ok so this girl

[goin to work]

i talk about her last week and how i rlly like her and how every one says i have no chance
how evr i have givian it a week and lik we still talk over aim all the time i and in hisrory class
and shes always hanging all over me but idk if is lik friendly hanging of i want to blow u hanging sno comeing is dis weekend should i make my move then some one plz help

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, I wouldn't just dive in. Take your time to talk to her, see how she responds, and if she's really friendly and receptive, then maybe make a move

[goin to work]

ic anny more sugestions anny one

[Serenity]

I always think of relationships as a pyramid, ranging from an aquaintence to marriage. Obviously, neither of you are even considering that peak so right now just work on the lower half of the pyramid. One of my mottos is that you can't have a relationship without friendship, and I don't think talking for a week constitutes a real friendship. I just think if you were to ask her out now it might be a little awkward, so try just hanging out as friends- like going to a movie, or bowling, or something like that. Maybe bring some more people along with you, to make it like low-stress and high-fun :daisy:

[goin to work]

thanks val

[Serenity]

Any time :daisy:

[byee]

well, based on your description of her behvior, we can assume she likes you. The question is, in what way?

Keep doing what you are, just get comfortable talking and being with her and feeling relaxed and confident. When you're there, you'll know, and it will come out very naturally.

When it feels right, just very casually and matter of factly ask her if she'd like to do something (different) with you, like meet for a burger somewhere or go downtown and hang or something, something like, "hey, I gtg, but thanks for the chat. Let's meet this W/E at the diner."

People have a natural inclination to want to be together, and they send signals about their readiness for it. Just keep your radar on and keep your anxiety in check and you'll get it just fine.

[The Batman]

Like Val said just try to hang out as friends but maybe alone at the movies just don't try and rush things and don't think of her as a future girlfriend just a good friend at the movies

[goin to work]

i got another questian how do i ask her out if i werr to and ilik relly lik her and its geting hard to talk to her how do i cope wit dis

[Christheman]

Woo her and don't rush into it

[georgiamay]

Please don't bump old threads, this is from 2008. :locked: