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Kochanek
November 22nd, 2013, 04:32 AM
Question to boys and girls:

I recognize for me, that after a couple of weeks without having sex masturbation does not help anymore. I masturbate anyway, because without masturbation I would drive crazy all the more. But it only gives certain relief of hornyness but no real satisfction of desire.

And what is funny about it:
If I am with a girl then I don't need real sex to feel satisfied afterwards, I don't even need to have an orgasm. It already satisfies me to get her an orgasm maybe with my fingers or tongue.

How is it for you?
Are you satisfied only by masturbation in the long run?

P.S.: Sorry for my bad English :-(

JamesSuperBoy
November 22nd, 2013, 10:15 AM
Question to boys and girls:

I recognize for me, that after a couple of weeks without having sex masturbation does not help anymore. I masturbate anyway, because without masturbation I would drive crazy all the more. But it only gives certain relief of hornyness but no real satisfction of desire.

And what is funny about it:
If I am with a girl then I don't need real sex to feel satisfied afterwards, I don't even need to have an orgasm. It already satisfies me to get her an orgasm maybe with my fingers or tongue.

How is it for you?
Are you satisfied only by masturbation in the long run?

Every one is different - but the great thing is knowing and recognizing how you feel and what works.

Hermes
November 22nd, 2013, 11:51 AM
I think you have discovered the need for intimacy. The way you have described it, it is a more important need than sexual release and once you have it you don't need the sexual release.

I wouldn't say the same is true for me - I feel like I need both. Sex happens to provide both in the same package.

My girlfriend is really into the intimacy short of, or prior to, sex. Hugging, kissing, back scratching etc. I like it but it tends to make me more horny rather than less. Often it leads to sex, sometimes not. Sometimes I get her off and she seems to get more horny too and we end up having sex. Other times she seems to end up tired and completely satisfied and I end up finishing myself off. We've talked it through and I have basically said it is up to her if we go all the way on any particular occasion, I would never force her, of course, or apply a lot of pressure, though I will make sure she knows I am horny and up for it, but if she gets me horny I will want to cum somehow and she is fine with it.

So, whatever satisfies the needs of intimacy and to cum is fine.

Mich015
December 21st, 2013, 12:14 PM
I masturbate at least 5 times a day, i love it but sex will definitely give me a deeper satisfaction then i can get from masturbating but not always stronger orgasms. If that makes sence lol. Girls usually give me a stronger orgasm then boys too.