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coder
November 24th, 2013, 05:20 PM
I have a problem.. Since i was a child i liked girls, i went hard on them and stuff.
When i got to the age of 13 i remember i began liking boys an watching gay porn. How is that possible that i turned from straight to gay? Can i turn back to straight?
Elysium
November 24th, 2013, 05:26 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality
And, no. You can't just "turn" straight or "turn" gay. You are who you are and I see nothing wrong with liking boys. Besides, this could just be a phase; sexuality is a fluid spectrum. Don't worry about it too much.
sqishy
November 24th, 2013, 06:09 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality
And, no. You can't just "turn" straight or "turn" gay. You are who you are and I see nothing wrong with liking boys. Besides, this could just be a phase; sexuality is a fluid spectrum. Don't worry about it too much.
Yes, this ^ is great advice. You cannot change your sexuality with will. Feelings do not get controlled by out thoughts.
steellord321
November 24th, 2013, 08:45 PM
I was the same way but i can look back and see i was just acting as society expected me to. I'd still ask to dance with girls or said i liked one, but at age 10 you aren't actually into girls. It's more like puberty later takes over and makes clear how we really are.
So you can't "turn back" straight because if you end up only liking guys then you never were straight and sexuality doesn't work that way. We can't control it.
Wyatt 13
November 25th, 2013, 01:03 PM
Something like that is happening 2 me right now.
NeuroTiger
November 25th, 2013, 01:33 PM
I have a problem.. Since i was a child i liked girls, i went hard on them and stuff.
When i got to the age of 13 i remember i began liking boys an watching gay porn. How is that possible that i turned from straight to gay? Can i turn back to straight?
Maybe it's just a phase in your life.
I'm not trying to put restriction on your personal activities but watching too much porn might cause irreversible damage to your brain.
Advice: watch moderately.
mermaidfairy
November 26th, 2013, 09:20 PM
Sexuality is a fluid thing, meaning that sometimes it can change over the course of the years as you realize more about yourself. YOU can't change it yourself by doing any sort of actions, it's just something that happens. You can't help who you're attracted to, though.
I'll tell you that watching porn doesn't automatically mean you're gay. Sometimes people just have different types of porn preferences that doesn't automatically reflect on their sexuality.
But, you can't help who you like. This is something natural that happens, so it's possible that you're gay or bisexual, but it's possible that it's a phase. Try not to stress too much right now, you're still young and have plenty of time to figure your sexuality out. In the moment, you can experiment with relationships. If you like a guy, pursue him, and the same goes with a girl, it may help you figure things out a bit better. But, even if you don't want to experiment, it'll become clear.
You don't have to put any sort of label on your sexuality right now either, until you're ready.
loki2000
December 4th, 2013, 12:05 PM
your normal dude ! dont worry your self so bad...relax and just enjoy who you like right now
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