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kylem
November 24th, 2013, 03:54 PM
Girls do you mostly just like guys for their looks, or do you like other things about a guy if he isn't cute and would possibly hang with them. And guys, do you like girls just for their looks, or do you like other things about girls and would hang with them even if they weren't really cute.

Harley Quinn
November 24th, 2013, 03:58 PM
P101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Waleedbt
November 24th, 2013, 05:17 PM
I hang out with both , everyone will say " personality first " but come on! Lets be honest.
I don't go for really beautiful, i love average with a great sense of humor! Someone who is not afraid of her flaws, someone confident! Always happy, but then again, ive never had a GF.
I love a girl that doesnt try hard to impress others, somone quiet, but when she does speak, its something worthy of saying lol, OH! And i like her to have that evil-funny deep down.
Girls are not ugly , god made them to be beautiful beings :) , i never thought of it any other way.

Paige Elizabeth
November 24th, 2013, 05:22 PM
The thing that attracts me the most to a guy is his personality. With that being said, even if he has a golden personality but is not of the same religion as me or doesn't support the same political party, I wouldn't be able to date him because that's just asking for trouble.

I would date a guy who is ugly but ha a great personality. When looking for a potiental boyfriend, it's 99% personality, 1% looks. :p

Living For Love
November 24th, 2013, 05:24 PM
I care more about personality, although I wouldn't date a girl if she hadn't any sense of self-care.

shotgungirl
November 24th, 2013, 05:44 PM
First impressions usually mean the world, and anyone who says that looks aren't an original factor...well, they might be fibbing a little bit.

That being said, I'd much rather have a decent looking, sweet guy that I can get along with than to have to deal with an asshole hottie who spends more time getting ready than I do.

Seemyheart
November 24th, 2013, 10:17 PM
Really, all I look for is someone with a great personality, regardless of looks. and if a guy is good looking, then it's a bonus. if not, that's perfectly okay too

Luminous
November 24th, 2013, 10:20 PM
dontcare

luq_
November 25th, 2013, 08:43 AM
Well, both?
If a girl is ugly, but has good personality, I wouldn't mind them as a friend. But as a gf? Nah.
On the other hand, if a girl's beautiful, but has awful personality, I wouldn't want her nor as a friend, nor as a gf.

Melodic
November 25th, 2013, 10:02 AM
Personality more than looks. And what attracts me in personality is someone who is sweet. has a sense of humor, someone who can make me smile, and is a fun and loving person.

Mich015
December 21st, 2013, 12:06 PM
I dont care about looks, unless its someone im going to sleep with i would obviously need to be sexually attracted to them.

Saint
December 21st, 2013, 05:33 PM
Looks do matter a tad bit,most of the time you'd go up and talk to a person to get their number/etc because they do look good. I've yet to see someone do that because of their personality,well unless they've known of each other before that. It's normal,the person who does looks good would most probably catch your eye before others.

That said,it doesn't mean good looks equivalate to a good personality,someone that you could be around and enjoy their company. It's really just a mix of both,but personality is definitely much more important.

dball37
December 21st, 2013, 09:28 PM
i'm a guy

The looks are important, but definitely not the only thing. my crush right now isn't the most attractive person in my school, but she is so much fun to be around.

WeAreOneRepublic
December 22nd, 2013, 10:52 PM
Looks is the bait and personality is the hook. Simple as that.

My gf at the moment is cute and 2 years older than me. See what personality does.

Austins
December 22nd, 2013, 11:11 PM
Well I personally will stay with a girl based on her personality, but I am not interested in dating some slob girl who is horribly put together. I take care of myself Hygiene and appearance wise, if she cannot do the same I wouldn't attempt to speak to her in the first place.

tmack1908
December 22nd, 2013, 11:14 PM
I think it is near impossible for looks to not play some part in determining whether you are attracted to someone, it's just part of the way people are hard wired. But certainly personality plays a role in whether I'd want to date a girl or not. Say a girl was drop dead gorgeous but was really rude and snotty, I couldn't see myself being with them for the long run.

HeyMrsTambourine
December 23rd, 2013, 09:07 AM
Both are important. But that's true the guy's personality can make the difference.
I could easier date someone I love for his personality, than someone who is only a "pretty-face-well-built-body".

mrmee
December 23rd, 2013, 12:12 PM
Im gonna be honest, I think looks are at least half.

scott757
December 25th, 2013, 08:54 PM
I LOVE a girl who is cute (in actions, personality etc) but if she isn't aslong as she is nice then go for it. She would need to atleast keep herself nice, in other words, not going about in old, smelly clothes, if she's not washed etc. Ofcourse looks are a factor but not the overall decider. WeAreOneRepublic summed it up perfectly "Looks is the bait and personality is the hook. Simple as that."