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midnight424
November 23rd, 2013, 05:28 PM
My parents decided that i cant see my friend of now 11 years or even talk to her. There was a mistake i made that made them do this but it is still not fair that they are doing this when she was literally like my sane pill since school has been very crazy since i do both high school and college at one time.:(

Blood
November 23rd, 2013, 11:52 PM
Depending on how bad the mistake was, could you try talking to them and explaining how important she is to you?

ksdnfkfr
November 24th, 2013, 03:30 AM
Try gently and patiently to get them to have a change of heart.

PinkFloyd
November 24th, 2013, 03:45 AM
I'm in the same type of situation. My girlfriend of lke 3 year's parents are crazy, so they moved her thousands of miles away to a different country mainly because they don't like me.

What we do to cope with it is chat over like skype and whatnot. I'd recommend you doing that. It helps.

midnight424
November 24th, 2013, 12:34 PM
I royaly messed up so they won't even think about letting me see her or even talk to her so I have been trying to talk to her since my parents are not checking my Facebook or anything like that but we still haven't really been talking

tedheath
November 24th, 2013, 02:35 PM
Try sitting down with your parents and talking with them about why you need to be with your friend

midnight424
November 24th, 2013, 02:54 PM
They don't care I tried to see if I could go to her birthday party and my dad said too bad

TheBionicWorm
November 24th, 2013, 03:08 PM
If you don't mind me asking what was the mistake? Because that could change the situation entirely. I understand if you don't wish to talk about it but it would help us help you.

midnight424
November 24th, 2013, 04:40 PM
Basically what it was that her boyfriend was talking nasty to me a lot and would keep up with it so my parents don't trust him so since he is always with her and live with her now I can't see her. I then messed up again about it

Hundred Spirited God
November 24th, 2013, 05:00 PM
if your dad has a problem or is upset,talk to him and make him feel better,if not,try and hurt yourself,but not too much,reason why i say to do this is to change your dad,if he see's he's hurting you,then he'll feel sorry for what he did,if you dont want to do this,then think of what the best thing to do is

midnight424
November 24th, 2013, 09:07 PM
I really don't know what to do because my parents will not change their minds :(

mrpieface2
November 24th, 2013, 11:26 PM
Have a serious talk with them explaining why you need that friend in your life.

johndoe1112
November 25th, 2013, 03:04 AM
do the opposite of what they say and they will soon give up because if your talking to her at school then talk to her at school but there is you know skype and shit like that so talk to her through there

midnight424
November 25th, 2013, 07:20 AM
do the opposite of what they say and they will soon give up because if your talking to her at school then talk to her at school but there is you know skype and shit like that so talk to her through there

I have been trying to go against them a little bit by keeping a little interaction but I have reallybeen trying to be good