Puberty for boys- PSA

[Mastretta]

Q- Is it gay to experiment
A- Kinda; I've never met anyone who has done it.

Q-How big is your penis
A- Size doesn't matter, it's about performance

Q- Is it gay to ask to ask if something is gay
A- If you have to ask most likely, you're not comfortable with your sexuality or you're lying to your self about who you are

Q- Am I bi-curious
A- No because there is no such thing

Hope this stops the pointless spam threads.

[Celtics]

You're wrong, so wrong..... Bi-Curious is real, Experimenting isn't "gay" the term gay means when you have sexual feelings towards the same sex, and plenty of people do it but don't talk about it. Asking someone if something is gay does not make it gay. Acting like you do is very annoying.

[Mastretta]

You're wrong, so wrong..... Bi-Curious is real, Experimenting isn't "gay" the term gay means when you have sexual feelings towards the same sex, and plenty of people do it but don't talk about it. Asking someone if something is gay does not make it gay. Acting like you do is very annoying.

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:yeah: It is, Bi-Curious isn't real. Yes you can be curious and try it 1st but after that if you like it you're gay or bi:yeah:

[crazyBoyjJ]

Hey xyuki whatever ur name is if ur views r different thats ok but ur here on vt to learn and experience other peoples views on things not to be judgemental

[StoppingTime]

To be honest, most of the answers you gave to the points you attempted to address to stop the "pointless spam threads" are wrong.

1. It's not "gay" to do anything that someone doesn't apply the label to. "Gay" isn't a black and white, clear representation of a sexuality; in fact, no label is. Sexuality cannot be defined entirely in words like 'gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian' etc, there's much more to someone's individual sexuality then what people associate with those words.
If someone experiments and later realizes that that kind of sexual interaction isn't what feels right for them, then guess what, they're not "gay," and what they did wasn't "gay."

2. That's an opinion just as much as "size is the most important thing to me." It's up to the partner to decide what's important to them. If "performance" is what you think is most important, than that's fine, that's your opinion. If to someone else size is more important, than fine, that's what they think. There's no right or wrong answer to that question.

3. ...Or maybe you're just trying to figure out what your sexuality actually is? That's not something anyone has to go about alone, so if someone asks someone else about something sexual and what they'd consider it, then they're simply giving their insight to the guy who asked. They don't have to be right or wrong (because there really isn't a right or wrong about it) but it's just about the conversation and what kind of affects it has on the person who asked it.

4. It's most certainly a "thing." Give it whatever label you want, that's not important. If someone's curious about the other sex, then it could most certainly be a phase in their life that they move on from, or just the opposite. Again, there's no golden, one sentence answer to any of these questions.

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So please don't come here just to tell people to stop "spamming" when in reality they're looking for help and support, and this thread is the complete opposite.

[Mastretta]

To be honest, most of the answers you gave to the points you attempted to address to stop the "pointless spam threads" are wrong.

1. It's not "gay" to do anything that someone doesn't apply the label to. "Gay" isn't a black and white, clear representation of a sexuality; in fact, no label is. Sexuality cannot be defined entirely in words like 'gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian' etc, there's much more to someone's individual sexuality then what people associate with those words.
If someone experiments and later realizes that that kind of sexual interaction isn't what feels right for them, then guess what, they're not "gay," and what they did wasn't "gay."

2. That's an opinion just as much as "size is the most important thing to me." It's up to the partner to decide what's important to them. If "performance" is what you think is most important, than that's fine, that's your opinion. If to someone else size is more important, than fine, that's what they think. There's no right or wrong answer to that question.

3. ...Or maybe you're just trying to figure out what your sexuality actually is? That's not something anyone has to go about alone, so if someone asks someone else about something sexual and what they'd consider it, then they're simply giving their insight to the guy who asked. They don't have to be right or wrong (because there really isn't a right or wrong about it) but it's just about the conversation and what kind of affects it has on the person who asked it.

4. It's most certainly a "thing." Give it whatever label you want, that's not important. If someone's curious about the other sex, then it could most certainly be a phase in their life that they move on from, or just the opposite. Again, there's no golden, one sentence answer to any of these questions.

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So please don't come here just to tell people to stop "spamming" when in reality they're looking for help and support, and this thread is the complete opposite.
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[Celtics]

Thank you time and I wasn't trying to force my views at you if you think I was.

[Celtics]

Yukki, you need to grow up. Just because you believe in something and someone else doesn't. That doesn't mean you make them believe that. I also believe your just trying to act as Straight as possible because your to scared to actually say what you think

[Elysium]

xYukki, you're being rude and dismissive, not to mention the thread's rapidly derailing into personal insults, so I'm going to lock this thread. If you're not ready to grow up and have a mature discussion with other people, you're not ready to tell other people how to grow up. :locked:

Besides, VT is a help site. You can't tell other people, "this is what I think and so this is what you should think." crazyBoyjJ hit the nail on the head; everyone learns and experiences in their own ways.