I don't really know how to bring this up

[tristian0714]

Today I was asked about my sexuality. The person saw that I kinda got annoyed. I wasn't annoyed that she asked, most peoples first impression of me is that I'm a girl or gay. I'm a guy and I don't really know if I'm gay. But I was asked by my two best friends if I was gay. I told them I dont know. And later on I was discussing this with one of them and two other people jones in on the conversation. It's really starting to bother me that one of them told someone else about this even though I told them not to do so. I have a pretty good idea which one if them it was and I don't know how to ask her if she told this person about our conversation please if someone could I would really appreciate it.

[Jay_Swagg_LOL]

Don't say an ything, just make sure not to tell her anything else from now on.

[ArtemisLianCrock]

Although it is hard to ask someone this, it is best to ask straight out. If she is your friend then she will tell you the truth. Even though it seems hard to deal with these kinds of situations, I had a friend who mentioned secrets to someone else with the best of intentions. That's human nature - thinking that we know what's best even if someone asks us to do something totally different.

[hockeyfan]

Tell them u will not b talking about ur sexuality with them until they grow up. If their real friends they'll understand.

[ksdnfkfr]

most peoples first impression of me is that I'm a girl or gay.

This made me laugh because I am in the same boat.
It is hard or imposable to keep some people from
being ignorant and or jerks, no matter what you say.

[skittles_was_here]

you need to ask her straight up, and hopefully she will tell the truth. if she says yes jjust let her know that you wont be letting her know anything else about it until you can trust her.