Conversations...

[Suave]

I want more lady friends just to talk to, no to date, but I my problem is not know what to talk about, or keep a conversation going. Also do you think it helps to make eye contact?? I have no problem doing that I was just wondering.

[Desuetude]

It depends on the girl. You have to work out their personality: if they're a laugh, if they get offended easily, if they outgoing or introverted - just as you would for a guy. Once you've talked for a while and worked out the basics you'll have things to talk about, jokes that will have been formed in the process. Sure make eye contact, it'd probably make her a little uncomfortable with you looking everywhere but her face but likewise with you staring straight into her eyes 24/7. Just do what comes naturally and don't force on a persona. Talk about your interests, ask her questions about hers. Find common likes and dislikes and base conversations around them. It's honestly how you would get to know anyone it shouldn't be any different than getting to know another guy.

[LouBerry]

Girls are just people. They are not creatures from another planet. Just talk about what you would talk to your guy friends about. Granted, some girls won't be into the same things you are, but some of them will. All my friends are guys, and they don't treat me any different. I'm just one of the guys, and sometimes it's nice. Girls like knowing that they aren't friends, not sex toys.