View Full Version : Lol @ 13 year olds in relationships.
Paige Elizabeth
November 24th, 2013, 04:37 PM
I'm just gonna post this here because it's about relationships and pathetic-ness.
Anyway, earlier I was talking to this 13 year old in a "relationship", right? And she was like "We've had sex." Hon, why?! Like. Wut. I slapped her. Just no.
To any of the kids(yes, kids.) reading this, please don't date until you're both mature. You're young! Don't try to settle down. Lolhavefunpls. Don't date until you're married - I mean out of high school.
Kuroseiryuu
November 24th, 2013, 04:43 PM
It's their choice about sex, but, a 12-13 isn't exacly aware of love, since those hormones start 14-15.
More pathetic than those are people looking for a relationship on internet. Like, really, you don't go out and look for that? And man do I love that my country is few years behind the world so it doesn't have bullshit like this.
TheBionicWorm
November 24th, 2013, 04:45 PM
Stuff like that always confused me. I'm 15 and I personally don't plan to date until 17 at the least. To each their own I guess.
LouBerry
November 24th, 2013, 05:33 PM
I'm just gonna post this here because it's about relationships and pathetic-ness.
Anyway, earlier I was talking to this 13 year old in a "relationship", right? And she was like "We've had sex." Hon, why?! Like. Wut. I slapped her. Just no.
To any of the kids(yes, kids.) reading this, please don't date until you're both mature. You're young! Don't try to settle down. Lolhavefunpls. Don't date until you're married - I mean out of high school.
That is incredibly judgmental and none of your business. If someone is ready to be in a relationship or to have a sexual relationship, let them, and stay out of it. You wouldn't like people bitching about the shit you do that they don't approve of.
Granted, 13 is a little early to be having sex. But, whose fault is it that 12-16 year olds are doing things like that? Ours. Everyone who helps to promote and endorse that lifestyle is to blame.
Potato
November 24th, 2013, 05:38 PM
That is incredibly judgmental and none of your business. If someone is ready to be in a relationship or to have a sexual relationship, let them, and stay out of it. You wouldn't like people bitching about the shit you do that they don't approve of.
Granted, 13 is a little early to be having sex. But, whose fault is it that 12-16 year olds are doing things like that? Ours. Everyone who helps to promote and endorse that lifestyle is to blame.
Amen. These ages are about discovering what you like and exploring relationships, let them do what they want. Worry about yourself.
TheBionicWorm
November 24th, 2013, 05:39 PM
I don't think it's so much promoting it as us teenagers being rebellious. Hormones and change can make for a heck of a rebellion streak. For some reason I don't seem to have much of one but it happens to most. I also know some people who say they really regret doing it. To me personally it seems like a mistake but once again: To each their own.
skiman
November 24th, 2013, 10:59 PM
I'm here to defend those 13 yr olds out there in quality relationships. Now, I have never had sex, or anything near it, but I have been in a relationship for 2 years now with a wonderful girl. I have kissed her plenty of times, never made out, and I plan to carry on this relationship to adulthood. Dont judge! And just so you know, you're damn right about the girl who had sex at that age. I woulda slapped her too. Kids these days are in too much of a hurry to grow up.
Abyssal Echo
November 24th, 2013, 11:57 PM
That is incredibly judgmental and none of your business. If someone is ready to be in a relationship or to have a sexual relationship, let them, and stay out of it. You wouldn't like people bitching about the shit you do that they don't approve of.
Granted, 13 is a little early to be having sex. But, whose fault is it that 12-16 year olds are doing things like that? Ours. Everyone who helps to promote and endorse that lifestyle is to blame.
Amen. These ages are about discovering what you like and exploring relationships, let them do what they want. Worry about yourself.
I agree with Lou and Potato its really none of your business and you need to worry about you.
I had my first sex at 11 and was in a relationship at 13 both were awesome experiences that I have no regrets doing.
ksdnfkfr
November 25th, 2013, 12:15 AM
I think I am a lot more mature and responsible than a lot of
older kids I know and I am always told so.
And it is pretty hard to put up an age limit wall against someone you fall in
love with, just because you are both only 13.
I do think younger kids should take things slower and not go too far.
But to say that someone can not have a boyfriend / girlfriend at 13 sounds absurd to me.
NeuroTiger
November 25th, 2013, 12:27 AM
I think maturity level and a sense of responsibility is what matters.
I think I am a lot more mature and responsible than a lot of
older kids I know and am always told so.
And it is pretty hard to put up an age limit wall against someone you fall in
love with, just because you are only both 13.
I do think younger kids should take things slower and not go too far.
But to say that someone can not have a boyfriend / girlfriend at 13 sounds ridiculous to me.
Exactly it depends on the person in question. Everyone grows up differently.
Certainly most 13-year olds are not mature enough to handle the huge task of being in a relationship.
I'll advise, especially young teens, to be responsible enough since some mistakes have the power to spoil your future...it's up to you, guys!
"You have the power to control what are within your hands; nothing less, nothing more."
Moth
November 25th, 2013, 04:18 AM
It's their choice about sex, but, a 12-13 isn't exacly aware of love, since those hormones start 14-15.
Are you seriously denying a "12-13" (I presume you mean the ages of 12 - 13?) is incapable of love? I'm pretty sure I loved alot of people in my life at that age? Oh wait I could not have because everyone's 'love hormones' don't start until you are 14.
Although I agree in part with this subject... I don't believe it is anyone's place to question a relationship if what is happening is suitable and safe to how old you are. I met a girl at 14 and I had one of those cringey relationships but believe it or not, we had a 3 year relationship and while it may not have been 'love' I definitely felt/feel strongly about her 2 years on.
OP doesn't look more than 15 herself, kinda shooting herself in the foot here.
mrpieface2
November 25th, 2013, 05:58 AM
It's their choice. They can do what they want
luq_
November 25th, 2013, 09:04 AM
Well, you don't really know how is every 13 year old on this planet. There are 7 billion of people on Earth, and everyone's different(well, I'm unsure about identical twins... but they don't make a big number). So every sentence with "everyone" and "no one" is just absurd, even when narrowed down to persons under 14.
You could say the average. But you cannot really tell what's the average. Our world is rapidly changing, and averages are changing. Lifestyles, GROWING UP. We live longer and longer, but we grow up shorter. That probably sounds illogical, but that's how the things are. If it's wrong, that means there'd be consequences, and we will feel them, and our own mistakes are the best way to learn. Sometimes, the only one.
So let it be. Unless it's your sister, or someone really close to you. But even then - a slap can just make her revolted. I highly doubt it will make her sober, she's 13 and discovering herself, she's realizing that it's her life and that she can do what she wants. We all make mistakes. Some are bigger, some are smaller. But we all feel consequences for our mistakes. If it was really a wrong thing to do, she will regret it. She will feel awful about it. But you cannot possibly know that now. Because you don't know how she feels, or felt, or how she thinks. Only the time will tell was that the right thing to do.
Fallen_Eagle
November 25th, 2013, 09:41 AM
These kids make me feel uncomfortable with my sex life, or rather, my lack thereof. I would've slapped her silly and I would've confiscated all of her drugs, alcohol and cigarettes as well. Kids grow up WAY too quickly these days!
Melodic
November 25th, 2013, 09:56 AM
Honestly I am gonna say, not a specific age group makes you mature or not. But I also want to put here, they shouldn't have sex if they're not ready for the consequences and the what ifs. It is what it is, and people do what they want anyways in their relationships. But it's just simple advice.
ashdyn
November 25th, 2013, 01:30 PM
That is incredibly judgmental and none of your business. If someone is ready to be in a relationship or to have a sexual relationship, let them, and stay out of it. You wouldn't like people bitching about the shit you do that they don't approve of.
Granted, 13 is a little early to be having sex. But, whose fault is it that 12-16 year olds are doing things like that? Ours. Everyone who helps to promote and endorse that lifestyle is to blame.
Dude's on point. I mean what's the difference between a 14 year old freshman and a 13 year old really? If they can handle a relationship then who cares if they date. I dated when I was 13...none of it was "serious" but there's plenty of 15-35 year olds that aren't in serious relationships lol as for sex it's the same thing. 13 is kinda young but what difference is a couple months gunna make. They just gotta understand the consequences. Not our place to judge.
Luminous
November 25th, 2013, 02:11 PM
More pathetic than those are people looking for a relationship on internet. Like, really, you don't go out and look for that? And man do I love that my country is few years behind the world so it doesn't have bullshit like this.
^^^
13 is a little young for a relationship, definitely too young for sex. Really I think relationships are okay for people 13+ but 13/14 year olds shouldn't be doing any more than making out, they're (we're) not ready for the responsibility and obviously can't make as wise a choice as many 16 year olds. I'm 14 and I don't think I'm too young for a relationship, I feel ready, but definitely not for sex for another year at least. Honestly, it mostly depends on the person. Your age doesn't say very much about your maturity. Unless you're like, a week old.
EDIT: I'd like to add that kids under 13 are alright in relationships exploring what they like and their taste, but not for a serious relationship. Really, just let these kids do what they want and leave their parents to deal with them. It's not your business.
Arie_
November 25th, 2013, 07:32 PM
Lol I'm 13 and i don't even want to be in a relationship. :/
equestrian
November 25th, 2013, 07:34 PM
It's not that disapprove of relationships at that age (I think it's kind of cute), but I highly doubt they actually "love" each other romantically. Sex at that age is just weird. I bet it's really awkward. Personally I didn't start thinking romantically until about age 16. Here is sort of my maturity timeline:
<6 Gender makes no difference. As long as we can play together I'm happy. (But it's weird that I have a penis and girls don't).
6-10 Girls have cooties... everyone knows that. (But secretly I find girls interesting)
10-12 Cooties are gone and I like girls but not openly.
12-14 Guys like girls but only talk about it to each other. Some "mini" relationships. I never had a girlfriend.
14-16 I date some girls. Mostly for superficial reasons. Raging sex drive starts cranking up.
16-17 Sex drive. Lots of dating. Very minor romantic thoughts.
17-Now (18 currently) Thinking more romantically. Valuing family more. Sex drive goes down a bit (but still remains). I think I love a girl (actually).
hermanthefish
November 25th, 2013, 07:38 PM
I think it really depends on the person. I am a 13 year old and am dating a wonderful girl and we have a good relationship. In fact today is our 7th month anniversary. :yeah: We have several couples in our grade, all of whom are completely ready to be in one. However, not all people r, and 13 year olds should NOT be having sex.
equestrian
November 25th, 2013, 07:45 PM
I think it really depends on the person. I am a 13 year old and am dating a wonderful girl and we have a good relationship. In fact today is our 7th month anniversary. :yeah: We have several couples in our grade, all of whom are completely ready to be in one. However, not all people r, and 13 year olds should NOT be having sex.
What is your motivation in dating this girl?
I'm not trying to antagonize you or anything, I've just never talked to a 13 yo in a relationship before. I'm curious about your feelings.
Blood
November 25th, 2013, 09:30 PM
I agree that 13 is a bit young, but instead of talking about this girl online, why don't you try talking to her about safe sex and stuff to help her understand how serious what she's doing is? Talking about her and how terrible you think she is isn't going to help or prevent any bad things that could happen, but talking with her about it could.
We're all different and we all do what we do for certain reasons. Don't automatically judge someone based on their age and the stuff they're doing, because there is most definitely a story behind it.
Kuroseiryuu
November 26th, 2013, 12:48 PM
Are you seriously denying a "12-13" (I presume you mean the ages of 12 - 13?) is incapable of love? I'm pretty sure I loved alot of people in my life at that age? Oh wait I could not have because everyone's 'love hormones' don't start until you are 14.
I didn't meant love as a family love, but as love to the same/opposite sex. And they can't feel that love, only liking, 'cause, do I even need to explain what works in your body when you really love a boy/girl?
Wyatt 13
November 27th, 2013, 12:57 PM
Lol I'm 13 and i don't even want to be in a relationship. :/
Same here, I'm not ready for it and tbh I really don't know what 2do in a date I rather hanging around with my buds.
Body odah Man
November 27th, 2013, 01:47 PM
I'm just gonna post this here because it's about relationships and pathetic-ness.
Anyway, earlier I was talking to this 13 year old in a "relationship", right? And she was like "We've had sex." Hon, why?! Like. Wut. I slapped her. Just no.
To any of the kids(yes, kids.) reading this, please don't date until you're both mature. You're young! Don't try to settle down. Lolhavefunpls. Don't date until you're married - I mean out of high school.
Da FUCK!!! Sex! At 13!! NO, just NO! You shoulda slapped dat chick. She's too young. I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin-most people at my school are 16 and virigns (this is Europe but still). What the hell! This is just..wow.
Synyster Shadows
November 27th, 2013, 01:52 PM
Hey, it's really not your problem. Let them do whatever they want. Sure 13 is a bit too young for sexual actions, but it's not your business. I'm 14 and my girlfriend's 13. We're perfectly happy and I would never ask her to do anything sexual till we were both ready. Get out of other people's business.
SkootuGurl
November 28th, 2013, 07:43 AM
And they can't feel that love, only liking, 'cause, do I even need to explain what works in your body when you really love a boy/girl?
And you're making that claim based on what?
Kuroseiryuu
November 28th, 2013, 09:38 AM
And you're making that claim based on what?
Facts and biology. There is a huge line between liking and loving, but seems like the younger generations thinks liking = loving, so I won't even try to explain that. Or else, even 8-9 yo could go saying ''I love you, be my gf.''
SkootuGurl
November 28th, 2013, 10:05 AM
Facts and biology. There is a huge line between liking and loving, but seems like the younger generations thinks liking = loving, so I won't even try to explain that. Or else, even 8-9 yo could go saying ''I love you, be my gf.''
If you're going to claim that there is actual scientific evidence of this, then please show us this proof that 13 year olds are biologically incapable of love.
Dark Unicorn
November 28th, 2013, 11:07 AM
I reckon being mature is when you decide to do something/not to do something based on the consequences.Very few people nowadays consider how their actions are going to affect other people and that,in my opinion,is selfishness.Think of how your parents that love and raise you would feel if you fell pregnant or made someone pregnant at 13.Actions have consequences.You could get an STI or fall pregnant then what?I find there is often more harm in rushing into things than in waiting,which usually prevents harm in these issues.Waiting does not kill.I have found that most kids engage in sexual activities because everyone else is doing it,peer pressure or they feel it is necessary in order that they keep their boyfriend/girlfriend from leaving them and going to someone who will offer this most willingly.At the end of the day it's an individual's choice and although I neither condone nor encourage it,if you decide to do it,at least make sure it's for the "right" reasons,whatever thet may be and be safe.
hermanthefish
November 28th, 2013, 11:37 AM
What is your motivation in dating this girl?
I'm not trying to antagonize you or anything, I've just never talked to a 13 yo in a relationship before. I'm curious about your feelings.
We have so much in common, and she's super nice and pretty. And also that part of being in a relationship where u just are attracted to a person. Granted, there are some people in r grade who dated for about a day, or who just r dating cuz they find each other attractive and don't actualy have romantic feelings for one another. so it really depends on the person, and how mature they are
Dark Hatred
November 28th, 2013, 02:08 PM
I'm 13 and I have been in relationships. They weren't like "serious" we held hands and kissed but I mean nothing more...they never lasted longer than 1-2 months. Right now honestly I dont want to be in a relationship...girls my age are whacked out :lol::D
Cassius
November 29th, 2013, 03:09 PM
I believe in waiting on sex until marriage although dating depends on the maturity of the individuals.
Pseudogeek
November 30th, 2013, 10:57 AM
My 13-year-old sister is not mature enough to be in a relationship. But that doesn't mean all 13yo aren't.
Paige Elizabeth
December 1st, 2013, 12:29 PM
If you're going to claim that there is actual scientific evidence of this, then please show us this proof that 13 year olds are biologically incapable of love.
Majority of 13 year olds aren't mature enough mentally or emotionally to know what true love is besides the love mum or dad gives them.
workingatperfect
December 1st, 2013, 03:18 PM
I agree with the sex thing. I mean, I thought I was mature for my age at 13 and BOY was I wrong. No one is ever as mature as they think they are. "A wise man knows he is a fool. A fool thinks he is wise." I read that the other day, I think it's relevant to children who think they can handle having sex lives.
As for relationships. I think it's fine to date, but I don't see them as serious. I don't think they can be in love. At 13, everything is temporary, you have no perspective on what forever is, and what it means to be with someone for the long haul. I think it's more about life stage than age. When you're nearing that point where your real life is starting soon, I think that's when love comes into play, because you start to understand the importance of having that one person with you through everything, when you have to leave behind everything you've known prior.
That, and, when you're 13, you don't date. You're still at the age where you jump into relationships. There's no casual stage, which I think is important to have. You don't get that chance to test if it's purely "oh they're cute" or if you actually like spending time with them in a romantic atmosphere. I'm a huge fan of casual dating. when I started talking to my current boyfriend, we were romantic, but casual for a month before truly committing. I wasn't automatically tied down, I could talk to other people, and I did for a little bit and I liked that trial period of figuring out that he was the only I was always drawn to. I guess it helps put your feelings towards a person in perspective.
Sorry if that seems off topic, but it my mind, it's definitely related.
teen.jpg
December 1st, 2013, 05:20 PM
It's their choice about sex, but, a 12-13 isn't exacly aware of love, since those hormones start 14-15.
More pathetic than those are people looking for a relationship on internet. Like, really, you don't go out and look for that? And man do I love that my country is few years behind the world so it doesn't have bullshit like this.
Online relationships aren't pathetic. Sometimes its difficult to actually find someone on person.
And yeah its not the brightest idea to have sex at 13 but the deed is done, what else is there to do really.
jesusogpaign
December 2nd, 2013, 01:55 AM
What? Why do you care what other people are doing? If they like another person, who are you to say they can't. If they want to have sex, why the fuck is it YOUR decision if they can or not?
DarkOmega
December 2nd, 2013, 02:02 AM
I'm just gonna post this here because it's about relationships and pathetic-ness.
Anyway, earlier I was talking to this 13 year old in a "relationship", right? And she was like "We've had sex." Hon, why?! Like. Wut. I slapped her. Just no.
To any of the kids(yes, kids.) reading this, please don't date until you're both mature. You're young! Don't try to settle down. Lolhavefunpls. Don't date until you're married - I mean out of high school.
know what else is pathetic . judging other people . just mind ur bussiness if u don't like it don't do it or don't engage in a relationship until u want to .people mature at different ages .and from what u just said . it doesn't seem like ur mature enough to understand that not everybody's the same and people mature at diff ages and experience and do different thing at diff. ages
Da FUCK!!! Sex! At 13!! NO, just NO! You shoulda slapped dat chick. She's too young. I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin-most people at my school are 16 and virigns (this is Europe but still). What the hell! This is just..wow.
seriously ? u think 4 years make that big of a difference ? again I', from Europe also ..and most of them are not virgins at 16 or 17 .
jesusogpaign
December 2nd, 2013, 02:34 AM
To any of the kids(yes, kids.) reading this, please don't date until you're both mature. You're young! Don't try to settle down. Lolhavefunpls. Don't date until you're married - I mean out of high school.
In what way is having a girlfriend/boyfriend and having sex with them "settling down"? How is that not being young and having fun? You'd better sort yourself out before judging and dictating what others do.
DarkOmega
December 2nd, 2013, 02:39 AM
In what way is having a girlfriend/boyfriend and having sex with them "settling down"? How is that not being young and having fun? You'd better sort yourself out before judging and dictating what others do.
And also, your signature sounds like a Hot-100 garbage pop country song.
its only "funny" how she says kids , she is a kid herself .2-4 years don't make that big of a difference
Body odah Man
December 2nd, 2013, 02:23 PM
seriously ? u think 4 years make that big of a difference ? again I', from Europe also ..and most of them are not virgins at 16 or 17 .
I really do think 4 years make a huge difference. You develop alot both mentally and sexually in 4 years and I truly believe that at 13 you are not developed enough to truly be ready for sex. And alright I'm probably wrong that people in my shcool r still virgins at 16 but I HIGHLY doubt they lost it before they were 15, mostly. 13 is just too young.
Andriod09
December 2nd, 2013, 04:23 PM
Guys, seriously?
All the OP is saying is that in HER opinion is that children (tweens) shouldn't be dating, or physically dating (sex) that young. I PERSONALLY agree with this. They shouldn't be so young to start dating, kissing/making out/holding hands/hugging I don't care about, but when a 12-14 your old has sex, they can seriously mess up their head, start thinking that everyone does it that young. Its just not right.
I'm 16, I've had one girlfriend, started dating at 14, until she passed away when we were both 16. We almost had sex once, but we were interrupted while making out in her room. If it wasn't for that moment, I would be a sex-aholic right now. Honestly I would be, I'm addicted to porn, and i'm still trying to get that under control.
And I personally agree with some of the things that the OP has to say.
DarkOmega
December 2nd, 2013, 06:09 PM
I really do think 4 years make a huge difference. You develop alot both mentally and sexually in 4 years and I truly believe that at 13 you are not developed enough to truly be ready for sex. And alright I'm probably wrong that people in my shcool r still virgins at 16 but I HIGHLY doubt they lost it before they were 15, mostly. 13 is just too young.
again ..it depends on the person and I can tell ur from experience that age doesn't matter that much ..its just a number ..I'm 15 but I always hang out with friends or just people I know that are older than me ..I've always been doing this ..like I said I'm 15 and hang out with 16-24 y/o . maturity develops at different ages and its also based on the experiences u have .and there will always be someone that lost its virginity before 15 . u just need to ask and find them
Guys, seriously?
All the OP is saying is that in HER opinion is that children (tweens) shouldn't be dating, or physically dating (sex) that young. I PERSONALLY agree with this. They shouldn't be so young to start dating, kissing/making out/holding hands/hugging I don't care about, but when a 12-14 your old has sex, they can seriously mess up their head, start thinking that everyone does it that young. Its just not right.
I'm 16, I've had one girlfriend, started dating at 14, until she passed away when we were both 16. We almost had sex once, but we were interrupted while making out in her room. If it wasn't for that moment, I would be a sex-aholic right now. Honestly I would be, I'm addicted to porn, and i'm still trying to get that under control.
And I personally agree with some of the things that the OP has to say.
u guys are acting lie this never happened before .. before the 18 century a lot of people at 12+ were considered mature and a lot of them at the age of 15 were already parents .. in some countries they still practice this .. so why in the world is it such a big deal ? don't like it .cool don't do it .let them do what ever they want
Please don't double post, if you have something to add, use the edit button instead. ~Siobhan.
Body odah Man
December 3rd, 2013, 02:28 PM
u guys are acting lie this never happened before .. before the 18 century a lot of people at 12+ were considered mature and a lot of them at the age of 15 were already parents .. in some countries they still practice this .. so why in the world is it such a big deal ? don't like it .cool don't do it .let them do what ever they want
In olden days they bathed once a week (yay), burned people alive and killing each other off was the norm in olden times. Yet we don't do that anymore do we?
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 06:06 PM
In olden days they bathed once a week (yay), burned people alive and killing each other off was the norm in olden times. Yet we don't do that anymore do we?
no .because that actually harmed people .but this doesn't .. and again there are still countries that practice this ..some groups of people still do it .and this doesn't have anything to do with that ..they stopped because it harmed and damaged people . this doesn't . just let them do what ever the hell they want to .. it doesn't harm u .and its a personal choice
and when u say we . u refer to the modern world . ur forgetting the rest of the world,although I don't know of someone in the current time burning people alive .. people do still kill each other ..there are still wars and even if there is not .they still kill each other ..but lets stay on topic .. its none of our business of what their private choice is .
indoxyl
December 3rd, 2013, 06:12 PM
mind you 99% of females in the 18th century died after childbirth so..
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 06:16 PM
mind you 99% of females in the 18th century died after childbirth so..
its true that a lot died after childbirth .but nowhere near 99%
if u do a little research look
During the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, between 1 percent and 1.5 percent of all births ended in the mother's death as a result of exhaustion, dehydration, infection, hemorrhage, or convulsions.
So again its their personal choice and its not something we should stop them from doing
Dennis Chaney
December 3rd, 2013, 07:01 PM
That is incredibly judgmental and none of your business. If someone is ready to be in a relationship or to have a sexual relationship, let them, and stay out of it. You wouldn't like people bitching about the shit you do that they don't approve of.
Granted, 13 is a little early to be having sex. But, whose fault is it that 12-16 year olds are doing things like that? Ours. Everyone who helps to promote and endorse that lifestyle is to blame.
Lol and its not judge mental of you to persecute her for her opinion? Think about if you ever have kids, you want them sleeping around at 12-13? I don't think so. Some people are just so ignorant to the obvious fact she was getting at.
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 07:15 PM
Lol and its not judge mental of you to persecute her for her opinion? Think about if you ever have kids, you want them sleeping around at 12-13? I don't think so. Some people are just so ignorant to the obvious fact she was getting at.
I personally don't care .they can have sex at 12-13 if they are safe and they are comfortable .. I'm not persecuting her opinion .but I'm just saying that a PERSONAL(by which I mean that its between them if they are agreeing to have sex) opinion should be personal and if it doesn't affect u or others don't get involved in it ..while her opinion states that she doesn't want or like and that they should now have sex at 12-13 .which affects some people
LouBerry
December 3rd, 2013, 07:20 PM
Lol and its not judge mental of you to persecute her for her opinion? Think about if you ever have kids, you want them sleeping around at 12-13? I don't think so. Some people are just so ignorant to the obvious fact she was getting at.
There is a difference between shaming someone for their actions, and telling someone something constructive. I am in no way persecuting her. If you stick your nose in peoples business and then bitch them out about it, they won't like you. I'm trying to spare her a life lesson.
But, I'll concede, I am a bit judgmental to people who are un-necessarily rude to other people.
Dennis Chaney
December 3rd, 2013, 07:22 PM
I personally don't care .they can have sex at 12-13 if they are safe and they are comfortable .. I'm not persecuting her opinion .but I'm just saying that a PERSONAL(by which I mean that its between them if they are agreeing to have sex) opinion should be personal and if it doesn't affect u or others don't get involved in it ..while her opinion states that she doesn't want or like and that they should now have sex at 12-13 .which affects some people
Regardless of what you or any of the other morons here think, 12-13 year olds don't know what the fuck they want there fore at the age of 12-13 you can't consent to "sex" and not legally either. And that's why if you ever have children and actually approve of it, you will end up with cps taking your children away. Not only is your post idiotic but makes you look like a complete moron.
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 07:48 PM
Regardless of what you or any of the other morons here think, 12-13 year olds don't know what the fuck they want there fore at the age of 12-13 you can't consent to "sex" and not legally either. And that's why if you ever have children and actually approve of it, you will end up with cps taking your children away. Not only is your post idiotic but makes you look like a complete moron.
so ur calling everybody a moron for having an opinion ..so yeah .that kinda just ends ur argument ..who cares about law .since its private . and maybe in US not in other countries .. u guys are always only thinking about the laws of ur country ..
Dennis Chaney
December 3rd, 2013, 07:52 PM
Yeah till your child gets raped by a pedophile because you don't care if your child has sex at 12. Yeah smooth one. Did you ever think of that? If you sit there and don't care that they are sexually active at 12-13 well what does that say about you? That's like encouraging child porno.
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 08:33 PM
Yeah till your child gets raped by a pedophile because you don't care if your child has sex at 12. Yeah smooth one. Did you ever think of that? If you sit there and don't care that they are sexually active at 12-13 well what does that say about you? That's like encouraging child porno.
why do u need to exaggerated all the time are r u seriously so frustrated I as referring to 12-13 mainly teens .and I always said if they both agree . no shit I wouldn't except my kids going out with adults and getting raped .,just because ur sexually active at 13 doesn't mean u will get raped .jeez that could happen to somebody that was never sexually active in their life . .really now that was ur best thing to come up with ? lets just put in this way u have ur opinion I have mine .lets both keep it to our self and lets stop with this cuz its getting annoying
Dennis Chaney
December 3rd, 2013, 08:42 PM
Lol okay whatever you say, I am just speaking the truth. Plus you really had no say in this seeing as you are probably like 13-14 yourself therefore I'm 19 and actually have a daughter.
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 09:05 PM
Lol okay whatever you say, I am just speaking the truth. Plus you really had no say in this seeing as you are probably like 13-14 yourself therefore I'm 19 and actually have a daughter.
15 .and having a daughter at 19 ..which means u actually had it at 18 or younger .and ur complaining about that ..wow fail .. ur probably not financially stable for a kid .and if u are ..then good for you .but what about college .if u are going to college .then I don't think ur raising ur child most likely ur parents and if not .then ur sitting at home and .and also people think having a child at 18 is way to young or 19 . but did that stop u from having one ? no . and also if u are talking about safe sex .then practice it urself and then tell others . unless u actually wanted to have a child
Dennis Chaney
December 3rd, 2013, 09:12 PM
she was just born 2 months ago and it was planned so how about you kiss my ass? I love kids which is why I protect them not throw them in the line of fire.
DarkOmega
December 3rd, 2013, 09:20 PM
she was just born 2 months ago and it was planned so how about you kiss my ass? I love kids which is why I protect them not throw them in the line of fire.
well then happy late b-day(by which I try to say to u congratz ) to ur child .. and good luck .. I want to protect them to ..but at 13 some are more mature then others .. so all I;m saying is let them do what ever they want ..it doesn't affect u in any way . I don't want any kids until I'm at least 25 and if I have kids I want to be financially stable and know the person that I'm gonna have kids with pretty good since if I have kids I don't want them to grow up with only one parent ..if it was planned good for u and congratz .. but ur gonna have a hard time studying if ur going to college or working . I might be 15 .but I have been through a lot of shit and even if u don't believe me . I have been exposed to a lot of different situations so how about u just mind ur own business since u didn;t like when I stated that some people think 19 is way to young for a child .. u didn't like that huh ? it didn't stop u either ..so let them(people that actually agree on both sides that they want to have sex) have sex if that's what they want
ashdyn
December 4th, 2013, 03:15 AM
she was just born 2 months ago and it was planned so how about you kiss my ass? I love kids which is why I protect them not throw them in the line of fire.
You planned to have a kid at 19?! MY HEAD HURTS :what:
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