I consider myself straight but...

[dreamofdante]

I'd be willing to have sex with a man if it means I could get laid. Is this normal?

[Harley Quinn]

Well, I think that it's more your 'need' to have sex rather than you actually wanting to be a with a man. Which, yes is normal, however I do suggest that getting laid isn't exactly everything but if that's all you want to do then go ahead.

[dreamofdante]

Well, I think that it's more your 'need' to have sex rather than you actually wanting to be a with a man. Which, yes is normal, however I do suggest that getting laid isn't exactly everything but if that's all you want to do then go ahead.

I can't and that might be what's making it more extreme. Thanks for replying Kryptonite.

[Living For Love]

Perhaps you're saying that because you haven't get laid with a girl yet and you just feel that... need to be close to someone, wheather it's a girl or a guy, is that it? In that case, no, you can't consider yourself gay because of that.

[dreamofdante]

Perhaps you're saying that because you haven't get laid with a girl yet and you just feel that... need to be close to someone, wheather it's a girl or a guy, is that it? In that case, no, you can't consider yourself gay because of that.

Fair enough then.

[mermaidfairy]

Yeah, I think that maybe what you would be doing is satisfying a sexual urge, more than being attracted to the actual person. That doesn't necessarily make you gay, it just means you are satisfying the natural urges you may have.

[henry5331]

I'd be willing to have sex with a man if it means I could get laid. Is this normal?

Sorry, guy. I think you're just horny. Not really gay. :)

[Datguy1]

ur just horny and havent found the right girl yet so you would experiment with a guy to see what getting laid feels like

[Tarannosaurus]

I think it's just wanting to be sexually satisfied rather than wanting to be with a man. Yes it's normal. However, if you did get with a guy make sure he understands and that you don't accidentally end up hurting the other guy.

[rociomx]

you mean having a big penis inside your anus? o you inserting your penis in a male anus?

[fordgtguy]

dont do it if you aren't gay you will regret it big time

[Gifford]

I'd be willing to have sex with a man if it means I could get laid. Is this normal?

I think it's ok. If I were you and so horny and in need of feeling cared for and being close to someone, I'd do it. But it would depend on the person. They'd have to look decent, or attractive in some way, have a warm personality, be a nice person, and stuff like that. I couldn't do it with just any warm body. You're going to be very close in a physical way and I'd want the experience to be as positive as possible.

I'd suggest talking about it with the other person first, discuss what you'd like to do and have done to you and what you're willing to do to them. Make sure they know this is probably going to be a one-time thing. I say that because in another month if things in your life haven't changed & you haven't made contact with a suitable female, you could be in the same position again. But for now, let's just keep focused on today. Keep an open mind, try not to judge, go with the flow, enjoy the experience as much as you can (don't fight it and don't judge yourself or him!).

I'd suggest that when you get together for the experience, a good way to break the ice would be to shower together, wash each other so you both are comfortable the other one is clean, and dry each other off. This will be the least intimate you two will be while being together, and you can ease into feeling comfortable with him naked.

Have you anyone in mind for this experience? If so, have you discussed it at all? If not, you've got your work cut out for you. I've already written quite a bit, so I'll leave the rest up to you. Feel free to write me separately and I'll try to help.

All the best -