overthinking in a relationship

[Paladino]

I felt like my girlfriend wasn't right for me(I dont know why) and when I went to split up with her I just couldn't do it, I love her too much to let her go and she loves me so much as well I can tell by the way she is around me and how upset she gets when we argue. I felt sad and started to feel like I was missing her and the memories already when I went to do it then we talked about it and I met her today and she came to my house and everything was fine as normal, so I don't understand what is going on?

[ImCoolBeans]

If you're in love with each other and she makes you happy then why isn't she right for you? You seem to care about her quite a lot.

[Paladino]

There is nothing there that suggests she isn't which is why I think its just my mind fucking with me, I googled it and yahoo answers had a girl who has the exact same problem and it seems like she was just over thinking as well so its all good I think.

[Harley Quinn]

Over thinking is normal in a relationship, I think everyone does it at some point or another. The thing is, don't let it get carried away. If you think she loves you and you love her, then I don't think you really need to be worried about it. Unless you know for sure she isn't the right one for you, I think you need to think that through but to be honest it doesn't sound like there's really an issue. You just need to change the thoughts you're thinking and stop over analysing the situation, if you're not meant to together, I think you'd know by now. But yes, over thinking is a common thing.

[Paladino]

Okay thanks man