Liking this girl

[Ricko97]

I like this girl in my year who isn't the most popular person around and other boys think she is ugly but her personality is amazing and i dont think she is that bad looking either to be honest.

We got kinda close on a school trip when we went halfway around the world and it has grown on me that i actually enjoy spending time with her and talking to her etc. She would always choose me to sit next to on the coach etc. and even though it was just a stupid game, when playing who you would rather. we she had to pick a guy in the group to go out with or kiss etc. she picked me and she just gave me a look of happiness and a smile that i could of died for.

However, the word got out in school that we was spending a lot of time together on the trip doing work and just chilling and then people asked me if i liked her or not and in a panic ( i dont know why i was panicking but oh well) i said no so that nobody would laugh at me because it my school. if you have a relationship, its not between 2 people, half of the school get involved and their is a lot of sh*t stirring etc. which makes it messy. this is why i havent really had a relationship at my school because of all the trouble it can cause.

Now somebody told me that she felt awkward around me after she was asked etc. ( i dont know if she had said yes or no which is strange in my school because i would of found out within seconds usually) because she is a little bit shy and not the type of person having a relationship etc.

Oh and while on the trip, she and her friend was on my iPad and phone because i got so close to them i wasnt too bothered by them using it. And while they were on it they were looking through the pictures i had took while on the trip and they scrolled to the top where when messing around with my mates, we had print screened these pictures of these models and girls with limited clothing on and she wasnt happy in seeing those and she told me that she thought i was better than that etc. and she was a bit more reluctant to talk to me after and you could just feel that there was an awkwardness about it. The news got out when we got home about the picture and it spread in my school. Whether it was the girl i like or not i dont know but it meant i couldnt trust her as much and made me worry about whether she would tell anybody else about what we talked about in the trip if it was her in the first place.

I just wanted to know what i should do????

Thanks for any advice given :)

[TheBionicWorm]

I haven't really been in relationships. But if you like her I think you should tell her. She may feel that way too she may not, you won't know until you ask.

[Kuroseiryuu]

You care too much about your reputation appearance. You should just drop that and do what you want and feel. Screw gossipers, that means if they gossip about you, your life must be more exciting than theirs.

[Potato]

She likes you, try to organise dates for just you two, and ask her to keep it between you two and that you don't like public relationships.

[LouBerry]

I like this girl in my year who isn't the most popular person around and other boys think she is ugly but her personality is amazing and i dont think she is that bad looking either to be honest.

We got kinda close on a school trip when we went halfway around the world and it has grown on me that i actually enjoy spending time with her and talking to her etc. She would always choose me to sit next to on the coach etc. and even though it was just a stupid game, when playing who you would rather. we she had to pick a guy in the group to go out with or kiss etc. she picked me and she just gave me a look of happiness and a smile that i could of died for.

However, the word got out in school that we was spending a lot of time together on the trip doing work and just chilling and then people asked me if i liked her or not and in a panic ( i dont know why i was panicking but oh well) i said no so that nobody would laugh at me because it my school. if you have a relationship, its not between 2 people, half of the school get involved and their is a lot of sh*t stirring etc. which makes it messy. this is why i havent really had a relationship at my school because of all the trouble it can cause.

Now somebody told me that she felt awkward around me after she was asked etc. ( i dont know if she had said yes or no which is strange in my school because i would of found out within seconds usually) because she is a little bit shy and not the type of person having a relationship etc.

Oh and while on the trip, she and her friend was on my iPad and phone because i got so close to them i wasnt too bothered by them using it. And while they were on it they were looking through the pictures i had took while on the trip and they scrolled to the top where when messing around with my mates, we had print screened these pictures of these models and girls with limited clothing on and she wasnt happy in seeing those and she told me that she thought i was better than that etc. and she was a bit more reluctant to talk to me after and you could just feel that there was an awkwardness about it. The news got out when we got home about the picture and it spread in my school. Whether it was the girl i like or not i dont know but it meant i couldnt trust her as much and made me worry about whether she would tell anybody else about what we talked about in the trip if it was her in the first place.

I just wanted to know what i should do????

Thanks for any advice given :)

That girl does not deserve to be judged by some ignorant assholes. If you like her, tell her, date her, get on with it. If you are going to mess with her emotions and then not date her because your "friends' would laugh, then you are immensely too immature to be in a relationship, and you should definitely leave the poor girl alone.