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Yoshi123
November 23rd, 2013, 12:01 AM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.

PPD777
November 23rd, 2013, 12:02 AM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.

Yeah it's normal I wish I could do that with my friend sometimes. I'm also str8. Oh and your just curious.

hockeyfan
November 23rd, 2013, 12:15 AM
It's normal. Next time u do this, only do it if u wang to, don't b talked into it

Beltway
November 23rd, 2013, 12:19 AM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.
its normal dont worry about it all your hormones are acting up its natural.

Thomas01
November 23rd, 2013, 12:33 AM
It's normal, haha a lot of people wpuld love that opportunity.

Whether you are straight or gay shouldn't really matter. Most likely you're curious though

ddbumblebee
November 23rd, 2013, 01:04 AM
Yeah man, totally normal, don't stress :)

nklarke
November 23rd, 2013, 02:08 AM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.

Started playing each other you mean like touching each other?

If it's that, I can't say it's the general rule but if you all were ok as curiosity is right.

I guess the reason why you and your friends didn't do this before is because you're now adolescents, before you were just kids.

Unsolvedmind
November 23rd, 2013, 03:04 AM
Yup totally normal just something not really to stress over

Cpt_Cutter
November 23rd, 2013, 03:24 AM
Started playing each other you mean like touching each other?

If it's that, I can't say it's the general rule but if you all were ok as curiosity is right.

I guess the reason why you and your friends didn't do this before is because you're now adolescents, before you were just kids.

Yeah, as said above it matters what you define as "playing with each other",
but you are just a horny teen like all teens, so its Fine.

Avamis
November 23rd, 2013, 04:08 AM
It is normal if u want it. If you don't want to do it so dont. It depends on you

Catholic Guy
November 23rd, 2013, 04:57 AM
It's normal it's just trying new things out nothing to worry about and just because you liked it doesn't make you gay

Saint of Sinners
November 23rd, 2013, 05:13 AM
I guess it isn't too strange, plenty of people are curious...

randomme
November 23rd, 2013, 05:24 AM
Completely normal tbh

ska8er
November 23rd, 2013, 05:29 AM
its normal dude. id like to b in Hawaii.
enjoy being horny with ur friends.

Luke91
November 23rd, 2013, 07:41 AM
What happened is very normal. Just a part of being curious and experimenting. Have fun.

Liam TWB
November 23rd, 2013, 08:59 AM
It's normal to try stuff like touching and maybe wanking each other, and it's harmless. The only thing likely to get damaged is your friendships if you felt awkward afterwards and avoided each other. If you were all ok with it, then just enjoy experimenting!

ryanpeterson832
November 23rd, 2013, 11:13 AM
Yeah its normal a lot of kids experiment when going through puberty.

deregisterme
November 23rd, 2013, 11:15 AM
That's completely normal, and I wish I had friends like that!

pjones
November 23rd, 2013, 11:20 AM
i skinny dip with my friends and we've done that a few times, no big deal. just having some fun

DeletedAccount123
November 23rd, 2013, 01:49 PM
This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all?

OK the first time I read this I thought you said you didn't like it, so I was like GAH that sucks, you need to tell your friends to stop pressuring you. But then I re-read it lol.

So yup, if everyone was ok with it then just consider it experimenting. Was one kid taking the lead? Like he was the main guy? Or were all three of you sort of equally into it?

lacheyman
November 23rd, 2013, 04:25 PM
yes its normal i wish i had friends like this ive done it before it brings youse closer together. im also straight and curious

alvin
December 4th, 2013, 11:18 PM
maybe its just curiois

kylem
December 4th, 2013, 11:48 PM
totally normal, its a combination of puberty and being horny and wanting to learn about your sexuality. Its all good we've all been there least one time!

kinger
December 5th, 2013, 06:45 PM
its totally normal me and best buddy mess around all the time i thinking it makes your friendship stronger

Dark Hatred
December 5th, 2013, 07:15 PM
Yeah it's normal I wish I could do that with my friend sometimes. I'm also str8. Oh and your just curious.

I agree.

McAK101
December 5th, 2013, 09:40 PM
Absolutely normal. You have nothing to worry about.

MilitaryBoy
December 5th, 2013, 10:17 PM
Yes. It is completely normal.

MechaSniper
December 5th, 2013, 10:32 PM
It`s compleatly normal for kids to be curious. There is no wrong of being curious.

salty
December 6th, 2013, 10:37 AM
Don't worry about it...normal

loki2000
December 6th, 2013, 12:36 PM
Up to you nothing wrong with it if you liked it....i would do it if it was me

Pittsburgh
December 6th, 2013, 01:25 PM
I think that would be uncomfortable

SoRandom
December 23rd, 2013, 09:31 AM
Puberty. :)

hermanthefish
December 23rd, 2013, 11:58 AM
Thats normal. Most people experiment with their friends at some point.

Gifford
December 27th, 2013, 04:28 PM
It's normal to try stuff like touching and maybe wanking each other, and it's harmless. The only thing likely to get damaged is your friendships if you felt awkward afterwards and avoided each other. If you were all ok with it, then just enjoy experimenting!

It's totally normal. Most str8 guys here on VT are curious, just like you said you are. How can you be sure you're str8 if you haven't tried fooling around with some guys? You'll never know if the shoe fits if you don't try it on! Also - you commented that you liked it. There's nothing wrong with that and it doesn't make you gay. You could turn out bi, but why the need for labels. If it feels good, do it. Like someone else said, the worst thing you could do is force yourself to be a certain way because society, religion, your parents or whatever else tells you you have to be a certain way.

Be true to yourself; be proud of the young man you are, you have no imperfections, and sexuality is a God-given gift to be enjoyed, not punished for. God doesn't care who you sleep with any more than He cares what sex you choose to love. What matters is THAT you love and the integrity and honesty and compassion you have for the person you love.

You've got lots of time to figure this all out. In the meantime, you and your friends enjoy life, enjoy your friendships, enjoy life and have fun. If it happens again, enjoy it. No judgement.

Put your friendship first. Lots of teens have their friends and have some benefits, too. I don't think that hurts anything unless one of you really doesn't want to. The reason is usually guilt. That leaves the rest of you to do what you want.

SacredB
December 27th, 2013, 04:33 PM
It's completely normal, you're just horny lol

Lyric
December 28th, 2013, 01:53 AM
Normal :P

ksdnfkfr
December 28th, 2013, 02:42 AM
Best buddies diddling around is not the same as gay sex.

Holdens
December 28th, 2013, 08:53 AM
Totally normal to experment

maxm2442
December 28th, 2013, 08:53 PM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.

lucky

dontfiguremeout
December 28th, 2013, 10:28 PM
If you're comfortable with it, then I guess it's fine. Just make sure you are comfortable with it.

mww113
December 28th, 2013, 10:32 PM
In this day and age, everyone seems to feel the need to attach labels to their sexuality. The question I pose to you is, why? Who cares if you're gay or straight or something in between? If you want to do something, you feel comfortable with it, and it's consensual, do it! Especially while you are young. We are young. Experimentation is normal and a healthy part of development.

KoolKid96
December 28th, 2013, 11:36 PM
So my two best friends and I, we usually go down to the beach quite a bit and have a good time, then afterwards we head back home and skinny dip in the pool to get the rest of the sand and stuff off because the water hoses by the pool are not very good at all. It got a little weird last weekend. We were relaxing in the pool and then all of a sudden before I knew it, we started playing with each other. This has never happened before and we have been skinny dipping together for a while now. I can't say I didn't like it. Is this normal at all? I always considered myself straight and just a little bit curious, but I don't know what to think about all this.

Well it is normal to experiment and be curious

Jtyler
December 28th, 2013, 11:49 PM
It's normal you guys were just messing around nothing to worry about

lacheyman
December 29th, 2013, 07:20 AM
its not gay man its curiousity alot of males have done it

Holdens
December 29th, 2013, 08:00 AM
Yeah it's normal I wish I could do that with my friend sometimes. I'm also str8. Oh and your just curious.

Were
December 29th, 2013, 11:28 AM
i guess your just curios,its normal