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mrpieface2
November 21st, 2013, 11:02 PM
Hello everyone. Before I ask the question, Im sorry if I offend anyone.. I'm kinda nervous asking this question cause I just don't want to offend boys or girls here. Okay here it goes...( Can't ya tell I'm nervous ;) )

So girls, this is a question from a 14 year old boy( not horny or anything, just curious ). So how do you feel when you notice a guy is looking at you, like your breasts and butt, etc.? Do you like it? Are you offended? Thanks for taking the time to read this. ( sorry if I offended anyone D: )

Seemyheart
November 22nd, 2013, 12:00 AM
Okay, in all honesty, it's flattering and an ego boost, not in a snobby way though... that's just me, idk about anyone else, but when I see guys checking me out, I play it off and just smile back but it gives me more confidence and self esteem.
And don't worry, you didn't offend

mrpieface2
November 22nd, 2013, 12:03 AM
*phew!*. Thanks for the reply! Yeah, I just noticed some friends of mine checking out a girl in school today, and the girl didn't look to happy about it so.... Yeah lol. Thanks again

Seemyheart
November 22nd, 2013, 12:17 AM
No problem!

Wildsassygirl
November 23rd, 2013, 08:58 PM
I like them looking, sometimes I show off just to make boys look.

Katelyn6
November 24th, 2013, 01:43 AM
We'll first, I don't see how you could offend someone by this. But secondly, I'd be sort of flattered. Unless it's in a creepy kind of way, then of course not.

hoboliz
November 24th, 2013, 04:11 AM
Yeah, we don't wear bras and make up and high heels for fun. I mean, there are lots of reasons, but the attention is one.

OhSweetMaple
November 24th, 2013, 06:06 AM
I like them looking, sometimes I show off just to make boys look.

Same here

Sandra Main
November 24th, 2013, 07:17 AM
Not offended by him looking just flattered.
I hope he likes what he sees

Tarannosaurus
November 24th, 2013, 08:21 AM
Not really offended if it's a glance I don't wear revealing clothing anyway. I get annoyed if it's a proper stare/leer with no attempt to hide it and the boy doesn't look apologetic if I catch him - like he feels it's his god given right to stare at me.

bethgirl1986
November 24th, 2013, 08:38 AM
Not offended unless he's a creeper. As long as he's not creepy about it, it's kinda fun and actually a bit of a turn-on.

Taryn98
November 24th, 2013, 09:52 AM
I take it as a compliment so I don't mind at all.

Karabear
November 25th, 2013, 05:38 PM
I find it a huge self esteem booster!

shotgungirl
November 25th, 2013, 09:06 PM
Not really offended if it's a glance I don't wear revealing clothing anyway. I get annoyed if it's a proper stare/leer with no attempt to hide it and the boy doesn't look apologetic if I catch him - like he feels it's his god given right to stare at me.

I was gonna say something very similar to this. A glance or double take is cool. Whatevs. If your eyes stay peered to me, I am a confrontational enough female that I will probably make it known that you can take your beady eyes somewhere else. lol.

cherylcherylX2
November 26th, 2013, 10:00 AM
Hello everyone. Before I ask the question, Im sorry if I offend anyone.. I'm kinda nervous asking this question cause I just don't want to offend boys or girls here. Okay here it goes...( Can't ya tell I'm nervous ;) )

So girls, this is a question from a 14 year old boy( not horny or anything, just curious ). So how do you feel when you notice a guy is looking at you, like your breasts and butt, etc.? Do you like it? Are you offended? Thanks for taking the time to read this. ( sorry if I offended anyone D: )

It depends on a few other things too, like group size, location, time, etc.

It's mostly flattering, but when it's on a quiet road in the middle of the night and some drunk guy is doing it, it's pretty scaary.

heyChelsea
November 26th, 2013, 12:01 PM
I guess it depends on who the guy is and what type of "stare" it is, if like I'm in a bathing suit and the stare lasts and lasts, that's uncomfortable, but if like normal clothes and walking down the hall and a cute guy looks and smiles, I like that and start to blush usually, lol

hoboliz
November 26th, 2013, 01:35 PM
Yeah, it's not the looking that offends me. I like getting good attention. It's the dumb hollers and pick up lines that accompany the stare. Like I'm so dumb or desperate... That's what's really disrespectful, imo.

ccof97
November 26th, 2013, 02:14 PM
I like the attention. Just like all of the other girls, it is a big confidence booster when a guy checks you out. I sometimes dress just to get attention lol. And sometimes, if the guy is cute, I'll give him a little show, but I am also kind of a slut. Haha

anyone50
November 26th, 2013, 06:47 PM
would depend on who's looking and how there are looking. generally if it's someone close to my age up to mid 20s I'm usually flattered but if some fat 40 or 50 year old guy can you say ewwww

mermaidfairy
November 26th, 2013, 07:33 PM
If he's not being creepy, I don't care. I don't comment but I guess it feels all right.

SkootuGurl
November 27th, 2013, 11:29 AM
I don't mind a guy appreciating my body, but if that's the only thing about me he can appreciate then he can go fuck off and die.