I think I'm going to die alone

[dreamofdante]

I've been called ugly for the past 8 years and by now, I fully agree with whenever someone says it. I'm going to be 18 on New Years Eve and I have yet to kiss or date a girl. I've been rejected more than I can remember and I have countless issues. My body looks rough, my face isn't that attractive, my hair style is hard to make look good, I'm on the shy side, my penis is small, and I've got a strange sense of humor. The only good things about me would be how nice I am to everyone and how I'm willing to do anything for anyone but in the end this makes people walk over me. So I don't know. I've been considering suicide for a long time...I'm running out of options...I can try to show everyone a pic if you need one...

[mrpieface2]

Who cares about what they have to say? Your not going to die alone, don't kill yoursf. Youll find someone

[dreamofdante]

Who cares about what they have to say? Your not going to die alone, don't kill yoursf. Youll find someone

I think I care more or less about the fact that it's a majority of people and not just a few. I don't care so much about the individuals as much as I care about it all coming together. Women really don't find me attractive at all.

[mrpieface2]

Try to find a woman that cares more about personality other than looks. I don't think it's right if they just care about looks. It's wrong and mean

[dreamofdante]

Try to find a woman that cares more about personality other than looks. I don't think it's right if they just care about looks. It's wrong and mean

I agree with you there and I'm really struggling with it. No one seems to give me a chance. I give many unattractive women a chance but even they don't see through me. I've tried so hard and it's really getting to me.

[mrpieface2]

Just be yourself, if you can show a girl how nice you are, and maybe you'll find someone! Good luck my friend! :)

[dreamofdante]

Just be yourself, if you can show a girl how nice you are, and maybe you'll find someone! Good luck my friend! :)

Thanks. I appreciate your replies, man!

[midnight424]

time will tell and believe me i wish it would hurry its butt up like alot but you have to be patient and just be friends with people before anything to think i dated my best friend because we fell for each other and we would still be together if we went somewhere in our relationship. You need to understand alot of people dont give people chances just because they don't want to be hurt.

[dreamofdante]

time will tell and believe me i wish it would hurry its butt up like alot but you have to be patient and just be friends with people before anything to think i dated my best friend because we fell for each other and we would still be together if we went somewhere in our relationship. You need to understand alot of people dont give people chances just because they don't want to be hurt.

I hear what you're saying. I'm really faithful though and I think a lot of people can tell I wouldn't hurt them. That's just the way I am. I have a moral code and I stand by it. I would never hurt a woman unless she hurt me first. I would never hit a woman either.

[Waleedbt]

Dude! Dont ever think that way, why would you even think of suicide just because you cant that someone? You shouldnt.
Trust me man, ive been used and been walked over by many people, but i dont care, i feel good about making someone happy.
Im 18 , never kissed , never dated even! , never had a Girl friend.
I would like to have one though, but my main goal is my life, what will i do with it? How good will i want to live. I think about how much i need to do to myself than to actually start being with someone that we will leave each other anyway sooner or later. Or someone that will distract me and possibly use me.

Believe in yourself, you will meet that someone, lose being shy , shyness will get you no where in life. ( thats what my dad always says to me lol )

[dreamofdante]

Dude! Dont ever think that way, why would you even think of suicide just because you cant that someone? You shouldnt.
Trust me man, ive been used and been walked over by many people, but i dont care, i feel good about making someone happy.
Im 18 , never kissed , never dated even! , never had a Girl friend.
I would like to have one though, but my main goal is my life, what will i do with it? How good will i want to live. I think about how much i need to do to myself than to actually start being with someone that we will leave each other anyway sooner or later. Or someone that will distract me and possibly use me.

Believe in yourself, you will meet that someone, lose being shy , shyness will get you no where in life. ( thats what my dad always says to me lol )

Thanks for having faith in me man. You're a handsome guy so it's inevitable for you to find someone. :) I just want to know that it'll happen at least eventually.

[Blood]

I've been called ugly for the past 8 years and by now, I fully agree with whenever someone says it. I'm going to be 18 on New Years Eve and I have yet to kiss or date a girl. I've been rejected more than I can remember and I have countless issues. My body looks rough, my face isn't that attractive, my hair style is hard to make look good, I'm on the shy side, my penis is small, and I've got a strange sense of humor. The only good things about me would be how nice I am to everyone and how I'm willing to do anything for anyone but in the end this makes people walk over me. So I don't know. I've been considering suicide for a long time...I'm running out of options...I can try to show everyone a pic if you need one...

Oh my gosh. It makes me so sad to read this.

Suicide isn't the answer and it never is. You sound like a nice guy, really, and you shouldn't be saying these things about yourself. And you know what? FUCK what other people say. Other people are cruel. They're wrong for calling you ugly when most likely they're the ugly ones for being so mean. Beauty is so much more than mere looks. Beauty is having a good heart and loving people, and treating people nicely. Rejection is a part of life, ya know? Don't let it get you down. You just have to move on. You'll find someone who loves you for you and who finds you beautiful, so don't sweat it. Being 18 and never having a girlfriend or anything isn't bad at all. I bet you're not half as bad as you think you are. Just keep your head up and keep a smile on your face. :)

[dreamofdante]

Oh my gosh. It makes me so sad to read this.

Suicide isn't the answer and it never is. You sound like a nice guy, really, and you shouldn't be saying these things about yourself. And you know what? FUCK what other people say. Other people are cruel. They're wrong for calling you ugly when most likely they're the ugly ones for being so mean. Beauty is so much more than mere looks. Beauty is having a good heart and loving people, and treating people nicely. Rejection is a part of life, ya know? Don't let it get you down. You just have to move on. You'll find someone who loves you for you and who finds you beautiful, so don't sweat it. Being 18 and never having a girlfriend or anything isn't bad at all. I bet you're not half as bad as you think you are. Just keep your head up and keep a smile on your face. :)

Aww thank you so much. You're really sweet Jess! Tonight I've been wondering how I'll live to see 20 if I know I'll never find anyone and it makes me feel good to know there's sweet women out there like you.

[sqishy]

I've been called ugly for the past 8 years and by now, I fully agree with whenever someone says it. I'm going to be 18 on New Years Eve and I have yet to kiss or date a girl. I've been rejected more than I can remember and I have countless issues. My body looks rough, my face isn't that attractive, my hair style is hard to make look good, I'm on the shy side, my penis is small, and I've got a strange sense of humor. The only good things about me would be how nice I am to everyone and how I'm willing to do anything for anyone but in the end this makes people walk over me. So I don't know. I've been considering suicide for a long time...I'm running out of options...I can try to show everyone a pic if you need one...

I'm 18 in 6 days and have not kissed anyone yet. I'm waiting for the right person, and I am ok with that. Beauty is subjective. Don't think of suicide. There really is someone out there who would love you if they came across you - and vice versa.

[dreamofdante]

I'm 18 in 6 days and have not kissed anyone yet. I'm waiting for the right person, and I am ok with that. Beauty is subjective. Don't think of suicide. There really is someone out there who would love you if they came across you - and vice versa.

I really hope so. I think you don't have to worry though. :)

[Luminous]

One day, you are going to meet someone perfect. That someone is going to look past all the horrible words said about you, and is going to see beautiful, perfect, pure you. That person is going to fall in love with your 'strange sense of humor' and understand it, is going to care less about the size of your penis, but instead is going to see you for your beautiful self. It's hard to think about that and sometimes it seems like it will never happen, but it will. There are millions of single people in this world and someone is out there for you. This article is from 2010 but that's fairly recent for a study like this: http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/08/19/single.in.america/ That's America, I'm not sure where you live, sorry. Please remember this.

[dreamofdante]

One day, you are going to meet someone perfect. That someone is going to look past all the horrible words said about you, and is going to see beautiful, perfect, pure you. That person is going to fall in love with your 'strange sense of humor' and understand it, is going to care less about the size of your penis, but instead is going to see you for your beautiful self. It's hard to think about that and sometimes it seems like it will never happen, but it will. There are millions of single people in this world and someone is out there for you. This article is from 2010 but that's fairly recent for a study like this: http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/08/19/single.in.america/ That's America, I'm not sure where you live, sorry. Please remember this.

Thank you so much Hannah! :D I really hope you're right. I am from America. I wish someone would want me for me...

[Synyster Shadows]

You won't die alone. I thought for the longest time that I'd be forever alone. 2 weeks ago, I met the girl of my dreams and managed to talk to her and we're happy (as happy as possible while being 3,000 miles apart). If I can do it, you can too. I know this is cliché but keep your head up and show how nice you are to girls. That will attract someone eventually.

[dreamofdante]

You won't die alone. I thought for the longest time that I'd be forever alone. 2 weeks ago, I met the girl of my dreams and managed to talk to her and we're happy (as happy as possible while being 3,000 miles apart). If I can do it, you can too. I know this is cliché but keep your head up and show how nice you are to girls. That will attract someone eventually.

Thanks man and I'm happy to hear of your success. I hope things work out for you man. I hope everything works out for everyone.

[Luminous]

Thank you so much Hannah! :D I really hope you're right. I am from America. I wish someone would want me for me...
Please don't worry, one day someone will. If you ever want to talk, feel free to VM me, okay?

[dreamofdante]

Please don't worry, one day someone will. If you ever want to talk, feel free to VM me, okay?

Aww thank you. I really appreciate it. I probably will VM you at some point. You're really nice Hannah! Thank you :)

[Luminous]

Aww thank you. I really appreciate it. I probably will VM you at some point. You're really nice Hannah! Thank you :)

You are very, very welcome. Have a wonderful day. xo Hannah

[dreamofdante]

You are very, very welcome. Have a wonderful day. xo Hannah

You too Hannah :)

[Living For Love]

Believe me, I know a lot of guys who aren't attractive at all but somehow managed to get a girlfriend, and not just a random a girl, their girlfriends are really really attractive. And you know why that happened? Because those girls are really good people and they don't care about the looks only, they care about personality too. Please don't commit suicide, it just won't fix the problem, I'm sure there's a girl out there who wants to know more about you and have a relationship with you. Just wait, be patient, and don't try to rush things.

[mrpieface2]

Believe me, I know a lot of guys who aren't attractive at all but somehow managed to get a girlfriend, and not just a random a girl, their girlfriends are really really attractive. And you know why that happened? Because those girls are really good people and they don't care about the looks only, they care about personality too. Please don't commit suicide, it just won't fix the problem, I'm sure there's a girl out there who wants to know more about you and have a relationship with you. Just wait, be patient, and don't try to rush things.

Exactly! You'll find someone man, just find someone with common interests and see what happens from there

[deregisterme]

I've been called ugly for the past 8 years and by now, I fully agree with whenever someone says it. I'm going to be 18 on New Years Eve and I have yet to kiss or date a girl. I've been rejected more than I can remember and I have countless issues. My body looks rough, my face isn't that attractive, my hair style is hard to make look good, I'm on the shy side, my penis is small, and I've got a strange sense of humor. The only good things about me would be how nice I am to everyone and how I'm willing to do anything for anyone but in the end this makes people walk over me. So I don't know. I've been considering suicide for a long time...I'm running out of options...I can try to show everyone a pic if you need one...

You're still young. Relationships take time. I'm 17, still single and never really done anything either. I know it's strange sometimes reading here, that so many have done things so young, but there are as many people that haven't done things yet. You (and I) have your whole life to come yet.

[dreamofdante]

You're still young. Relationships take time. I'm 17, still single and never really done anything either. I know it's strange sometimes reading here, that so many have done things so young, but there are as many people that haven't done things yet. You (and I) have your whole life to come yet.

I'm sure you'll be fine. It's me I'm worried about. :)

Believe me, I know a lot of guys who aren't attractive at all but somehow managed to get a girlfriend, and not just a random a girl, their girlfriends are really really attractive. And you know why that happened? Because those girls are really good people and they don't care about the looks only, they care about personality too. Please don't commit suicide, it just won't fix the problem, I'm sure there's a girl out there who wants to know more about you and have a relationship with you. Just wait, be patient, and don't try to rush things.

Thanks. I wish I could be more positive like you. I hope something good will eventually come my way and I know it.

[Mikedamaniak]

People in your situation deserve to be loved more that anyone else. There are morons out there who get followed around by 10 girls at once, take it for granted and don't get a lot enjoyment from it, and don't need it or deserve it. Don't worry, soon you'll find someone really open mined, maybe hangs out with more popular people, but keeps it in the back of their mind that they're morons, and decides to love you instead.

keep in mind that a strange sense of humor is a good sign of intelligence. Most people nowadays just laugh at internet memes and other random stuff, but you probably see the stupidity in everything and laugh at it. Humor is something that kept us alive in the caveman days. When you did something smart that saved someones life or prevented injury, you would laugh at it, enjoy it, and seek it again.

[Datguy1]

dont worry man u will eventually find someone

[isaiah1038]

I know how you feel bro. I deal with the exact same thing (except for my penis and my hair which are my two redeeming qualities lol). You just need to either get a different mindset or accept who you are. I did the latter and I feel a bit better about myself.

My motto:
Opinions are like assholes.
Everybody's got one and they all stink.

Good luck.

[fordgtguy]

See man i see a lot of new posts about this that you have posted thats one problem right there you think about it 24/7 and worry to much about "a girl". Having a girl doesent mean everything im far from wanting a girl and you know that cause i have talked to you in the past and will continue to support you and make sure that nothing happens because you seem like a chill dude. Just hang in there everything will come together and then you will think all this was stupid trust me

[dreamofdante]

People in your situation deserve to be loved more that anyone else. There are morons out there who get followed around by 10 girls at once, take it for granted and don't get a lot enjoyment from it, and don't need it or deserve it. Don't worry, soon you'll find someone really open mined, maybe hangs out with more popular people, but keeps it in the back of their mind that they're morons, and decides to love you instead.

keep in mind that a strange sense of humor is a good sign of intelligence. Most people nowadays just laugh at internet memes and other random stuff, but you probably see the stupidity in everything and laugh at it. Humor is something that kept us alive in the caveman days. When you did something smart that saved someones life or prevented injury, you would laugh at it, enjoy it, and seek it again.

Thank you man...I agree so much with you. Especially the first paragraph. Not many people say that either.

dont worry man u will eventually find someone

I hope so...

I know how you feel bro. I deal with the exact same thing (except for my penis and my hair which are my two redeeming qualities lol). You just need to either get a different mindset or accept who you are. I did the latter and I feel a bit better about myself.

My motto:
Opinions are like assholes.
Everybody's got one and they all stink.

Good luck.

Yeah maybe so man...

See man i see a lot of new posts about this that you have posted thats one problem right there you think about it 24/7 and worry to much about "a girl". Having a girl doesent mean everything im far from wanting a girl and you know that cause i have talked to you in the past and will continue to support you and make sure that nothing happens because you seem like a chill dude. Just hang in there everything will come together and then you will think all this was stupid trust me

Yeah and I appreciate you supporting me. It isn't easy...You're one away from me PMing you man.

[fordgtguy]

Yeah and I appreciate you supporting me. It isn't easy...You're one away from me PMing you man.

Well go for it now lol

[BookSmart]

Hey, I only just met you a few days ago, but I think you're a very nice person. Anyone who doesn't like you is probably shallow, a jerk, and really doesn't know what a great person their missing out on getting to know. Appearances are just that; they're how things seem to be on the outside, but they're just the surface. People should really learn they can't judge a book by it's cover. On top of that, I don't even think you're bad looking! You're a wonderful person, and I guarantee you won't die alone!

[dreamofdante]

Hey, I only just met you a few days ago, but I think you're a very nice person. Anyone who doesn't like you is probably shallow, a jerk, and really doesn't know what a great person their missing out on getting to know. Appearances are just that; they're how things seem to be on the outside, but they're just the surface. People should really learn they can't judge a book by it's cover. On top of that, I don't even think you're bad looking! You're a wonderful person, and I guarantee you won't die alone!

Thank you! :) You're sweet. I appreciate this a lot! Especially since you just met me. I have a really high opinion from you as it is :D And I'm not ignoring you. The mods keep removing my VMs to you. I don't know why....

[skiman]

Jack,
You're the most honest person I know on VT. That's pho sho. Now here's the thing. If you commit suicide, the sad truth is, yup, you're gonna die alone... Your personality is amazing, and I do want to meet you in person. Everyone out there has their someone, I can guarantee that. You just haven't found yours yet. You know, not having yet dated someone at age 18 is not actually that uncommon. I know you'll find someone, hopefully soon. I found my someone, and she's not the prettiest girl in the whole school... But her personality is awesome, and even though she's weird, like your sense of humor may or may not be, (by weird, I mean she sometimes eats paper, and carries around a container of margarita salt to munch on) she is the only person in my school I'd ever be willing to date, and the only one that I see would be a practical person to marry :). Also, you need to know the following. People date a lot of people before they find their someone. They'll end up dating handsome people that look cool on the outside, but are really dirtbags on the inside. After getting enough shit from these dirtbags, they'll turn to practical, stable people like you, and realize that you're the one they shoulda been dating the whole time. Don't give up no matter what, ever ever ever. You're a great guy, and I know, (not hope) I know that you'll find someone soon.

[dreamofdante]

Jack,
You're the most honest person I know on VT. That's pho sho. Now here's the thing. If you commit suicide, the sad truth is, yup, you're gonna die alone... Your personality is amazing, and I do want to meet you in person. Everyone out there has their someone, I can guarantee that. You just haven't found yours yet. You know, not having yet dated someone at age 18 is not actually that uncommon. I know you'll find someone, hopefully soon. I found my someone, and she's not the prettiest girl in the whole school... But her personality is awesome, and even though she's weird, like your sense of humor may or may not be, (by weird, I mean she sometimes eats paper, and carries around a container of margarita salt to munch on) she is the only person in my school I'd ever be willing to date, and the only one that I see would be a practical person to marry :). Also, you need to know the following. People date a lot of people before they find their someone. They'll end up dating handsome people that look cool on the outside, but are really dirtbags on the inside. After getting enough shit from these dirtbags, they'll turn to practical, stable people like you, and realize that you're the one they shoulda been dating the whole time. Don't give up no matter what, ever ever ever. You're a great guy, and I know, (not hope) I know that you'll find someone soon.

You're a really great person...This was such a moving post and having read this I myself do want to meet you in person as well. I'm looking for the one who I can tell 100% is the one for me but at the same time, it seems like she doesn't exist. The person I've met closest to my personality and tastes is a guy and I'm not gay so it wouldn't work. There's so much about me that she'd have to be okay with.

[skiman]

You're a really great person...This was such a moving post and having read this I myself do want to meet you in person as well. I'm looking for the one who I can tell 100% is the one for me but at the same time, it seems like she doesn't exist. The person I've met closest to my personality and tastes is a guy and I'm not gay so it wouldn't work. There's so much about me that she'd have to be okay with.

Jack I promise she exists. And by the way, though I'd love to meet you, it might be slightly awkward considering you're four years older than me. In the meantime, I will work to get to 100 posts, and once I get there, I'll pm you and we can trade advice and such. Thanks bro! I believe in you!

[BookSmart]

Thank you! :) You're sweet. I appreciate this a lot! Especially since you just met me. I have a really high opinion from you as it is :D And I'm not ignoring you. The mods keep removing my VMs to you. I don't know why....

Well thank you, but what I said is [email protected] Also, don't worry I don't think you're ignoring me. Sometimes websites can be weird, so it's not your fault the messages are getting removed! Oh, and just so you know, I think pretty highly of you too sir:)!

[dreamofdante]

Jack I promise she exists. And by the way, though I'd love to meet you, it might be slightly awkward considering you're four years older than me. In the meantime, I will work to get to 100 posts, and once I get there, I'll pm you and we can trade advice and such. Thanks bro! I believe in you!

No matter though. You seem like a great guy. Thank you man. I look forward to talking to you here soon when you get 100 posts :D

[dreamofdante]

Well thank you, but what I said is [email protected] Also, don't worry I don't think you're ignoring me. Sometimes websites can be weird, so it's not your fault the messages are getting removed! Oh, and just so you know, I think pretty highly of you too sir:)!

Aww thank you :D When you get to 100 posts we can definitely talk more. I really want to. You're such an interesting person and you're a writer. We could probably talk for hours haha.

[BookSmart]

Aww thank you :D When you get to 100 posts we can definitely talk more. I really want to. You're such an interesting person and you're a writer. We could probably talk for hours haha.

We probably could talk for hours! I'll never get any of my homework done if that happens O_o. I still have to get to 100 posts before I have to worry about that though!

[dreamofdante]

We probably could talk for hours! I'll never get any of my homework done if that happens O_o. I still have to get to 100 posts before I have to worry about that though!

I'm actually looking forward to it. We could swing ideas off each other all the time and for hours hahahaha. But I'd make sure your homework gets done :)

[BookSmart]

I'm actually looking forward to it. We could swing ideas off each other all the time and for hours hahahaha. But I'd make sure your homework gets done :)

I'm really good at procrastinating (I sort of am right now:whoops:) so I could definitely use someone t tell me to do my homework! You don't know what you just got yourself into!:biggrin2:

[dreamofdante]

I'm really good at procrastinating (I sort of am right now:whoops:) so I could definitely use someone t tell me to do my homework! You don't know what you just got yourself into!:biggrin2:

Haha you want me to tell you to do your homework?

[BookSmart]

Haha you want me to tell you to do your homework?
Yep :yes:! Don't be afraid to use all caps either! I'm okay for tonight, but come tomorrow...

[dreamofdante]

Yep :yes:! Don't be afraid to use all caps either! I'm okay for tonight, but come tomorrow...

How about this...GET TO 100 POSTS SO I CAN PM YOU!!!!! Hahahahaha :P

[BookSmart]

How about this...GET TO 100 POSTS SO I CAN PM YOU!!!!! Hahahahaha :P

Yeah, like that! Caps are very effective! Also, don't worry about the 100 posts, if we keep posting on this thread every few minutes, I'm sure I'll reach 100 posts no problem! Except I actually want to go to bed now...so I will talk with you tomorrow!

[dreamofdante]

Yeah, like that! Caps are very effective! Also, don't worry about the 100 posts, if we keep posting on this thread every few minutes, I'm sure I'll reach 100 posts no problem! Except I actually want to go to bed now...so I will talk with you tomorrow!

I want to go to bed too. Goodnight! :D

[SmokyChica]

You aren't going to die alone. There is someone for everyone out there, I promise you. Maybe people say you're ugly, but don't believe them. Someone you meet will find you incredibly attractive and they will see all the good in you. Don't kill yourself. That's giving up and admitting defeat and showing everyone who has called you ugly that they are right. And you don't want them to win. Instead, you want to get that girl that's going to be head over heels for you and prove all of them wrong. Don't give up, you will find someone, I promise. Don't give up yet. You're only eighteen, you still have your life ahead, you will meet someone. I promise.

[dreamofdante]

You aren't going to die alone. There is someone for everyone out there, I promise you. Maybe people say you're ugly, but don't believe them. Someone you meet will find you incredibly attractive and they will see all the good in you. Don't kill yourself. That's giving up and admitting defeat and showing everyone who has called you ugly that they are right. And you don't want them to win. Instead, you want to get that girl that's going to be head over heels for you and prove all of them wrong. Don't give up, you will find someone, I promise. Don't give up yet. You're only eighteen, you still have your life ahead, you will meet someone. I promise.

Thank you. I really hope that you're right...

[BookSmart]

I want to go to bed too. Goodnight! :D
I hope you slept well. I woke up and found out I have a snow day today! I also looked and saw I only need 25 more posts (except after this It'll be 24). I just feel bad like I'm cheating by writing this post. I won't get in trouble, will ? Anyways, I hope you're doing good today!

[dreamofdante]

I hope you slept well. I woke up and found out I have a snow day today! I also looked and saw I only need 25 more posts (except after this It'll be 24). I just feel bad like I'm cheating by writing this post. I won't get in trouble, will ? Anyways, I hope you're doing good today!

Good morning! I hope you slept well too! :D I'm snowed in so I'll likely be here all day. You're sooooooo close!

[BookSmart]

Good morning! I hope you slept well too! :D I'm snowed in so I'll likely be here all day. You're sooooooo close!

So...so close! Where do you live (not trying to be creepy)? How much snow is it that you have? Yesterday I was iced in (my driveway is a hill on a private drive that's a hill and yesterday everything was covered in a sheet of ice, to the point where I had to miss school because I couldn't safely leave my house O_o)

[dreamofdante]

So...so close! Where do you live (not trying to be creepy)? How much snow is it that you have? Yesterday I was iced in (my driveway is a hill on a private drive that's a hill and yesterday everything was covered in a sheet of ice, to the point where I had to miss school because I couldn't safely leave my house O_o)

I live in southern Pennsylvania and we're supposed to get up to five inches today haha. Aww! I'm sorry! I have to probably go out and shovel when the snow slows down...

[BookSmart]

I live in southern Pennsylvania and we're supposed to get up to five inches today haha. Aww! I'm sorry! I have to probably go out and shovel when the snow slows down...

It's not your fault my driveway was icy! And uhg...shoveling. My twin has some medical stuff so she doesn't have to shovel and my little sister will make up and excuse...that leaves shoveling to me :(. I'm too wimpy to shovel! I should just stay inside all day! I really have no arm muscle. Oh gosh, I apologize I started freaking out and giving you excuses for why I shouldn't shovel. That doesn't even make sense, because you're not the one I'd have to convince anyways!

[dreamofdante]

It's not your fault my driveway was icy! And uhg...shoveling. My twin has some medical stuff so she doesn't have to shovel and my little sister will make up and excuse...that leaves shoveling to me :(. I'm too wimpy to shovel! I should just stay inside all day! I really have no arm muscle. Oh gosh, I apologize I started freaking out and giving you excuses for why I shouldn't shovel. That doesn't even make sense, because you're not the one I'd have to convince anyways!

If I knew where you lived, I'd come and shovel. I didn't really mind it yesterday. When I started, I just didn't stop haha.

[BookSmart]

If I knew where you lived, I'd come and shovel. I didn't really mind it yesterday. When I started, I just didn't stop haha.

Lol I wouldn't mind you coming and shoveling for me! I'd just need to figure out how to pay you back somehow...I'm not good at anything except writng and singing O_o. Ah well! I used to like snow, but then I realized that someone had to shovel it.

[dreamofdante]

Lol I wouldn't mind you coming and shoveling for me! I'd just need to figure out how to pay you back somehow...I'm not good at anything except writng and singing O_o. Ah well! I used to like snow, but then I realized that someone had to shovel it.

You don't have to do anything. I'd do it for free :)

[BookSmart]

You don't have to do anything. I'd do it for free :)
:) You are currently my favorite person! Too bad you live in Pennsylvania and I live in Connecticut. I guess we could be farther away though, so it's really not that bad. Who knows, maybe I'll come to Pennsylvania sometime!

[dreamofdante]

:) You are currently my favorite person! Too bad you live in Pennsylvania and I live in Connecticut. I guess we could be farther away though, so it's really not that bad. Who knows, maybe I'll come to Pennsylvania sometime!

Haha thank you! You should come down sometime for sure! You could stay here if you wanted. I'll be shooting my films in 2014-2015. It would be awesome if you stopped by! I've heard Connecticut is expensive.

[BookSmart]

Haha thank you! You should come down sometime for sure! You could stay here if you wanted. I'll be shooting my films in 2014-2015. It would be awesome if you stopped by! I've heard Connecticut is expensive.

Connecticut is very expensive, luckily I'm not the one paying the bill..yet! I would love to come visit, but I'm not sure how I would explain that to my parents. I think you're great, but my parents don't really trust the internet that much. They'd think it would be dangerous to have me meet up with someone I met online, especially if it's a boy. That's just how my parents are :(. If I can think of a way to somehow get to Pennsylvania, then by all means I will go there!

[dreamofdante]

Connecticut is very expensive, luckily I'm not the one paying the bill..yet! I would love to come visit, but I'm not sure how I would explain that to my parents. I think you're great, but my parents don't really trust the internet that much. They'd think it would be dangerous to have me meet up with someone I met online, especially if it's a boy. That's just how my parents are :(. If I can think of a way to somehow get to Pennsylvania, then by all means I will go there!

Haha yeah I hear you. I don't blame you for thinking it's dangerous. If I can help prove myself in any way I will. If not, then I hope you can come down some other time :D

[BookSmart]

Haha yeah I hear you. I don't blame you for thinking it's dangerous. If I can help prove myself in any way I will. If not, then I hope you can come down some other time :D

I don't think it'd be dangerous meeting you, because I'm generally good at trusting the right people, but the internet is the internet. That'd be cool if we could meet up during the Summer. It's too cold now for me to even think about leaving my house! It's not too cold for breakfast though, and with that said I will now go and eat some waffles:D.

[dreamofdante]

I don't think it'd be dangerous meeting you, because I'm generally good at trusting the right people, but the internet is the internet. That'd be cool if we could meet up during the Summer. It's too cold now for me to even think about leaving my house! It's not too cold for breakfast though, and with that said I will now go and eat some waffles:D.

Haha! We'll probably be shooting the first film during the summer so there you go. Enjoy your waffles!

[BookSmart]

Haha! We'll probably be shooting the first film during the summer so there you go. Enjoy your waffles!

They were really tasty! While I was eating them I looked outside at the snow and boy is it coming down!:eek:

[dreamofdante]

They were really tasty! While I was eating them I looked outside at the snow and boy is it coming down!:eek:

Well your tummy is warmed up now and you won't be going anywhere. I probably have to shovel though hahahahaha

[BookSmart]

Well your tummy is warmed up now and you won't be going anywhere. I probably have to shovel though hahahahaha

Snow is cold :( I'm sorry you have to shovel it. At least you can have tea or hot chocolate when you come inside!

[dreamofdante]

Snow is cold :( I'm sorry you have to shovel it. At least you can have tea or hot chocolate when you come inside!

Haha we don't have any :(

[BookSmart]

Haha we don't have any :(
No warm beverges:eek:! What has this world come to?

[dreamofdante]

No warm beverges:eek:! What has this world come to?

I just got done shoveling a bit ago...The house is hot as hell so I'm alright...Lol...How are you?

[BookSmart]

I just got done shoveling a bit ago...The house is hot as hell so I'm alright...Lol...How are you?

I'm still inside...wearing my footie pjs. It's still snowing out! At least it's not coming down as hard! Guess what? After this I only need 9 more posts. I've been trying really hard! What a wonderful way to spend a snow day. I did some writing too, but this is much more interesting at the moment!

[dreamofdante]

I'm still inside...wearing my footie pjs. It's still snowing out! At least it's not coming down as hard! Guess what? After this I only need 9 more posts. I've been trying really hard! What a wonderful way to spend a snow day. I did some writing too, but this is much more interesting at the moment!

You're sooooooo cloooooooooose!!!! I can't wait to read your writing :)

[BookSmart]

You're sooooooo cloooooooooose!!!! I can't wait to read your writing :)

And then we don't have to keep using this thread to talk! I still feel guilty for straying so far from the original topic:whoops:

[dreamofdante]

And then we don't have to keep using this thread to talk! I still feel guilty for straying so far from the original topic:whoops:

I don't even care anymore. As depressed as I usually am, there'll be another thread like this soon anyway haha.

[BookSmart]

I don't even care anymore. As depressed as I usually am, there'll be another thread like this soon anyway haha.

I guess there will be another thread like this soon. It'd be nice if they could all end with the original poster just having a semi-random conversation with a friend instead of continuing to be sad! I have made you feel at least a little happier, right? That's not the only reason I talk to you, but it would be nice if I helped anyways. I've had a few people here n VT help me through some rough patches, and I hope that I can help other people too!

[dreamofdante]

I guess there will be another thread like this soon. It'd be nice if they could all end with the original poster just having a semi-random conversation with a friend instead of continuing to be sad! I have made you feel at least a little happier, right? That's not the only reason I talk to you, but it would be nice if I helped anyways. I've had a few people here n VT help me through some rough patches, and I hope that I can help other people too!

Talking to nice people really helps sometimes. It distracts me. But sometimes I'm in a really dark place where it seems like nothing can be said. I love talking to you a lot though. I always look forward to it. I'm extremely glad that I met you.

[BookSmart]

Talking to nice people really helps sometimes. It distracts me. But sometimes I'm in a really dark place where it seems like nothing can be said. I love talking to you a lot though. I always look forward to it. I'm extremely glad that I met you.

I'm glad I met you too! I really get what you mean about how talking to people helps, especially after keeping it bottled up for so long. I don't know if I'm depressed, for all I know I could be, but I've had an eating disorder for about two years. I've recently started talking to someone on VT that's inspired me to try and recover. I don't know how well it will work and really I'm not sure if I'll ever fully recover, but I'm not getting worse. I've been eating pretty normally too, and my self image has even improved a little. All of that came from talking to someone!

[dreamofdante]

I'm glad I met you too! I really get what you mean about how talking to people helps, especially after keeping it bottled up for so long. I don't know if I'm depressed, for all I know I could be, but I've had an eating disorder for about two years. I've recently started talking to someone on VT that's inspired me to try and recover. I don't know how well it will work and really I'm not sure if I'll ever fully recover, but I'm not getting worse. I've been eating pretty normally too, and my self image has even improved a little. All of that came from talking to someone!

Well I'm glad to hear it :) You never seem to have noticeable issues talking to me so I would say you're fine socially. And you look fine so I wouldn't worry about your self image. Just stay on track :) My problem is depression and self hatred mixed together. So it's really destructive...

[BookSmart]

Well I'm glad to hear it :) You never seem to have noticeable issues talking to me so I would say you're fine socially. And you look fine so I wouldn't worry about your self image. Just stay on track :) My problem is depression and self hatred mixed together. So it's really destructive...

Self hatred hurts :( It's one of the reasons I have an ED. Thanks for the compliment, it really means a lot. Now I just need to work on believing it myself. I think you should try and work accepting yourself too, because I've realized it's not others opinions of us that count, but our opinions of ourselves. I know it's easier said then done, and sometimes I feel really hypocritical by saying things like that, but it's the truth.I think you're socially sound as well by the way. You and I seem to have no problem getting along!

[dreamofdante]

Self hatred hurts :( It's one of the reasons I have an ED. Thanks for the compliment, it really means a lot. Now I just need to work on believing it myself. I think you should try and work accepting yourself too, because I've realized it's not others opinions of us that count, but our opinions of ourselves. I know it's easier said then done, and sometimes I feel really hypocritical by saying things like that, but it's the truth.I think you're socially sound as well by the way. You and I seem to have no problem getting along!

Yeah I like you though and I think we have a good bit in common. And I hate bringing up things like this unless I'm really hurting. Maybe you can understand that. When I talk negative it's a cry for help basically.

[BookSmart]

Yeah I like you though and I think we have a good bit in common. And I hate bringing up things like this unless I'm really hurting. Maybe you can understand that. When I talk negative it's a cry for help basically.
I'm sorry :( I'm not hurting you am I? I think it's good that you make posts like this though. I have a habit of putting on a fake smile and bottling things up; in the short term it works, but in the long run it makes things worse. I'm past 100 now by the way! So I am ready to PM you. I just felt like I needed to respond to this one first.

[Thatoldtruck]

Don't let people's words get you down. Talk to some guys you know can get a girl. Ask them what worked for them. One thing to think about is what is the style in your part of the country. In my neck of the woods, any guy with game, a sense of humor, and a truck she can drive gets you noticed.Ask them if they can introduce you to a single girl they know that might have something in common with you. If you have game, you can get a girl. You can be the ugliest sadsack on the planet, but anyone with game and a little sense of humor can get a date. You will find someone.

[dreamofdante]

Don't let people's words get you down. Talk to some guys you know can get a girl. Ask them what worked for them. One thing to think about is what is the style in your part of the country. In my neck of the woods, any guy with game, a sense of humor, and a truck she can drive gets you noticed.Ask them if they can introduce you to a single girl they know that might have something in common with you. If you have game, you can get a girl. You can be the ugliest sadsack on the planet, but anyone with game and a little sense of humor can get a date. You will find someone.

I honestly don't know anyone...I don't have many friends.

[Thatoldtruck]

Ask friends of friends. Try to make friends. I actually made some friends one day at a water park. We started out by a challenge to see who could get down the three story high water slide faster. Then we started walking around to different rides and we sorta became friends. Then I went to a cowboy church (because I'm a country boy) and met some really cool guys and some really pretty girls that liked a lot of stuff I do. Try to socialize! I mainly went to to cowboy church to go to church and I accidentally found people like me (which is rare in my case)

[dreamofdante]

Ask friends of friends. Try to make friends. I actually made some friends one day at a water park. We started out by a challenge to see who could get down the three story high water slide faster. Then we started walking around to different rides and we sorta became friends. Then I went to a cowboy church (because I'm a country boy) and met some really cool guys and some really pretty girls that liked a lot of stuff I do. Try to socialize! I mainly went to to cowboy church to go to church and I accidentally found people like me (which is rare in my case)

I think we come from different areas man....