. Can I PM you sometime?

Yeah, of course you can! I'd be happy to talk:)

[dreamofdante]

Yeah, of course you can! I'd be happy to talk:)

Aww thanks :) I PMed you.

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

I'll PM you a photo...

Edit: I can't so here. image (https://scontent-a-iad.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn2/1450247_398946743571568_693296501_n.jpg)

You look like you can change the world with an awesome invention

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

You're not alone bro. :/

[dreamofdante]

I look like I can change the world with something? How so? :)

And I'm really sorry to hear that man. I hate hearing that others are stuck like me...

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

I look like I can change the world with something? How so? :)

And I'm really sorry to hear that man. I hate hearing that others are stuck like me...

You look like a designer. Game or graphic I was thinking

[dreamofdante]

Hmm that's interesting. I'm a writer and I'm trying to make a trilogy but other than that I'm just an average ordinary guy who doesn't know what to do haha

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

Keep in writing man. You can be something big. The ladies will come will it too

[dreamofdante]

I don't know man haha. At best they'll end up on Youtube and that's it...

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

I don't know man haha. At best they'll end up on Youtube and that's it...

That's a start

[dreamofdante]

I'm using copyrighted music in them because they don't work without them and I doubt I'll be able to get the actual rights to the songs from copyright companies. Unless I got a student pass or something. Meaning I can't actually submit it to a film studio unless it has no music.

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

I'm using copyrighted music in them because they don't work without them and I doubt I'll be able to get the actual rights to the songs from copyright companies. Unless I got a student pass or something. Meaning I can't actually submit it to a film studio unless it has no music.

What type of music?

[dreamofdante]

Like a bunch of different popular songs from famous musicians that I would have to pay to get the rights for but I'm not a film studio or anything so I don't know if a deal could be made or not.

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

You'll never know unless you try

[Living For Love]

I've just kissed one girl, but it was a really long time ago, I can't remember the feeling, so it's like it didn't happen. I've never been loved in a romantic way, like "I want you to be my boyfriend." because there are other types of love, friendship love and mum love, and those I've already experienced. I don't think I'll ever be loved by a girl in a romantic way because, it's not only the fact that I'm not attractive at all, but I'm not the kind of guy most girls wanted to have as a boyfriend. And I can't really change that, I wish I could, but I don't know how.

But, anyway it doesn't matter, I know I'm not helping you because I can't really answer your first question, but I just wanted to say that love and sex are different things, and you can experience love without sex. Sex is just... sex, I'd prefer to have a friend saying to me "I love you", and it was genuine and real, than having sex with the most beautiful girl in the world.

[dreamofdante]

Yeah I guess. When the time comes and we're finished filming I'll probably double check with all our copyrighted songs. But the odds of getting them all is small. And the three songs I use to end the films are vital so if I can't get even one of them I'll just go ahead on Youtube. I've been working on these films for two years.

[dreamofdante]

I've just kissed one girl, but it was a really long time ago, I can't remember the feeling, so it's like it didn't happen. I've never been loved in a romantic way, like "I want you to be my boyfriend." because there are other types of love, friendship love and mum love, and those I've already experienced. I don't think I'll ever be loved by a girl in a romantic way because, it's not only the fact that I'm not attractive at all, but I'm not the kind of guy most girls wanted to have as a boyfriend. And I can't really change that, I wish I could, but I don't know how.

But, anyway it doesn't matter, I know I'm not helping you because I can't really answer your first question, but I just wanted to say that love and sex are different things, and you can experience love without sex. Sex is just... sex, I'd prefer to have a friend saying to me "I love you", and it was genuine and real, than having sex with the most beautiful girl in the world.

Well for the record, your display picture looks really handsome so I don't know what the problem is but yeah I guess to a certain extent, sex is nothing without love even if tons of people have it

[ThatWeirdGuy1]

Yeah I guess. When the time comes and we're finished filming I'll probably double check with all our copyrighted songs. But the odds of getting them all is small. And the three songs I use to end the films are vital so if I can't get even one of them I'll just go ahead on Youtube. I've been working on these films for two years.

Good luck

[dreamofdante]

Thanks man.

[shotgungirl]

It depends. If you both have deep feelings for each other, then it means a lot more. I still get lightheaded kissing my guy, and sex is pretty magical every time.

Casual kissing and sex is just..eh...to me, now that I know how it feels to really care for someone and have them feel the same way.


And hey, reading through this post. You've got nothing to worry about. I am a 19 year military gal with depression, PTSD, self harmer, and have a severe anxiety disorder. I've got the baggage to make desperate men run. But, I found someone who cares about me enough to take the good with the bad, and you will find someone like that, too.

[dreamofdante]

It depends. If you both have deep feelings for each other, then it means a lot more. I still get lightheaded kissing my guy, and sex is pretty magical every time.

Casual kissing and sex is just..eh...to me, now that I know how it feels to really care for someone and have them feel the same way.


And hey, reading through this post. You've got nothing to worry about. I am a 19 year military gal with depression, PTSD, self harmer, and have a severe anxiety disorder. I've got the baggage to make desperate men run. But, I found someone who cares about me enough to take the good with the bad, and you will find someone like that, too.

Then I suppose I probably should wait for someone I love...It sounds like it might be better and with what I'm packing, casual sex would be a flop anyway.

I hear what you're saying with baggage. I've got mine all right...But I'd be one of those guys who would be there for you so that's a good thing he's like that. I'm glad you found one of us. I still don't know about me though. From your DP, you look extremely attractive and I can automatically tell that you're caring so not only does he see someone strong, he sees you. So I don't know. I've always found myself weak but strong. Fragile but firm.